Like most great things you,usually find them when you are not looking for them.

Because she was the first gal I was with after my return from a 15-year hiatus.  She had unbelieveable reviews and then I saw her pix.  Cue the lightening bolt!  Despite her tough screening requirements I somehow conveyed to her that I was her kind of guy and she agreed to see me.  Our first session was so amazing that I wondered how other girls would stack up, because I hadn't seen any.  Since then I've seen her several more times and also been with 6 or 7 other really great gals.  She's still my fave.  I'm waiting with bated breath for her to return my latest e-mail so I can see her again.  She will ruin you for anybody else.   Almost!

in the words of Elvis Costello in Watching the Detectives:  "..eyes that pull your face out like a magnet.."

She turned out to be extremely nice in all manner of ways too.

I have only been doing this about a year now & have not seen to many providers. Actually I knew the first time. We just clicked it was like we have been friends forever. She has the greatest personality & is a true friend. We keep in touch like friends. She treats me as a friend. She took the time to get to know me. She did not judge me by looks, she took time to see what was inside. You will know when you find your ATF. Unfortunately she does not live in my city. So I am counting down the days until we get to see each other again

I always thought it stood for "any twat is fine".  I think that explains how I find mine.

When you are new, and you have never experienced this hobby before, it all seems so overwhelming.. and if you have been neglected intimately for years, then many times the first provider to be sweet and nice, you think "that is it! I have found her!"

But, then you try more, and the next one is better, so now she is your ATF, and then the next one is EVEN better, and now SHE is your ATF, and do on and so on...

I think you need to just try out a few women, discover hidden desires, needs, and wants and what YOU are looking for in this hobby, and then really feel everyone out, till you find THE ONE

make sense?

There are different levels of ATF's.....

I have my Sexual Nympho ATF that is guaranteed to leave me utterly and completely spend every time we meet (thank you Piper!)

I have my Doubles ATF who really loves women and makes me laugh the entire time (thank you Carla)

But if I had to choose one women to spend my last hobbying day on earth with that is an easy ATF call.
She became my ATF the first time we met because our personalities clicked and we were immediately comfortable together....we are also very sexually compatable.  (Thank You Tawny)

I read a lot of reviews and settled in on one that interested me. The clincher was her reviews from guys around my age, and how they felt she had a special way with us guys over 60. I've seen several other ladies, but I keep coming back to her. Each time is different, and I'm never disappointed.