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French Latina with reasonable rates
chloemercier See my TER Reviews 116 reads
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I'm a french latina who loves to please. If you're ever in NYC, send me a message :)

Is it me?
I remember a time with escorts that for $400 or $500 you had a great time with an open minded, free spirit who seemed to enjoy their time together with you as much as you did with them. I am talking about Pollie Amorous, Legendary Jill, Danica Rose, Viktoria, and many others. Only a handful of these "GREATS" still remain and their donations are not what it cost me to buy a car when I was a teenager. Thank God BDJ is still around supplying hot women at a reasonable price.  
This was only maybe 5 years ago...then COVID....now these escorts are asking outrageous sums and the encounter is like they are doing you a fucking favor and is usually lackluster to say the least. It is no wonder all the reviews are for Asians, who also have jacked up their donations, that are still somewhat reasonably priced, are popular!
I really don't care about their wishes to be low volume nor do I care to pay their monthly rent with one visit. I also don't care who bans me from seeing them because of my post.
This is all precipitated by a certain escort who was asking for a certain pair of $900 shoes. Oh yeah, their wish lists read like a prima donna's Christmas list. The shoes were on sale and then they were not. I didn't immediately get them and sorry but I got busy. I have a life. I actually have to work, not sit around waiting for a schmuck to get the itch to see me, to earn a living and when I went back to check her twitter if someone already purchased them for her, I was blocked!
So to add to their overinflated opinions of themselves they are downright rude lately!
I recall a recent incident with an agency who had a porn star visiting. I rushed through the ad and didn't see her donations where already listed. You should only see the rude cursing email I got in response to my asking the donations. Okay, my stupid mistake, but is that how you treat a customer maybe even someone who may become an acquaintance? In response, because I pushed back after being cursed at, was the threat of being "blacklisted". I made a stupid mistake Jesus Christ! Is this their idea of customer service?
Now there are those that may label me a time waster. Maybe I am. Maybe considering the many wonderful encounters I have had in the past and then considering the most likely disappointing time I will have after plunking down my hard earned cash now I am reluctant to pull the trigger and make an appointment.
Nevertheless, there are those who will call me a whinnying pussy, and go ahead, I am old school and still expect to get value for my money. You can do what you like, and maybe you found an ATF who is not a stuck up bitch, and I would say to keep her happy if you are happy, but I ask is it me or is this the new order?
Anyways I am going to limit my interactions as best I can with providers of new as I find that best interaction with them is no interaction at all.

RespectfulRobert118 reads

I think many share your opinion. No doubt, things are much more difficult today than just a few years ago. Look at Ter. Only a fraction of those women are still here today from just a few years ago and the ones that have stayed, many have jacked their rate considerably and have added, or increased, the amount of real world info they need for screening.
Twitter, Covid and S/F have all contributed to the massive changes. It is what it is.

But after 20 years or so on this board, I know a couple of things:

Rates will keep going up.  
You and I will keep getting older.
Hot young women will get even harder to bed in the civvy world.
Women here know that.
And as a result,
Rates will keep going up.  

It is what it is.

As Robert noted above, times have changed and things aren’t they “they used to be”.
That said, your “Is It Me?” title indicates that you’re at least open to some introspection. It seems that lately you’re not bringing your “A” game to the hobby, and that some of the providers have picked up on that. Promising a gift and falling through? Not reading the ad before contacting the provider (a well known pet peeve)?  
Not saying the quality and value hasn’t dropped off on the provider side, but maybe your game has lost a little bit of its shine too and it’s time to polish it up. Best of luck to you.

I vividly recall her blowing me with her ass in the air. When I spanked her she just said, "Harder!"

I'm not a "money is no obstacle" level hobbyist but I was successful enough before I retired to be able to enjoy some of the finer things in life.

It's not really the money for me that is frustrating but how hard it is to get a date with a quality provider because of all the screening requirements nowadays. Sometimes I think it would actually be easier to go looking in the civvie world.

Rates have gone up, and I ignore the gifting lists.  

I am not willing to take the risk of spending a great deal of money on an unknown "brand" of provider.

With the exception of two visits with new ladies, I have stuck with the tried and true women who have been a delight to get to know.  

Not sure if this strategy would work for you, but it might be worth thinking about.  

We all have our ceiling price points, however we are in an era of inflation and escorting, like most everything else, is a free market industry.

I'm a french latina who loves to please. If you're ever in NYC, send me a message :)

UnnamedOne101 reads

old-timers, either.

 
It's simply a fact that the women have the upper hand in the game, and they are abusing it.  

 
Otherwise, I have to agree with your points wholeheartedly.

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