Every now and then, I have a client that seems to forget that I'm an escort and they treat me like a prostitute...

The scenario usually goes something like this:

They walk into my incall, maybe they give me a hug but usually not. They ask to freshen up in the bathroom and come out naked with money in hand. They put the money on the dresser and say they like doggy style, cowgirl, etc. I get undressed, and we try whatever positions are on his mind. Afterwards, he attempts to talk to me about my "profession" and then he gets cleaned up and leaves.

I really hate seeing these types of guys, they art not disrespectful,which I why I assume girls give them references. I'm sure there are many ladies that would enjoy that type of client but not I. I like to kiss, cuddle, chit chat, take my time and go with the flow. When I have this type of client my defense comes up, I no longer want to talk or be affectionate, I just want him to cum and go lol (I know that's terrible to say).

Luckily these guys aren't the type of guys that write reviews, because I'm sure if they did write a review it would say she was a cold-hearted, stand offish bitch with a great body and beautiful lips lol.

Ladies, have you ever seen clients like this? How do you handle it?

Guys have you ever seen as escort that behaved as a prostitute?

Thanks for letting me vent, I'm going back to bed.

You are getting paid to fuck and suck. Don't try to fool yourself.
The session is supposed to be about your client, not you.
Get off your high horse and do what you are being paid to do.
If you want to kiss, cuddle, and chit chat do it on your own time.

So when that's all I do, I don't think he should be annoyed. When I suck and fuck, he should just get out. No need for chit chat. And I if I act like a bitch, he shouldn't care, I don't get paid to be kind after all.

Hard to believe that you would have that many guys as you describe.

And what curtain have you been hiding behind? "Provider" is a word gleaned from the dictionary that fits the sex world or hobby world. Prostitute has been around for centuries.

In fact if you ever get popped by LE, do you really think on the booking card it states as the charge "Soliciting For The Purposes of Providing" lmfao

Look if the shoe fits, let it go. You took this career path for a reason. And, we assume it is for the money not to be a pleaser and teaser hooker because you love all men, all the money aside. Please!

I would invite you in fact to read a couple of my reviews and see if you thing I have treated any of the ladies unfairly....

Typically my "date" goes rather like this:

I greet the lady, tell her the name by which I like to be called, exchange as much of an affectionate greeting as she seems to like.

I drop the envelope, and hit the shower.

I emerge from the shower naked. Might as well get the shock over with all at once

I approach la jeune fille du soir smiling and making eye contect. I touch her. I make eye contact. Talk to her, show interest.

But I also show interest in moving things along.

Kissing and cuddling? I prefer this afterward myself however I'm good with a bit of that if I sense that the lady is a slow mover. However I will move things along if I sense that she is a time waster, trying to give as little action as possible for the donation.....

I am often asked what I like / how I like it. Truly, I like it all, and I say so. However, I do prefer to lead, and am not shy about making suggestions.  It is, after all, "time" for which I have compensated the lady, and I do intend to get what I want out of that time.

I usually book plenty of time to allow for a lady like yourself, who prefers to create some chemistry before the action. And for my favorite activities, and his and hers orgams. And a cuddle afterward.  Usually, even with the very young and inexperienced girls at the local agencies, I find an hour to be sufficient.....

I was taught to treat a woman like a lady, no matter how she acts. Guess I'm getting senile in my old age.

"Typically my "date" goes rather like this:"
Mines different

"I greet the lady, tell her the name by which I like to be called, exchange as much of an affectionate greeting as she seems to like."
She better call me Dr. Dre that is all she should know.

"I drop the envelope, and hit the shower."
What envelope? Dr. Dre spends no money on hookers.

"I emerge from the shower naked. Might as well get the shock over with all at once"
Dr. Dre don't need no stinkin shower. I am naked as soon as entering the incall or opening the door for an outcall.

"I approach la jeune fille du soir smiling and making eye contect. I touch her. I make eye contact. Talk to her, show interest."
What interests? I am there for some fucking and sucking and get my nut. Fuck the touchy feely shit.

"But I also show interest in moving things along."
The quicker the better, I have other HO's to attend to.

"Kissing and cuddling? I prefer this afterward myself however I'm good with a bit of that if I sense that the lady is a slow mover. However I will move things along if I sense that she is a time waster, trying to give as little action as possible for the donation....."
Screw all the Lovey-Dovey crap. I am there to get mine. I am not in love with these HO's.

"I am often asked what I like / how I like it. Truly, I like it all, and I say so. However, I do prefer to lead, and am not shy about making suggestions.  It is, after all, "time" for which I have compensated the lady, and I do intend to get what I want out of that time."
What Dr. Dre likes is all that matters, but mostly getting off in her mouth.

"I usually book plenty of time to allow for a lady like yourself, who prefers to create some chemistry before the action. And for my favorite activities, and his and hers orgams. And a cuddle afterward.  Usually, even with the very young and inexperienced girls at the local agencies, I find an hour to be sufficient....."
15 Minutes is plenty to time to get mine and be gone. Besides if I WERE TO PAY, it would only be for 15 minutes.

Slays me about all you lover boys. Don't you know she is paying for my freakin "Diamond in the Back, Sunroof Top, digging the scene wit the gangsta lean" ya ya

maybe you should steal from them.  Then you will really be acting like a "prostitute".

Often I do just as you described in your OP. I do this because that is what more often than not the ladies I have been with expected. Many ladies do not offer a GFE, they offer sex. Some will not even kiss. And yes I floss daily, and brush my teeth just before showing up. The other thing is I am not a great conversationalist and I am shy. Even though I think conversation is often the best part, I am nervous and don't know what to talk about.  I do love to cuddle and kiss but am awkward at getting started. I am not a "lady's man." I prefer it when the lady takes the lead but most don't and the date goes as you posted. It is not that I am treating the lady like a prostitute so much, as I need help getting past my hang ups.

It always amazes me how so many guys forget that these ladies are just that: ladies.

I'm considered by most girls I see as a great lover.  Which is funny to me, because I don't seem to really do much.  What do I do to make them think this?

I spend maybe 5-10 minutes just hugging and kissing.  I'm always amazed by how many times I get services that are not listed on a lady's official menu just because I held her for 5 minutes.  One time I had a girl who when I first walked in say, "I won't do X."  I say ok.  I hug her and hold her.  Kiss her gently.  Then at the end, she did exactly what she said she wouldn't do.  I said to her, "You didn't have to do that."  She said, "I know I wanted to."  I said, "Really, why?"  Her answer, "Because you were nice to me."  This happens more often than you think.

Now, I don't do the hugging and cuddling because I'm expecting extras.  I do it because I want to, and I enjoy it.  I think the girls can tell I'm genuine.  So it winds up being mutually beneficial.

Something for the guys to think about.

Some chatting is good (although I like to save the majority of talking for when I'm recovering), and I love to start with lots of kissing and making out. Too many girls do just a little bit of kissing before going right down to a still limp Jr. Passionate kissing works best for getting me in the mood.

as you describe it.

You will find, that many prefer a man who while appreciative, is rather assertive.

But evenso, kindness is most always appreciated snd reciprocated, here as it is elsewhere

Beyond that, many gentlemen here, who have significant experience in this sport, achieve not only satisfying encouters with providers but also are graced to receive "extras", for reasons other than your methodology -

this is most frequently accomplished by being clean and well groomed, kind, respectful, fun, and a good communicator

in my case, you may add to that charming, charismatic, and a hell of a lay

In any event, a gentleman, of whatever stripe, does not list these extras in reviews, and does not refer to them in any form of back channel communication....

Ego Check and less like that great romantic Gregory as time passes by.

She's obviously already upset, why would you go out of your way to voice your cruel opinion on her job? And you hide under an alias because you don't want ppl to know thats your lovely character. Here's the thing I'm sure this escort markets herself as GFE compassionate somebody you can talk to in additional to amazing in bed. Not as suck and fuck and get out. There are people who enjoy a little more than suck and fuck contrary to popular belief. Those who do just want that need to leave the girls who advertise as more than that alone and stick to the suck and fuck and get out.

at least, with the right ladies....
 
But realities nonetheless apply.

...My former internet love.

I'mmmmmmmm MELTING!

I'm not sure what you thought was going to happen once you started as a provider...but there is NO SHOCK value at all to what you are describing.

Every man is different, just like every woman is different.

Unless the session is a few hours long, there is not going to be too much talking. I am not a big talker with my clients....esp when the appointment is 60-90 minutes. 60-90 minute clients are there to have a wild ass fuckathon and go home. Clients who book multi hours may want to go out to dinner, take in a show, and have an extended conversation.....then have a wild ass fuckathon.

I am not ice cold to any of my guest, I am there to FUCK them not sit around and have a two hour meet and greet. I DFK, massage, and am very very sensual, but I am not a going to waste his money, my time and my reputation trying to do everything except fuck if he wants to get down to business. He is paying me to fulfill his fantasy, I am there to do that and more.

Them coming in, taking a shower, dropping the envelope, and us getting right down to business is my favorite sort of client.

Perhaps it has to do with the way you advertise?

I mean, we attract those that are like us? Right??? Ok, maybe not in all cases...
What I mean is---If I get a silly email with crazy questions I just don't bother... Simple.

I rather be/feel safe, than to make my rent on time.

There are True gents out there! Don't let that get you down.
 
Theres a word that comes to mind- "Respect" Its a hard one here! Specialy when some men forget that we're not all the same. Just because we offer our time and services, doesn't mean we will tolerate that style of treatment.

Best of Luck! remember: We can't control their actions, however, we can ours.

Escorts, call girls, but Pros is another. Don't misinterpret/confuse them! Then you have Courtesants= Companionship.

I don't pay my lawyer 250 p/h to discuss his other cases. I don't my accountant to talk about his Grand Canyon Vacation.

I pay providers to treat me as if I am HER fantasy lover. Please do just that.

Respect receives the same. Understanding receives my appreciation. Those who choose to abuse the arrangement receive a lot of spare time to themselves.

I like Allure`s response down below. I like the kind of talking that is delivered into my ears, rather softely and dirty.

ROFLMAO - " trying to do everything except fuck"

is a trick that many providers seem to have going. Sometimes "GFE" can be a method of accomplishing this lol

much like your favorite client, I prefer to move things along - I'm there for sport. But I give as good as I get '

If I find that I truly like and enjoy the madame du jour, I might decide on future occasions to schedule longer dates, allowing time for interaction with the sport

Consider, if you will, that the willingness to provide a certain value for donation mitigates in the direction of my future interest as well '

Some of these posts are getting very repetitious:  “I’m here to tell you what every guy wants”.  What an overly simplistic view of this complex business.

I think a lot of the problem is the number grading system that makes it seem the only two attributes that matter are physical looks and mechanical performance.  It seems you, Ho-Mentor, aren’t even sure the first matters, “You are getting paid to fuck and suck”.  Great, if that’s what you’re looking to find.  That’s your prerogative.  Course we don’t know what you like since we can’t look up an alias’ review list to see the kind of women you see.

I think we’d do everyone a great service if there were other aspects of a session that were acknowledged in the reviews, attitude and personality being the two biggest for me.  Yea, I know they can be addressed in the comments but too often they aren’t, and it seems when they are too often they aren’t read.  If they were a lot of the bad sessions resulting from personality mismatches might not happen.

Maybe a provider’s profile that better addressed what she’s about and what clients would best match her style would help.  IF guys would read it.  So instead we have a provider trying to describe what she likes and doesn’t, this giving useful info to potential clients.  And in response gets told to shut up and suck.  That sure encourages truth in advertizing for all of us  

...on the bright side, he freshened up, didn't stiff you, communicated his needs, and tried to hold a conversation with you (even if not on the subject matter of your choosing). He doesn't sound like a complete jerk IMHO. And you could have controlled the conversation a little better. Turn it around and ask him about his career, etc. But if you don't want a blow and go type sessions, screen those gents out when they contact you. It's really that simple. Venting here won't do you any good, though it allows for a little drama on the board with the silly aliases, and nothing's wrong with a little popcorn...with a pinch of salt and a tad bit of butter.

I work in a service business myself.

Some customers are very loyal, they call and ask how soon I can send someone over, and are very appreciative when I tell them a date that is perhaps a week or so away.

They pay promptly and are a joy to work for.

Then there are others that call and expect you to drop everything to prepare a quotation for the work first; then they nickle and dime you until the job has only a dollar or two profit left; then they want it done immediately; then they bitch and moan about every conceivable thing; then they take months of phone calls and dunning notices to pay in full.

Then there is everything inbetween.

We have to take care of all of them however.  That's the job we are in.

Appreciate the good ones, and take a stoic attitude towards the other kind.

So he wasn't disrespectful and it was over quickly...

Also, I'd be pretty disappointed if I ever saw an escort that DIDN'T act like a prostitute at some point.

If I wanted to be mean you would know it. She asked for opinions, and she's getting them.
Unlike you, my social skills are fully developed and I don't require providers to chit chat and tell me their life stories.  

BTW, why are you whining about my alias when you yourself are using one?

A provider recently tried doing 90 minutes sessions for the 60 minute donation to give her 30 minutes of "get to know you time".  A good idea in some ways and not-so-good in others.

She was taking responsibility for what she wanted, which is great, and on "her dime". Of course, it never worked the way she wanted, and guys just used the 90 minutes to S&F.

The problem is that many guys do not really want to get to know you, or have you get to know them (more likely), at least on an initial visit. Not that you (or he) aren't worth getting to know, but too much pressure for a real exchange can be discomfiting for many clients.

My guess is that if you really need this, then you need to work to cultivate a base of repeat clientèle, which will more easily support this requirement OF YOURS.

I do not wish to denigrate what you would like to have, but this isn't about you. You're the provider and we are the client. When you pay us, or figure out how to make the "90 for 60" thing work, then you can talk about your requirements more legitimately.

Please tell the rest of us what exactly 'prostitute' and 'escort' mean explicitly in your book. From what I previously understand, I thought the terms were almost interchangeable. Obviously, you may have a different argument, and I know that some of us would be curious to know what you mean by the difference in terms. Thx.

You must be a lousy lover indeed! Or should we all agree - a lousy lay.

Even the most elite utr hdh girls...the ones who really do walk down runways...and who charge thousands per hour..who have super stars, politicians and the like in their little black book........the ones who will never allow a review....don't need to advertise....who have 48 hour minimums....and are super discrete....THOSE GIRLS...

When they get arrested they don't have the words:

Escort
Courtesan
Provider

as part of their new criminal record

none of the fancy terms used to describe what we are is listed on their record...during their arraignment the bailiff is not announcing to the court that so and so, case number blah blah blah blah charged with _______________ providing a gfe session?

No it goes:

so and so, case number blah blah blah blah charged with "prostitution." how do you plea?

and I am not trying to be funny I am serious.....I adore my guests.....and my friends in the business span across the globe and are a wide array of ladies...but at the end of the day we all do the same thing....even if we present ourselves as very classy, very upscale, are very selective about who we see, price out undesirable clients, and are really low volume there are going to be clients who do not want to have a meet and greet with us, it is not just you, or me it is anyone they see.

Don't be offended by the fact that he wanted to get down to business.....that would have been a good time to turn on your sex drive up to a billion and let him have it! Push him down on the bed and have at it....that is what read and react means. Ya have to read your clients body language and their tones as soon as you are in their view...for me that is a PSE dude and we will have an understanding without him ever saying a word... I will know he is a dirty boy and wants to act very naughty!!! That would have been you saying without saying: You wanna fuck me? ok let's go!

Soft rose petals, sweet whispered words, and endless conversations are wonderful....but be versatile and have clients who are balls to the wall too. They can break up the monotony of a gfe day an are a God send if you are going through a drought.

You are a provider you made a choice...you may as well have fun and experience different types of sexual tryst....it is what makes a good provider a GREAT PROVIDER be VERSATILE!!


....I have got to get back to LA!!! (inside joke)

I have had ladies attack me when I walk in the door. Not even a hello. But it doesn't make me feel like a prostitute.

I need to get to Las Vegas. Not only are you hot. You sound straight up fun to be with and intelligent.  I've been with to many ladies that don't try to read there clients and just go off there script. I try to be a good client and make it fun for both. But I am the one paying and the time should be mostly about me. You seem get that, I have been with many who don't. They do cookie cutter dates that there comfortable with but may not be what the client wants. The lady who posted the OP seems to be one of them.

And not to evaluate my sexual prowess.
Unfortunately for you I don't see BBW's and you will therefor never find out.

We are all human beings and we all deserve to be respected as such. It's people like him who make a lady very careful when arranging time with someone new to her. Not all are kindred spirits in this game if life and death. As ladies of the Knight we know this already. And I say it again "Ladies Of The Knight" Some are blind and will never see it for what it's worth. I'll take a white knight any day of the week verus a bigdikhead. Excluding Sunday's. Kiss Kiss

You are ! I wouldn't give you the time of day sucka! If a man thinks I'm a bbw that's is fine with me. I'm not ashamed of who I am! Obviously you are!!

Kiss

Myself, I opt for the "Treat her like a Lady" approach.

I never heard of you or the OP before today anyhow.
You only started posting a few days ago and the OP's first post is today.

I am happy that you are not ashamed of yourself

She said "they art not disrespectful" and she said they cleaned up and paid. They just want to fuck. There was no mention of rude behavior other than they came out nude, paid, then wanted to get busy. If that is what they want to do and she is a full service provider, what is the problem. They are the ones who paid to have there fantasy date not you and not her. Now if they were being degrading, demanding services that she does not perform, tried to cheat or harm her or was unclean, that is a whole different ballgame. Then they would deserve her contempt and worse. But only crime she brings up is they want to skip the GFE and fuck. While it's not my favorite kind of date, what is wrong with that. This hobby is about fulfilling the CLIENTS fantasy not the providers. While I love pleasing my paid lady friends the date is about me and fantasy not hers. If they were paying me it would be the other way around. But they are not.

Everybody shows it differently and everybody receives it (feels as if it was given) differently.

The problem, in relationships, is we tend to do things for others the way we them for ourselves. OK, this sound obtuse...

We do for others what we want them to do for us. Not necessarily what they would want us to do FOR them.

Obviously the OP has linked being "treated like a prostitute" with the behavior described. Maybe it's about respect, but the OP doesn't say that specifically, and in fact says that they are not being disrespectful. Based on her client's behavior, she is projecting an emotion/value onto them about how they perceive her.

My guess is that the majority of the OP's clients, if asked, would be surprised she felt this way and would disagree about the assigned value judgement.

That DOES NOT negate the fact that she feels this way.

MAYBE the OP should ask how guys would act if it was just some prostitute/hooker, instead of her.

My guess is there would be no showers beforehand... they'd just whip it out and say "Get to work."

The OP has some expectation about this work and how it should be, which IMO is out of whack with 90% of reality. I think the OP needs to evaluate their expectations of what this job should be, and what client behavior should really look like.

Personally, I have an unusual high amount of respect for the ladies that do this "long term" (maybe more than a year) and continue to do it well, and be happy about it (I'm thinking about someone like Allure).

It takes an incredible amount of savvy and emotional resiliency, etc. that the average person does not possess. Yet I would still walk in... do a hot greeting... grab a quick (and I mean quick) shower... and come out looking to have some full-on fun.

Maybe I'm just (as all clients must then be) a closet misogynist.

Said this before (to/about her) and I'll repeat it for those not in the know:
Good thing there's almost the entire country between us!

C'mon MegaMillions/Powerball!!!

Remember...

Sex is awesome, especailly crazy sex!

I like them short and sweet or long and talkative...

Just pay the fee and obey the rules 'cuz I love it all.  (i.e. $350 and no anal, and I'm your protiute/provider/courtesan/fuck puppet/fill-in-the-blank)

I know this is totally pointless on my part, but so is this post...

I think I need to go be a provider now... This is what happens when I take the night off... I start acting like a prostitute.  I'll probably be treated like one now.  

Kisses,
your neighborhood slut-hooker-courtesan-goddess,
Alex

When are you returning to Chicago?  90 minute fuckathons are my specialty.

The moment you accept my funds for sex, you are a prostitute. It could be five cents or five million dollars. Same difference.

Sucking me off, fucking me, licking my balls and kissing me do not make you a prostitute.

Accepting my money DOES.

The single act you can omit from a session and absolutely guarantee you are not being treated as a prostitute is acceptance of payment.

The other thing you can do is never ever have sex with your clients.

When you make that change to your menu, keep an eye on what happens to your rate.

You are being paid for sex, dear. Drop sex off the menu and you can be a TRUE escort, which is worth about $85/hr.

Look, I do my very best to treat providers as women first and prostitutes second. But there is no separating the fact they are being paid for sex.

but it all ends with good sex.

I hate it when ladies do not kiss and just goes straight to sex.

This thread is just a ploy to get clients.  Take it easy.

Like, what if this was India and you're a shepard and you gave her a goat for kissing you, and two goats for bowing you, and the mother of all goats for licking your ass?

I once had a guy that offered to pay me in a lifetime supply of Spam and sweet and sour chicken sauce (he owned a Chinese restaurant supply store) and another tried to give me his TV and a large carton of those Furbie things when they were hot (this yo-yo owned a buch of those amusement places along the boardwalk at the Jersey shore -- and, no, he's not related to Snooki).  I was young at the time and a big fan of all of those products but still turned the offers down...  cash only....

Now World Series tickets when my Phillies play again... I don't care if that other lady in Philly got caught, she obviously wasn't a pro... I'll definitely be anyone's hooker to see Halladay pitch in the biggest sporting event of the year. (They did lose to the Mets tonight, but they are only 2 gams behind the Braves and there's still time to ctach up, or just win the wildcard race... especially if Utley and Howard are back from the DL soon.)

But I digress.... my point is having sex, or doing anything you wouldn't do with just anybody, for ANY OTHER REASON other than wanting to have it with that other person and/or IN EXCHANGE for something (tangible or intangible, definite or just possible) IS prostitution.  I have no idea why this broad is so delusional on a message board where disagreeing with this statement will get you nowhere and hurt your income potential.

I'm just wacky (and rather witty at times) with my silly comments, but this broad is nuts! ... oh, and kind of narcisstic... but aren't we all?  I mean I do expect you to pay me for something others give away for free.... but I don't complain about it!

Pleas continue to pay me the rate I request for my services, treat me nice, write me nice but accurate reviews, talk or not talk during our session, put your needs first or not, and follow my rules and you can call me whatever you want.  

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....I let him "take the lead."  

Everyone has preferences.  Some clients need a little time to put their feet up, chat a bit, have a glass of wine, and unwind.  Some walk in the room, already undressing, throw their clothing over a chair, and stretch out in bed.  Some guys seem shy, and the conversation goes a little long, so I have to let him know I am willing to "get going," by kissing him, touching him, whatever.  

There have been two instances where a client wanted to sit and talk, and I felt I kept the conversation going a little too long. In both those cases, I added more time.

This is also the reason I have trouble answering when a client asks what I like.  I truly want the session to be all about him.  I know pleasing the woman is a turn on for many men, but I don't ever want him to feel obligated to me or to use up too much time not getting his needs met.  

I have met all kinds of clients, with varied preferences, and I have found that allowing the client to take the lead (the session belongs to HIM, after all), meeting his individual needs, giving him what he came to me for, no matter what those desires are, no matter how he prefers the session to go, fast or slow, is very gratifying to me, because he will leave happy (and that, alone, pleases me very much) and hopefully, return to see me another time.  

Angie
XOXO

But you say ta-may-to and I say ta-maa-to.

Escort, hooker, whore, prostitute, provider, jezzebel, shall we go on? You are all of the above, by definition, not because the lucky Irish prick says so.

What distinguishes one from the other? Nothing, if we're just talking labels. Each lady distinguishes herself by how she conducts herself.

Here's a suggestion, if you don't like how it's going down, speak up. If you allow them to treat you like a pin cushion, many of them will. Your willingness to comply only signals to them that you enjoy, or at the very least, are indifferent to being objectified.  

But as far as I know, there is no rule in the hooker-handbook that says you have to just lay there and take it if you aren't diggin the scene. You are still a woman first and a hooker second, until you start believing otherwise.

I don't completely agree with what he said, but who gives a fuck what name he uses.

Guess what, I'm using an alias. Believe it or not, my mamma did not name me lucky Irish prick. I know, right? Who would have thought!

"If I am not happy with the appointment its the client's fault" .
If kissing , cuddling and chit chat are necessary components of your services then you should let the client know in advance.

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Sorry if you get money for sex you are a prostitute .

escorting, providing and whatever other politically correct bs name you want to use, when you or any other blah blah blah gets arrested you are charged with prostitution. Just like the men are called hobbyist, they are really just johns whether they want to admit it or not. Its just a business transaction, nothing more nothing less!

escort, provider, prostitute or whatever you are all selling the same thing....sex!!!!

Please don't state the usual line of money spent is for time and companionship, whatever happens between two consenting adults...blah, blah, blah!

You never know what the customer wants or thinks he wants. It comes with the turf and while it doesn't make it right, grow some thicker skin. If he's being an asshole invite him to leave, give him his money, it's that simple. When providers put up with BS, the bullshitter knows the money is the most important thing to you. If you can't walk away from it, you've told him he can treat you like a prostitute for the hour. Be willing to say no, I won't take your shit and mean it, or no one's going to take you seriously. If you are really good at what you do, news travels. Finally, screen better. Somehow the bottom fish are making it to your door. You've got to re-think how you market and attract these beasts. If someone expresses himself poorly or treats you with disrespect in a phone call or and e-mail, you can bet, he's twice as nasty in person. Remember some guys don't make the money you ask for and some might resent it. There's a weird psychology to this life and sometimes you just miss the signals.

I would say to just disincline his request to see you again if you did not enjoy the chemistry. Just because you are offering a service doesn't mean that any joe  with a few bucks can see you. You are offering a service type and if you are not comfortable offering the latter service that a lot of girls are more comfortable offering that is up to you.

I myself enjoy the same cuddling, talking, and seduction appointments. Once in awhile i get the in and out type of guy, but they usually dont come back for seconds. They just want to try different gals and to get their pipes cleaned out. It's all about the service you offer. I like to look at it like liquor sales. I may at any time with out telling them why i am not selling them the booze. Its up to the vendors discretion to refuse the sale. that can go both ways. Just make it clear what you believe a gfe is, and if you get that same in and out again just dont see him again unless you dont mind the normal distant transaction. If you don't like it don't see him.

We are all prostitutes in our way. We are rentals, and wives are womb rentals. You just have to specify the type of rental you are; Day, nightly, Loft, Monthly, or time share LOL.  Remember it is your body and your the only one who has control over it, and the only one who is going to care what happens to it.

Yes sadly there are some men like that. That is why I like to KEEP the GFE clients and such.I give them better rates,more time,and honestly and personality. (which many providers don't)

Clients who are in-and-out are sometimes nice when you need a little money but don't have a lot of time...but honestly I do this sort of thing because I enjoy the money AND the sex.

Far as the guys responding "you get paid to fuck and suck" yes that is true...you also get paid to PLEASE THEM, not you.In closing...If they TREAT you like a prostitute, behave like one...that is what they want. Choose to see them again or not...your decision. And let's not kid around and pretend prostitute and escort aren't the same thing...escort is just a nicer term and just usually involves more "connection" with the client. But all-in-all you end up doing the same thing!