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My secret life of hobbying
nutandbolt 62 Reviews 2723 reads
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I don't discuss my hobbying life with friends or family or co-workers and I like it that way. One day I came home from hobbying and my adult daughter and her husband were staying with me for a few months and they were looking at a website for Providers and I'm looking over there shoulders and asking what are you doing and they said it was brought up on the radio about hot providers in Chicago. So they were trying to pick one out for me and I'm thinking been there done that. I said no way thats not for me. Ha Ha. If only they knew or do they?

My guess is, they found some sites on your computer and figured out that you were looking at escorts.
I'd just go with the flow and enjoy.

Swim

pick one out for their threeway.  Maybe you could watch?  Just a thought.

tyvm425 reads

Dude, it's his daughter.  5 Hail Mary's and 2 Our Father's for you in penance.

ONe time I was looking at some of the women on Eros when my wife came into my study and saw it.  She laughed at the fact that I was looking at "porn sites."   Secrets are often kept by the fact that the wife does not think you are capable of doing what you are doing.  That is true in my case.

caught my s/o looking at escort sites, just glad he hadn't seen mine. That would have been a big Oops...Told him I don't approve and the "looking" is the first step. Don't know if he still looks but he is doing it less often now.

tokai482 reads

Ok, I can understand a guy keeping hobbying secret from SO. She can't easily search for him.

I can also understand a Provider keeping that a secret from an SO that does not hobby.

However, once the SO of a Provider starts searching escort sites, if she is advertising, it seems like he is going to come across her pretty quickly. Even if she hides her face, I could pick out my SO from just a body shot.

The exception might be for a big city like NY, LA, Chicago, where there are lots of ladies, and it would take a long time to look at them all.

Best wishes.

My assumptions are as follows.....

1) A known active provider with an SO
2) said SO does not know she is a provider - or has was a provider... or anything about her providing history....
3) SO is searching for escorts...
4) presumably said provider - "provides" the same sexual energy that hobbiests associate with sex with a provider to her SO.
5) Said SO was careless enough to get caught....

I'm gonna have to think about this......  

but off the top of my head... How the #$##@ did this happen???!?  

I suspect that he already sees providers - but that is just my guess.....   and what does he think you do for a living?!??????   these and many other questions.... but the biggest one is - ARE YOU HORNY!!!!    I gotta think that you are one hot chick!  But even hornier is your SO!  lol!!!!

I know its a curse...I am horny...but more than that I am Passionate, and Sensual and crave Intimacy...I just Love all aspects of this the whole Experience.
I am also very low volume, see mostly reg clients a few new friends here and there, but he thinks I have a job.
The real trouble is, he doesnt work, doesnt need to. So it's a juggling act keeping him out of my affairs.
oh and no he doesnt see a provider, just amazed at the woman who do this. He thinks they are all selling themselves short.
He is horny...but take care of him. He won't get better than what he has. He's a lucky guy.

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I left a providers web page open on the computer and my wife found it. Took some quick thinking when questioned about it.

I really don't care if he looks or not...just protecting My assets so to speak...Keepin him out of my backyard.

"Keepin him out of my backyard."  So, I guess Greek is out of the question?  Sorry, couldn't resist - LOL

No he gets what ever he wants...Greek included. I'm so Naughty!!!

It always seems that whenever family wants to get together for dinner, I have a liason already planned!  And the liason always wins...I wonder why?  ;) .  Plausible deniabilty is a good thing here...be sure you have that!

most of my friends know that I go to strip clubs...  several months back when a stripper with whom I had several sessions with drugged me...   well I did comment on that to a very few close buddies of mine.... they were curious... but as I am single it has minimal impact....  Odd thing is that some are jealous... due to the wives that they have....

If people who marry could keep the "flame of passion" alive - this hobby would have far fewer participants...  read the reviews.... yea - some are about the sex.... but most - well they are about the personal connection associated with the sex.....    bottle it- make a billion.

Yeah, me 2, I have one friend who was into the game far before me, it got so bad for him he went sex addiction class, I've only experienced it 3x's with a provider, excluding vacations and that's only been twice. My other friend to was pretty bad and perverse but he has no idea I share in his appreciation.

I'm trying to come to terms with it, I'm getting bored with old fashioned sex and traditional girls. I've used CL twice, 1st time, oh my god ... horrible, waste of time, and she was like you are going to call again, and I'm like sure, bitch I didn't even bust and you were bitching about you had to leave?  And she wouldn't stop calling me.  I'm like are you serious, you really think your crack addict a$$ is worth my time.  The 2nd CL experience two girl experience alot better.  I didn't review either experience, but I might.

I'm personally looking for an all-star, drop dead georgeous, I'm not saying money is no object but I'd rather pay for quality, in the mood now for mixed black and whatever, does anal, super freaky,  CIM (although I wonder how safe a girl can be, if she lets you CIM and she's a provider, I've only had a couple regular girls who would even consider it).  But with them you know what you have to spend like time developing with a regular girl, yawnnnnnn.... what happened to the days when just getting a piece of pussy was enough.  I think my biggest thing is getting over the safety issue, she is a provider after all. Anyway, give me a recommendation guys, on any that can provide that over the top experience for me.

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