Does anyone know if it's true that if you massage the prostate you can cum more than once but without the sexual release?
If this is true does anyone know a lady that can make it happen?

Every man determines how he will cum with a prostate massage, depending on his own sexual evolution. Will he ejaculate? Will he not? He determines this inside his own mind. Some men like a prostate massage as an added stimulation, (while recieving oral on thier penis and balls.) Others may practice tantric sex and be on a higher metaphysical level. Others do it because... well, EACH man is different and in a different stage of their sexual development. Prostrate massage is enjoyed for a variety or reasons, and each man has his own reason for doing it.
In general, I find most men who want ultimate stimulation will enjoy all their sensitive areas massaged at the same time: Oral or touching on penis and balls at same time, some want nipple stimulation, and then activity around the asshole, could be kissing it, or vibrator or finger. Most men who request prostate massage, are men who have read alot and have accepted their bodies and faced any taboos. The kind of man who will cum from a prostate massage without ejaculating, is one who has done their share of keegals, or has tapped into tantra sex, or is very sexually advanced, or on a spiritual level (closing their eyes and letting their body have full control over the mind or any fear).
So this is my info, based on my own experience with giving prostate massage, and hearing my lovers explain things to me. I'd guess that 2 out of 30 men would cum without ejaculation. And Ive not seen many who cum without ejaculation, doing it several times in a row.
I once had a boyfriend who sometimes chose to orgasm without ejaculation, and when he did this kind of orgasm, he couldnt hear or see anything for about 5 minutes. I had to call his name, over and over, for 5 minutes before he came back to reality. Im not sure where he went off to... but it was certainly on a higher spiritual level, where i knew he had totally embraced his sexuality and body, leaving any moral taboo behind or expectation of what the body can or cannot do... he just let his animal instinct rule him and his body and soul followed, giving him a magnificent orgasm that was out of this world!
I wish all men this kind of orgasm, this is an ultimate discovery of your body and soul, however the selfish side of me, just really loves to see cum spurting out, in my mouth, face, wherever.. its just so sexy to me!


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I am experimenting with new things, to give some of my clients the ultimate orgasmic session.

I offer prostate stimulation (not massage) combined with some of my own techniques.

I've been reading couple of very old books a client of mine brought me from Europe, about speeding and delaying orgasms using pressure points.

I am a novice on this kind of skills, still learning the proper points, but I can assure you it works.

So far, I had three clients this week who were the perfect candidates for my "tease & delay" sessions, which I combined with prostate play.

I was able to bring them to the edge few times, with all the spasms of ejaculation, with cum coming all the way up to the tip of their heads and then make it stop...reversing the orgasm, using only my thumb with the right pressure in a certain spot.

Is a very powerful feeling and been able to control is almost painful, but at the end, the release is VERY intense.

I have to say is not something I can do with every client I see, because I need a man who is very receptive & sensitive, totally in tune with what I am doing to him.


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a rare and special experience.  I've experienced close to it twice where I was taken to a physical plane that was spiritual, and I was only in touch with what I was feeling- physically and emotionally, unaware of the remainder of the physical surroundings.  The intensity was absolutely amazing.

In it's true interpretation sexually, Le Petite Mort (The little death) is exactly what you described your boyfriend experiencing.  What a special sharing.

The "techniques" of getting there I believe involve very little the so called technique, but much more the state of mind of the participants and the special connection between them at the time, and the ability to be open enough to experience on a spiritual plane.

I've had it happen once with a provider, and once early on with my wife.  Very memorable, and you unfortunately can't chase it- it just has to happen!

If you are willing Florafaun, I'd like to discuss this by pm!





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Good guess! He was a french man! And yes, "Le Petite Mort" is what he experienced with me. I think when lust and love are equal at the time of orgasm, "le petite mort" is experienced.

you are so very interesting to talk to: i pm'd you

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I find it works best with 'metasexual' men..
When they are in-tune with themselves sexually and very open..

Saying prostate massage can make you com more than once, is like saying getting new sneakers can help you run a marathon.  While the sneakers might help, they are a small part of a whole training program.


What you are looking for is Tantra.  

Tantric training can teach you to have multiple orgasms, and prostate massage can be part of that training.  

Don't just go for any person who uses Tantra as a buzzword on their site.  You want someone who does the real thing.  I recommend Bast out of San Francisco, or Chandra Devi, if she ever comes out of retirement.

Check out the Goddess Temple web site.  Most (but not all) of the women there are the real deal.

to heaven" Cindy Spice in SinCity has wealth of knowledge on this subject and she is an excellent practitioner of this rare art.
Omm.

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I was just barely resisting calling the legendary Betty. Now what am I going to do?  
Tantrika Betty is a mind blowing concept.  If you ever come to Long Island, let me know.  If you do come, be careful, LE on LI are nuts.

I absolutely love the new look of your website.

I poured all my creativity into my website, hoping it would present to everyone all that I am, giving as many clues as I can about myself, in order to help you decide if Im the kind of girl you'd like to...

"the selfish side of me, just really loves to see cum spurting out, in my mouth, face, wherever.. its just so sexy to me!"..


I new god created the perfect woman. ;p

-m

For the guys and ladies who want to help the guys explore prostate work.. I would recommend the Aneros. Guys can achive multiple orgasms easily.

Not easily...but it does work!!!

A hot bubble bath prepared, a nice back massage with Avacodo Oil, and I'll wash you with a French linen cloth. You can decide how else I can take care of you, (but I hope it involves us sharing orgasms). Kisses x Flora