I can tell you about what goes down. Most times on outcalls we just verify the guy is under the name he says at the hotel, and the room number. Then, we run his name through a site like verifyhim.com
The girl shows up, he is not happy, and never opens the door. Then, he calls us back saying he wants another girl, but that's too damn bad. If her photos were accurate, you knew what she looked like, so we are not sending yet another girl out to be toyed with. The very least he could do is open the door, and then say he is not interested but don't just leave her standing there like a jackass. Some guys get off on this type of behavior though, so like you...I don't deal with them. You come to ME or we are not meeting lol.I am out of my home area and visiting another state... I just had a call to meet someone 25 mins away.. I called verified all information. I arrived to the destination and noone answered door, no phone calls, etc...
Then I recieved a txt asking me where I was..... Really? I have never had this happen before..
Does this occur often when visiting...
Especially when you're using google nav. Check the address again.
with screening, if he was playing games, easy to put him on blast.
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they should be like hanged or something. Not only will that make costs higher for the boys, but also make appointment procedure a lot more burdensome. This is really devastating especially for honest newbies. Not to mention poor gals spending like $20 or whatever on make ups for no good night.
At least where I am, there can be a named stretch of asphalt but it can be a St., Ave., Rd., Dr., Terrace, Blvd., etc, all in different parts of the city. Then, some cities, like Boston, have large neighborhoods (Alston, Brighton) that are still considered Boston on some maps. So now you can head for "X" St. in Alston when you should be at "X" St. in Charlestown. In NYC, "X St" in Manhattan is not the same as "X St" in Brooklyn, Queens or the Bronx. Some cities have streets that sound the same on the phone: Beach St, Beech St, Beatch St.
Locals should know the ambiguities out of towners face and avoid those problems with careful directions and key landmarks that every local (gas station attendant) should know. If the guy is also from out of town, he won't know either and you're like two ships lost at sea.
Sorry about your wasted time and trouble. I hope it was just a mistake and not anything malicious
The competition!
It's not unheard of that providers will conspire to keep traveling providers from successful tours. They will get their white knights and shills to do the dirty work for them.
OTOH NCNS's are common on both sides. You may have run across one of the many flakes the hobby has to offer.
Yes, this is true as well, but those women generally get theirs. You can't get ahead when you're dirty...that's just a fact. Eventually, what you put out comes back to you.
I am not much of a believer in letting the universe give them payback, but some times there's just not much you can do. That's why the cowardly bitches (both male and female) fight their battles that way, They're too chicken shit to fight any other way.
in the same city.
So I was at one, and she was at another. It pays to be very specific about the address.
For example, Manhattan has a Sheraton New Yorker and a Sheraton Manhattan just a couple of blocks from each other. Be sure to get the exact address or you'll be knocking on the wrong door.
The Hotel (which I won't name) had two adjacent hi-rise buildings. One was the business center and the other building was the one with the guest rooms. Stupid me I walked into the business one, took the elevator up; that's when I realized something was wrong since the floor she told me didn't exist. I called her back an told her I can't find her room #. Finally, I asked someone and they told me I was in the wrong building. Fortunately, It was next door so I was only about 15 minutes late - which she was very gracious about taking into account.
A few gals had posted this in the past and so now there ARE tricks to looking up
I've never had it happen to me, but I rarely do outcall, and when I do outcall, the guy is verified to the point that I just don't see it happening.
So when you say that everything checked out, I would like to know what info you had when you screened him, and how you verified it.
There are a lot of games that guys will play, and I have been fooled a time or two, but with experience you learn to watch for / guard against them.
I can tell you about what goes down. Most times on outcalls we just verify the guy is under the name he says at the hotel, and the room number. Then, we run his name through a site like verifyhim.com
The girl shows up, he is not happy, and never opens the door. Then, he calls us back saying he wants another girl, but that's too damn bad. If her photos were accurate, you knew what she looked like, so we are not sending yet another girl out to be toyed with. The very least he could do is open the door, and then say he is not interested but don't just leave her standing there like a jackass. Some guys get off on this type of behavior though, so like you...I don't deal with them. You come to ME or we are not meeting lol.
I searched my real name kept seeing results like "time-waster", dead-beat" "didn't pay" "no show" it showed me visitng states I've never been in! Off course it says "please register" next to each entry so maybe it was just a "teaser" to get someone to register/pay to see "real" results. I've seen posts on TER before that say some of these are run by "of-shore" companies and are little more than scams?
I am not going to go into details, but I can tell you...you are only seeing HALF of the report. Once you are in there, you will see that many people with your real name don't match up to YOU. It is only a partial report of everyone with that same name, and not even the same middle name. If the guy's email, name, and phone number ALL don't match up, then the bs reports are not on you. That's the key. Yes, you have to pay lol.
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I have a VERY unique last name (the only one in the U.S. from all the searches I've done)- I'm hardly "John Smith" of "Bob Jones" if you were to google my Exact name you will find my Facebook, Linkedin, my work related websites, my photo; no one else. That's why when I went on that site today and saw all this BS I was furious and questioned the validity of that site. My guess (hope) is that they just give you a "random sample" of what a search looks like and if you pay you will see a legit report!
BTW - Whois shows it is privacy protected but all the registration and contacts are out of Queensland Australia (not if that matters).
I can PM you my name and you can run me - now I'm very curious
There's about 8 people with my last name in the US, since it's an invented name from the WW2 days. I have 0 results when using the last name only, but about 80 when I use my first name which is fairly common. It's likely grabbing my first name and a closely-spelled last name for those results. Did you try just your last name?
BTW - Whois shows it is privacy protected but all the registration and contacts are out of Queensland Australia (not if that matters).
I can PM you my name and you can run me - now I'm very curious.
Some of these gutless wonders, who coincidently are sometimes some of the biggest internet tough guys, just don't have the balls to tell a woman to her face that she is not what he is looking for. I guess it's easier to complain to a voice over the telephone than to a real breathing human being face to face, Gutless cowards.
I will say that I have NEVER turned away a woman at the door if she was the woman in the pics, I have however turned away several B&S hookers that have shown up looking nothing like the gorgeous hottie in the pics. and I haven't given any of them so much as a nickel for wasting MY time.
J/K LOL! That's just a humorous take on the tired mantra that finding a provider on BP is risky.
Of course, booking from ANY SITE is risky if the provider does not have reviews, so it's not just BP. Providers who advertise here without reviews are also considered risky, but at least they have the common sense to post on a reputable board where there are thousands of reputable providers and clients.
Maybe he had more providers n mind. You may have answered first but weren't really his first choice. Even after both agreed on the date he may have tried his first choice again and she answered. He just wasn't nice enuff to cancel with you?
It happens.
Samiam