When a reviewer exaggerates his own abilities [for example, the always polular : I ponded her for 20 minutes and drove her to a succession of shuddering Os], does that effect your impression of his performance ratings of the provider?

Would it effect it more for a positive review or for a neative review?

I presume the guy had a good time with the gal, and that's what I want to know, mainly.

So I'm not really 19 1/2 minutes under the average?

Some of these guys must be the grestest lover's in the history of mankind.  I think it is harmless as long as it doesn't put unrealistic expectations on the provider.

I like to read erotica sometimes too....but on TER i would like to find some kernel of truth.

She even told me that my wife must be a real lucky woman to have a stud like myself for a husband.  I can't tell you the amount of times the lady has told me that she should have paid me for the session (though, oddly enough, none of them have given the donation back).

There actually have been a few ladies I passed over due to some of the graphic portrails noted in their reviews.

As I've said, over the past few years, I sometimes wonder who actually is being reviewed. Likewise, I wonder if providers don't check the reviews of potential clients to get some idea of what they expect, based on "past performance".

Guys who like to talk about themselves annoy me but they are still capable of offering some useful information. If a only see one or two reviews and one of them is "that guy" I may be a little hesitant to book. If the gal has many good reviews and stud boy gives her a bad one it ususaly means he was asking for something that she was uncomfortable giving him so I don't usually count it as a strike against the lady.
Funny, my ATF's and I have had a few good laughs about some of the guys that they have been reviewed by. My take away has been that the ones who brag the most in print are pretty forgettable in the bedroom.

When I review I try to be as truthful about the event as possible. I am very careful not to over exaggerate (sp?) my situation . I want to give future hobbyist an accurate view of the experience so they can judge for themselves if a particular lady is right for them.

Its important for me that ladies read some of these reviews to determine if we will have a positve experience together..As an example when a lady reads some of my escapades it should be pretty clear that DATY is very important to me on a date.

In lieu of trying to help providers with their future business I will write the review very soon after the date; I personally enjoy sitting with my computer in a Starbucks, Coffee Bean, or Peetes Coffee and generating the review.

I have never taken my computer to an incall appointment. When I am with a beautiful woman I have other interests more important than computer bs..

When I travel around seeing clients and stay in hotels overnight I will have my computer in the room so that I can do my business prior to the lady arriving. I get pretty nervous in the hotel room prior to the lady coming over (the women we have here on TER are so beautiful) & getting some work done helps me relax.

Ofcourse whence the lady arrives & I open a nice red Zinfandel things only get better.

On the end of things I will look for ladies who have been reviewed by credable hobbyists. A lady with one review from an unknown source (who has no previous reviews) will not get my motivation.  

who write reviews and make themselves out to be studs. So what? It doesn't mean that the lady didn't do her job well, it just means he was a bit nuerotic about his own skills and wants to look like the man. I'd read a good sampling of her reviews to get a clearer picture of who she is and what time with her is like rather than relying on one guy. There will always be that one review where the reviewer makes himself out to be a stallion, there will always be one review where she's villified and one review that gives you a clearer picture of who she is...

Katie

My reviews extoll the lady, always.  My ego is not relevant to other hobbyists nor providers.  
I combine beauty, attitude, eroticism, insatiability, and skills of my very few companions.  As just one example, I recently found a lady who is a very rare (never) 10/10 who combined all the attributes mentioned above. I've not reviewed her for her personal preference.  If I were 40 yrs younger, she would never escape, ever.  Have you heard the expression "I would crawl on my hands and knees through broken glass just to inhale her scent."  Fifty years of a hundred women, and this one is the zenith.

You are a very lucky man.  I guess once we reach a certain age we have a different understanding of and appreciation for such things.

I can also understand why you would not want to share her with the world.

Certainly affects my impression of the reviewer, but as to the lady, I find that it's hard to conclude much one way or another from a review like that. I tend to look for some consistent themes in the credible reviews and not give much attention to the ones that are over the top in some manner. Similarly, I tend not to put too much stock in a really negative review of a lady who otherwise has positive reviews. Sometimes, two people just don't click, and that doesn't necessarily mean that I would not enjoy time with that particular lady.

Thanks.  I've been lucky to meet another spectacular lady, tall, exquisite blonde, and exceeding all expectations and selection criteria. So, now I have two who bring great joy and passion into this old mans life.  Bless Phoenix, we are all so fortunate here.

You have to take it with a grain of salt.  When I was younger I couldn't last 20 minutes and now that I'm over 50, I still can only go FS for so long before my cup runneth over.

pace yourself babe. Concentrate...

right away.  So doing 20 minutes...yep can do.

Wish I had been blessed with a bigger tool, be a better kisser, also better at DATY and....damn, I guess I suck.

shoot is it now a pitty party? I hate those...

and the glass is half empty before you know it!

I am in to meet wonderful ladies, get into the panties of as many of them as possible without getting slapped and seeing just what limts can be pushed this time and which I will have to work on next time and did I mention have a hell of a lot of fun doing it?

Next lady please...gotta run have fun!

oxOXox

PS

but let's face it, out of pages of reviews, there will always be guys who lie... some lie to feel better about their performance (I went all night type of shit) and to make themselves look better for their inadequacies (she was so fat I couldn't get it up type shit) and etc...

Just a part of life on here...

Katie

Contrary to popular belief, they are a few studs out there that are skilled lovers & have great stamina. If stamina’s your main problem area, take your ass to the gym. If we all were such bad lovers, many ladies wouldn’t be here, even if the money is nice. I get so sick and tired of reading all the low self-esteem quips - small penis, 2minute man, Mr. Soft Serve & on and on. I feel like I should take some antidepressants after reading some of these responses. Even though I have great stamina, I don’t feel the need to pound a woman for the duration of the session, I have nothing to prove. I give accurate details in my reviews, majority of the women believe it or not enjoy being with me.

FOR GOODNESS SAKE, STOP ALL THE GENERALIZATION.