There are some who under state age by 10 t0 15 years. I call it flase advertising. What do you say.
I generally assume a minimum five years understatement prior to reading reviews.
I have no idea why they lie bout their age. I know several providers personally whose profiles state they are dramatically younger, than they truly are. When I attempted to report a problem TER refuses to update. I’m no hater, but if I know you personally I should be able to vouch for the facts. Many are older, than me. I will be 47 in October & I never want to lie about my age. I’m proud to be a professional escort who has integrity.
There are certain things which are always going to be a bit unfair. As a culture we have accepted it, and adjusted for it.
For e.g. we have accepted that when the posted speed limit is 55 most people are going to go 60 . Are they speeding? YES... Technically YES, but for various reasons, technological or otherwise, cops don't seem to bother. Unless you are hitting 70 or above, you are probably not going to get pulled over on a freeway. A little bit is OK.. A lot is NOT.
I wil give you another example. Employees waste time. Everyone does..I did too when I was an employee. Employers know it.. Accept it. Unless they are taking 2 hr lunches... Coming to work an hour late and leaving an hour early, Watching TV instead of working or browsing Internet and missing all the deliverables, bosses don't make a big deal out of it. A little bit is OK.. A lot is not..
So unless hookers are lying about 25-30 yrs, men in general, and especially the monger community has largely accepted it. A little bit is OK.. A lot is not..
I prefer honesty and sure most others do too. But I don’t expect it because I know the culture. And if it’s small doesn’t bother me too much. But there is a difference with a 38 year old saying she’s 31 and a 28 year old saying she’s 21. For me, the gap is more noticeable at a younger age. But when it’s a lot it really annoys me. I have seen ladies say they’re 23 when they are in their 40s. That’s beyond ridiculous.
Just accept the fact hookers lie. Age,weight, whatever else they need to do to get paid. It’s part of the game.
*Some* sex workers lie, not all of us. We really need to get past the assumption and almost expectation that clients are getting played at every turn so that makes it OK for clients to "play the game" with sex workers as well. This industry does not need to be seedy, but that will take a conscious effort from everyone involved to lead by example of being honest.
Some mature providers are young at heart, and that’s what should really matter.
I have often posted: "Don't tell us an age that *YOU* (the Provider) want to believe. Tell us an age that WE can believe."
Some mature providers are young at heart, and that’s what should really matter.
but if it's the wrong number [underage], it could land you in jail for many years and ruin your life. Asking her might afford you some protection even if she lies.
It is marketing. Men value youth and beauty. There are a total of ZERO people in Hollywood that have not had plastic surgery or injections, yet we are lulled into thinking that Jennifer Aniston at 55 with a perfect body and no grey hair is just "aging gracefully." We have ingrained in our society to think it is normal to be lied to. No one expects the fast food hamburger to actually look like it does in the marketing pics, yet people go back again and again to buy the same burger knowing they are being lied to. People are genuinely surprised when the product looks the same or even better than what they ordered. Same with hookers. But in the same vein I would say 90% of the reviews on this site are highly skewed to make us try to believe the guy is equipped with an always hard super soaker between his legs, so there's that as well.
I would say 90% of the reviews on this site are highly skewed to make us try to believe the guy is equipped with an always hard super soaker between his legs, so there's that as well.
I would say 90% of the reviews on this site are highly skewed to make us try to believe the guy is equipped with an always hard super soaker between his legs, so there's that as well.
It doesn’t matter what the consumer says to me. I’m looking to see what the merchandise is and if I will enjoy it. I want to see what things the product will do.
Could you please speak for yourself?
It is not "normal" to be lied to.
Lying in order to appear better than you really are is not normal. And trying to make it normalized is nasty work.
Lying in order to sell products to someone is not good.
"would say 90% of the reviews on this site are highly skewed to make us try to believe the guy is equipped with an always hard super soaker between his legs, so there's that as well."
The reviews are there to evaluate the product, not the consumer who bought it.
Tell me Scarlett, does it feel good to make money off someone knowing if you didn't lie they wouldn't buy what you're selling?
Mr. Q,
NO WHERE did I say that I think it is OK for a provider OR clients to lie. That was never said. And also I am probably the most honest provider you will find. My pics are real, my age is honest, I am honest about the services I provide and my rates, and I am also very open and honest about my personal life as well as my views and aspirations for this industry. I am open about my real name. I invite clients into my home for sessions. You may have also forgotten that I am the provider that is always posting and doing everything possible to make this industry MORE honest and safe for providers AND clients. DO NOT accuse me of things I never said or did. Do better.
Scarlet
I wonder where one should put that false representation of your post on the honesty scale???
Ms Scarlet,
Nowhere did I accuse YOU in particular of anything. I simply said that I don't think we are "ingrained" in society that it's normal to be lied to.
And normalizing this does piss me off. Saying stuff like people genuinely surprised when product looks as advertised. I don't know, do people go out there and buy a luxury sports car and they expect a corolla? What are we talking about here? People can and do get very upset and even sue people if a house, car, boat, etc don't look the same or there is a lie in there when they're being sold.
Seem like you are the same. Great. My question about feeling good was in general not in particular. Do you think it feels good for sellers to lie and be able to sell only when lying?
Then you say "It is marketing. Men value youth and beauty."
Yes, men do value it in women they want to pay to have sex with. So then when the women don't have it - the age, in particular, why not say the truth?
It's not even marketing, it's just an outright lie. That's like taking a corollas transmission and saying it can go 0-60 in 1 second. It's just a blatant lie. How is it any different than advertising DD breasts but provider actually has As.
I ge that age is tougher to *verify* but there's gotta be a line somewhere.
You said this:
"Tell me Scarlett, does it feel good to make money off someone knowing if you didn't lie they wouldn't buy what you're selling?"
Feel free to explain, in very very specific detail, where I have ever lied to get a client to book with me.
In detail. Very, very specific detail when this occurred.
I believe I already answered "My question about feeling good was in general not in particular. Do you think it feels good for sellers to lie and be able to sell only when lying?"
If you haven't lied on any your ads ever and haven't lied to any consumers, you are doing God's work and I applaud you. I mean it.
If you took it personally, my apologies. I didnt mean to imply YOU specifically were lying. Sorry if it came off this way. That's on me. I will take accountability here.
Well by starting that sentence w Scarlet and preceding to say they wont buy what you sell makes it seem you were in fact speaking in particular to her and not generally as you are trying to say. I read it and immediately felt you were being disrespectful to her. And nothing bugs an honest lady more than being humped in w all the liars.
Well by starting that sentence w Scarlet and preceding to say they wont buy what you sell makes it seem you were in fact speaking in particular to her and not generally as you are trying to say. I read it and immediately felt you were being disrespectful to her. And nothing bugs an honest lady more than being humped in w all the liars.
You totally didnt read what she wrote. She said this profession doesnt have to be seedy and we shouldn't assume everyone is lying then u blast her. I dont get people. And from all the posts I read on here that gal is honest and tells it like it is.
Not sure why the thread necro but let me address your two points.
First I did read Scarlets post. In it, as a reminder, she put scare quotes around the word "false" in the term "false advertising" , invoked fast food ads where the pictures aren't representative and brought up guys comments about their dicks in reviews (comments that literally don't hurt any consumers expectations because I suspect the number of guys who see a provider based on a reviewers supposed penis size is close to zero).
And I didn't like that attempt at normalization of lying, especially when done for commercial purpose. Ie, lying to own customers in order to sell more. When you start dismissing false advertising as something commonplace and not a big deal, you inevitably end up normalizing exaggerations and lying. I don't like the idea of businesses making their products look a lot better than they really are and then profiting off them. And when I say I don't like it, I mean to the point I wish their business does not exist if they can't make money without this lying.
Second, I did apologize to Scarlet. And it's not like I'm trying to weasel out here but my point is that I don't consider her in particular a liar. And that is the important part here. It's not like I consider her one and accused her but now because I don't have evidence I need to back out but in back of my mind I still consider her a liar. That's not the case. To me that's an important distinction.
If needed I will apologize again. I like Scarlet and while we tend to disagree on a lot of stuff it ain't really personal at all. I also seen/heard her talk on podcast since then. It's too bad she considers me autistic, but hey. Been called worse by better.
It seems as though Barbara Streisand and several others would disagree with you.
Not all men default to valuing youth. I don't. Give me middle aged lady with class and makes good conversation, and the other things, I am golden.
I try not to see anyone under 30, if possible. But that is just me. But ALL men don't value youth in this thing.
But I never base my decisions solely on a provider's stated age. Instead, I consider whether she can convincingly present herself as the age she claims. There are indeed women in their 40s who can easily pass for their mid-30s, just as some 35-year-olds can appear to be in their late 20s. Naturally, the reverse can also be true, which is why due diligence and good research is so essential in this realm.
Follow my "10/15 rule." When I choose a provider, I add 10 years to their advertised age and 15 pounds to their looks, and I am less likely to be disappointed. After all, this is a business. When was the last time you ate a restaurant meal that looked as good as the advertising photo? Even at fast food places, a Big Mac has never been served that looked like the photo displayed in the purveyor's window.
Seems when a provider is reviewed there is no way to update the age ? So it just defaults to whoever reviewed her first which could have been 5-10 years ago..
A provider at any point after she has claimed her review can send in a problem report and ask for it to be increased/corrected.
If a provider age listed at 18-21 and her first review was 10 years ago a problem report can be submitted by anyone
She has an add anywhere else admitting to something over her TER age a problem report can be filed.
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You earn 2 VIP days if you submit said problem report and it’s approved.
have no reviews but have banked years of VIP days fixing mistakes in provider profiles to bring them up to date. I only do it if it's concurrent with a review I'm submitting on the same girl. Otherwise, it seems like too much work trying to find mistakes among random girls I'm not seeing in order to save the monthly VIP cost.
In that if the age is what you're basing your selection on then that is a problem for you. As others have said, specific number is not such a big deal for them so maybe it's just marketing/advertising enhancement. I think how one classifies aspects of the world we live in is less valuable or helpful than how someone learns to deal with the reality they are confronted with.
My approach is largely not to believe any ads -- in this activity or what I see in print, TV or online. I would suggest taking a skeptical view of all of them (and individual reviews as well) and then try to set my expectations on what seems to be a good adjustment factor. And, when I find people or agencies that are consistent I see them as more reliable. At that point I largely don't pay much attention to the ad -- I will check to see if I think I'll enjoy but try not to form an opinion that someone will be X years old or look exactly like Y.
...you should always cross-check every source you can find: TER reviews, Tryst, Eros, especially Twitter/X (that's where candids are most likely to be found)
Stating information that isn't factually true and selling based on that is exactly that - false advertisement. By definition.
There is no if, buts or anything else about it. People can talk about age ain't nothing but a number, how it's common therefore acceptable (fallacy of appeal to tradition) and other nonsense trying to mostly normalize it.
The fact remains, if you're one age and you advertise another - then yes, its a false advertisement. Not uncommon for the age differences to be 10+ years and in case of some older women, even 20+
And false advertisement clearly works. It attracts people who wouldn't buy the product otherwise. That's why it's such a problem.
If people would not buy the product nowhere as much if the seller wrote the truth....what does it say about quality of your product?
Just by a year or two. I think it is more interesting to say I am 60 rather than 58. But corner me and i will admit I was born in 1967. Why anyone would say they were younger is beyond me. I want to hear, "Wow! You look amazing for 60. Did you discover the fountain of youth?" I don't want someone to assume I have been ridden hard and put up wet to look like this at 39. I want the mystery to be- How do you look so good? Not, How do you not look better?
There are some who under state age by 10 t0 15 years. I call it flase advertising. What do you say.
I get it!!! I feel the same way when I have a guy who contacts me and says he is 6'2", 180 lbs, super fit and super good looking. Then I answer the door and I have a gawd damn Danny DiVito look alike that is hung like a light switch. What a crock of shit. Hell yeah it is false advertising!!!
I'm in your cartoon bubble with you but still can't differentiate if you are playing a customer or a service provider in this post. Context matters. BTW, Meryl Streep claims to have never used plastic surgery or injections. Just sayin'.
Wild of you to assume that all of my sexual encounters involve money.....
This reminds me of the time I saw my kindergarten teacher at the grocery store and my mom was trying her hardest to explain how and why Mrs. Carol lived in a house with her husband and not in my kindergarten classroom. WHAT was she doing out in the wild acting like a regular human?!? And she buys groceries??? And cooks and eats regular food?!?
You'll get there buddy!! Baby steps!!!
He's been here for EIGHTEEN YEARS at least, and STILL cant do something as simple as find my reviews. lol. Your confidence in him "getting there" is outweighed by my confidence he never will. lol.
Sounds like you're making fun of old people again, bobby. Let's get some context involved, my mistake was thinking you had no reviews because you hide behind an alias. I did learn, thanks to another monger, that even though reviews aren't linked to the alias, they can be searched and found.
Assumptions are just that, guilty as charged but if this is what your calling a victory moment, lol, beat your chest...you desperately need a win the way the last few days have been for you.
Btw, it's more like 25 years, give or take. Can't recall how many years the first version of this was around.
Just really, really dumb ones . And thanks for pleading guilty to that charge but there was already ample evidence for a conviction. Lol
Hey, Really cool story from 50 some years ago!! I can almost picture Mr. Whipple handing her a big zucchini and salivating seeing her deploying her go-to double hand grip but trying NOT to stick it in her mouth.
Nice segue though, given that almost the entirety of this conversation is centered on customers getting what they paid for and if the package came as advertised. Now, if Mrs. Carol happily took that zuke home, had her way with it and then tried to make bread but turned out it was a cucumber then, hey, you're story finally becomes relevant.
Btw, Halle Berry claims she hasn't used plastic surgery or injections.
Is this the time where you'll walk away from this or just throw up the white flag and say "I'm not reading all of that", lol!!
Yah- but can you sell it even when he does that.??
if someone claims to have those stats that then it should be a red flag since a guy like that would not need to "pay for it"
he can hop on hinge or tinder or bumble and be matched with over a dozen hotties in his area...then he simply swipes on the one that he wants that fits his type...
it will cost him nothing more than the price of a drink
You are likely to get much better service from a girl 38 than one 18. I have seen well over 1000 providers and I can say this as fact from my own experience. I spent the first couple of years in P4P banging college-age providers and after a few years of lackluster sessions, I started moving up the age ladder. Now I won't even consider a girl under 30.
I feel similarly. However, once in awhile it’s fun to do a session with the younger ladies. I seen a 22 yr old recently and I was pleasantly surprised.
There are always outliers that defy conventional wisdom, but if you chase the outliers, you are going to have more disappointing sessions in the long run. My disappointment rate overall is less than five percent. I do my homework and give more weight to reviewers who have, over time, demonstrated that they are drawn to the same appearance and service "types" that I like. But it's like taking a flyer at the track and hitting a 30-1 longshot at the track once in awhile. When it pays off, it's a total rush, but a losing strategy overall.
They dismiss providers solely based on some silly, arbitrary age threshold, of say, 30. It's refreshing to see that you haven't become cynical or fallen for such a shallow, jaded, stereotypical mindset. I see these women all the time and have incredible, amazing fantasies fulfilled with them. Glad you enjoyed your time with her!
who like them young, fat and low-priced, but that's not me. "Slender" is as far as I go towards the chubby end of the spectrum. "Skinny" is not off the table for me, as long as she is sporting at least well-made C's that don't sag. You have no excuse for this last one. You could have paid the fee and walked out if you had any kind of standards. Did she convince you to stay with BBFS?
I, unlike you, am not obsessed if anyone sees those type of women, or any type bc I am not a misogynist like you. 
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And if you are trying to have a "Dumb Off" with Snafucked, you might actually be winning. I am quite enjoying you tutoring a guy thats been here for 25 years about TER 101! LOL!
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Oh, and btw, my "last one" is 5'5" and about 105 pounds. But you wouldn't like her bc she is hot AF, and as we all know now, you NEVER see women under 30 bc you can't handle them. Lol!
Yeah maybe it is some false advertising but age is just a number too. I find that slightly older (upper 20s+) tends to give me the best experiences in general. What I like is variety and people being genuine. I've never showed up with someone who was catfishing though. Maybe I'll feel differently if I'm ever catfished
Tried to get guys to bury inthe review A+10 and W +15. For age and weight adjustments to what the pics and profile said.
I just automatically add some of each to age and weight. Like I say my dick is a 12 inches but it’s only really like a solid 10 inch… .. ,, 😂
I’m very shocked by this as well. More so in the age of let’s be proud of who we are…our pictures are still attractive . I give a window only for privacy reasons.
Let’s be honest though, there is a huge stigma with women of a certain age…while some of us still look very good and could actually pass for younger, the only way to know the truth is our hands or our birth certificate ha I mean long as it’s not shockingly so..there are a variety of reasons to do it…privacy being one. Throw them off their tracks ha
You guys do it too..get soooo many men who email me saying 50-60 but I meet them … honey you are NOT lol That is fine, I personally don’t care. I love men of all ages.
It is entertaining to see a woman listed as 30s, whose reviews date back to the point the math isnt mathing. lol BUT It makes me think when I briefly worked in my “early 20s”. I overstated my age to avoid the pervs looking for my actual barely legal age and avoid issues with LE. I wasn’t trafficked, I just wanted to buy a better car and a house, I did…ran off livid the civvie life for a decade 
I assume that everyone is off by about 10 years.
I assume they do this because most guys want younger women. I am the opposite. I want someone younger than me but not too young. Older providers tend to have better skills. When I have been with really young women, the experience hasn't been that great.
....i am more offended by false and misleading pics! and using another girl in the pics is a deal breaker for me and should get you delisted from any reputable site! i've caught several doing this.
someone said above that if you add five years a few pounds, then you will never be disappointed as this is marketing like any other business.
but your pics better be somewhat accurate and if you airbrushed and photoshopped, it better be to get rid of some blemishes and scars and spots etc....
and since we are on the topic of "marketing," if you make a living based on how your body looks, would it not make sense to keep it in prime condition? fitness influencers go so far as to inject steroids to make people believe they got their muscles and leanness naturally...lol
My birthday is next month! Being in my late 30s, I'm actually excited I'm almost 40. I don't understand the logic of pretending to be a decade younger. Personally, I'm looking forward to the lessons that come with growing older.
… but nobody cheats on their taxes?!? Trust your eyes, or those of the ten reviewers before you! Life is not about perfect, it’s about close enough! That’s been my strategy, so I’ll overlook it with others! If it doesn’t work out for you, have some make-up sex in your next session!
But it's another when photographs are 15 years out of date and the lady is carrying 20 pounds more than the photos show. Cellulite, loose skin, wrinkles, and laugh lines are all part of natural aging. Shit, my 30 year-old self would cry bitter tears if he saw what I did to his body. But I ain't lying about how I look. OTOH, if, instead of accurately representing herself, the lady displays photos of a MUCH younger, buff, smooth-skinned self, I'm gonna call that out in a review.
Age can be hard to tell in a pic because they are touched up or filtered or something like that. I have had people argue with me that I look 25 when he met me but I act 45. He told me I was false advertising because my age says 30s on my profile. I was like sorry. I can’t help I look young but I swear some days I look old too. And have seen this with other ladies I ll see their pics online but In person they look totally different. I guess my question is what are you basing there age on when you see a difference of so many years? And are you looking for super young but find it older person saying they barely 18? Or vice versa? Need more context on your age difference ratios that you are finding?