I really really like doing doubles appointments.
I find it extremely exciting to have two people to touch me, and two people whom I can touch.
(Which is understandable because Ms Jones & I get into it)
But how do you know you won't be able to handle it? Is it the anxiety of meeting two providers whom you don't know if they are friendly or not?
Is it monetary concern?
Is is worry that you'll be expected to 'perform'?
I'm horny lol and sometimes her mouth isn't enough.
And it depends on what a guy is really seeking.
Some gals are lesbian and get into each other..A LOT
Some gals are hetero and will play bi for bucks.
If a dude is looking for a particular type of session (as in all about him) best to find the bi for bucks gals. If he's seeking a voyeuristic show...nothing like a couple of (either very bi) lesbians performing for him.
As well all those types of sessions are quite negotiable. But the dudes here are too afraid to set the fees for that gig. Others are happy to pay double the rates for half the fun. Whatever LOL
As for some dude's performance...this board isn't for reviewing a john. Although many johns aren't shy of telling the readers how great they are/were
I find it extremely exciting to have two people to touch me, and two people whom I can touch.
I get told by some guys that they don't think they can handle a 3 sum...
(Which is understandable because Ms Jones & I get into it)
But how do you know you won't be able to handle it?
Is it the anxiety of meeting two providers whom you don't know if they are friendly or not?
Is it monetary concern?
Is is worry that you'll be expected to 'perform'?
I'm horny lol and sometimes her mouth isn't enough.
My first doubles appointment was with two ladies I already knew separately, so when I found out they also knew each other, I was confident we'd have a good time. And it turned out to be a fantastic session. Any concerns I had about not knowing what to focus on/being overstimulated were unwarranted.
I think as long as your client trusts you and you work out any concerns ahead of time there shouldn't be any issue. I'm not sure I'd go into a doubles session "cold" (no experience with either lady), but as long as i was comfortable with one of them I'd go for it.
That's far from the case for most of us.
I have had dozens of threesomes over the years, even a foursome, but very few of them were "all that"
Also some guys are looking for different things from a threesome than others, some guys are thrilled just to get a lesbian show, or want it to be "all about him" and some guys are somewhere in between.
I find myself much closer to the "all about me" camp and I don't really enjoy interacting with a truly lesbian couple, I've done it before and felt more like a spectator than a participant when the ladies are "too much" into each other, to the extent that I start getting ignored.
I also hate stopping to change condoms, it seems to take away the debauchery of the experience, Female condoms are a decent solution to that problem IF of course you can find two FC friendly women.
IMHO threesomes are OK, but overrated as far as I am concerned. although I do have some fond memories of a few outstanding ones. One was my very first threesome with two civvies, well before HIV was a concern, two hot teenagers (I was only 17 myself) six hits of acid (two apiece) and about a twelve hour blue of sex. Almost forty years later and thousands of women, and I don't think I have ever topped this experience, but those days of drugged up, no consequences, bareback sex are unfortunately a thing of the past.
A fucking disaster. I was really into the one girl, but could care less about her girlfriend. She kept interfering and trying to insert herself, the hot one I really liked kept trying to engage her friend, I'm looking and groping around like WTF. In the end it was like the Three Stooges having a circle jerk!
I'm sure it would be different with some of the ladies on TER, but honestly, that ship has sailed for me. And I'm not shelling out money to watch two women get themselves off. If I was into that I could always go on the Internet and see it for nothing.
Just my two cents.
It's easy to get distracted, and not know what to do first. But it's definitely great with two gals who are into each other.
The last one I did was an MFM. Now that was REALLY distracting! Might do another. Not sure.
My very first session with providers was a threesome. It's something I'd fantasized about. I was already nervous about just having sex with any woman after being married so long, and having two just made me more nervous. I should have waited until I had more P4P experience. I'll do it again someday, though.
The only anxiety I have had is whether I am really athletic enough to really do it right. A DP with one girl using an SO takes a lot more work than you might think. It takes some real leg strength and endurance. With one girl - you can get some rest and some pauses - you can get into a very nice sort of rhythm. With two providers - something is always happening.....
Hydraulics can be addressed with Viagra (or whatever) - so that really shouldn't be an issue.
On the other hand - it's a really good motivator to get into shape......
On that note - does anybody else think that a wrestling mat might be a better place to have sex than a soft mattress? Easier to clean - better support..... ESPECIALLY with a threesome .... or a squirter...
I have showed up to meet someone and he already had a provider there that I had never heard of let alone had any chemistry with , not good.
Everytime I tried to touch her she moved away and tried to get out of it.
Defiantly gay for pay , no fun in that.
My best experiences have been when a guy or a couple and they tell me to bring a woman who I really enjoy.
I'm happy that I have a great group of ladies that I love to play with and truly enjoy pleasing one another .
It's exciting to meet new ladies for me but either we love eachother or we clash.
Best to warm up over dinner or a strip club if your set on a specific pair that don't know each other.
I love pussy so it takes a lot for me not to get along with any woman
Have a great evening everyone.
Xoxo
Hydraulics can be addressed with Viagra (or whatever) - so that really shouldn't be an issue.
On the other hand - it's a really good motivator to get into shape......
On that note - does anybody else think that a wrestling mat might be a better place to have sex than a soft mattress? Easier to clean - better support..... ESPECIALLY with a threesome .... or a squirter....
Sure it can be a little intimidating to have to be able to perform with two women but of all the doubles I've done I've never once felt judged by the ladies. The only 3somes I've had that I didn't thoroughly enjoy were those where the ladies were not comfortable with each other. And as for me a key n part of every 3some is watching two hot ladies get it on. So if you really like doubles more power to you. And me.
If any of you guys out there are on the fence, go ahead and try it! It's REALLY spectacular to have an additional pair of hands/boobs/ass/mouth working you over. I'm guessing that the greatest concern for the inexperienced is about too much happening at once; I've found that it works best going in a kind of circle where each participant has a turn having two others work him/her over. As for the performance concern, it's kind of nice to be able to tap out and take a break without stopping all the action. Like any P4P appointment, you should feel empowered to establish a pace that's comfortable for you.