Because (not a comprehensive list):

 
1)  It may be a phase - Let's be honest now.  Guys can be a pain in the ass.  I certainly wouldn't blame a woman, after being fucked around by some guy, to swear off guys "forever".  Many men have done the same.  And then marched right back to that sweet, sweet pussy.

 
2)  They don't represent the majority - Yes, every woman may say this at one time or another.  But, most (straight) girls, end up with a man again.  It's hard to deny human nature.

 
3)  Toys.  Meh. - Say what you want about advancements in toys, for both sexes.  NOTHING will replace the warm, passionate touch of another human being, validating you through physical contact.

 
Feel free to add your own to the list...

They all want the alpha male.  They settle for betas because there aren't enough alphas to go around.  But when the cum, they are thinking about the alpha male -- may one they fucked once or twice before he moved on -- alpha widows.  

should know that such implements are always more fun when someone else is using them on her (man or woman) rather than playing alone.  Perhaps she doesn't NEED man, but that doesn't mean there won't be times when she WANTS a man (or woman) to share her playtime.  Sexual fun is always better in a group of at least TWO people regardless of whether there are mechanical implements or it's au Naturale, so before you are tempted to shove that 12-inch vibrator up your ass, invite someone over and maybe it will go a different direction.  Lol

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Tells me some woman prefer toys over boys...

In today's climate of the rude, crude unapologetic male, alot of woman figured that the mighty Moe vibrator might be her best partner. She doesn't have to deal with the insecurities of his fragile, delicate ego or his clumsiness.
I think woman have drawn the line and won't settle.
As for this lifestyle, I think as long as your a decent sorta guy, they'll put up with you. But come the 59th minute, she's gone and it's on to her toys. So if a chick is into her toys I got no beef....be happy, at whatever. Just do you.

I feel like if the woman is a worker in this biz, it's a different outlook than if it's a civie.

Sometimes it's easier to rub one out than to deal with a pro or civvie.  HA!  

I would prefer a woman who wants me.  

This is, of course, the biz, notwithstanding.

When you say "work w her man" ... why are you interested in women w a partner?  

Second scenario would be a single woman, who isn't dating anyone... yes that's like me. I use a vibrator. My sex life is just from work! lol

Maybe she loves being single. Because being single means being able to do whatever you are able to do.

might feel better about the reason you suggest than what the news story I just saw is suggesting.

 
I had not heard of the 4B movement previously but certainly meshes with other observation from the country of origins.

 
I suppose most relevant is what impact, if any, one might expect on this activity. Certainly going to be a bunch of crying (or unfortunately an increase in domestic violence) if the wives and girlfriends join the movement AND the moral minority starts getting higher penalties and stricter enforcement of sex for money.