Hey Lovers,
Due to Covid et al, those of us whom enjoy a steamymake-out session, among other accouterments associated
with a genuine "Gfe" experience, seems passé.
Do you miss a "Gfe" experience, or is it no big deal to you?
Has your comfort/safety been encouraged by having been vaccinated?
Will you henceforth, cautiously proceed with a rendezvous with
or without the vaccine? Inquiring Minds Want To Know,
Angelina Jones,
"Inamorata"💋
I did not stop seeing ladies during the worst of it. Of course, some stopped working.
I met a few ladies who were new to me, although they had been around for a while and are reputable. Every session was GFE, including kissing. If a lady were to say she wouldn't kiss then I would just wait until she felt safe before making an appointment. Actually, one lady I wanted to see in NOVA stopped her kissing and said she understood if I waited to see her - which should be soon.
Now I'm vaccinated so it's even better.
I've been seeing my ATF regularly over the last year and we both enjoy GFE activities.
All of my dates during this covid time period have remained fully GFE as usual with the last one being the other day with a phenomenal TX provider.
If a provider was going to be cautious by limiting the kissing portion of the GFE experience that they provide, I'd wait on scheduling a date until they were ready to resume that aspect again. For my provider experience to be satisfying, I require the steamy make-out session as a part of it.
I don't ask about the vaccine because I feel it's really none of my business. We're all adults who should be responsible enough to know if we think we've been exposed and then take the necessary precautions to not spread it to others.
One lady, whom I have been seeing about twice a month for over ten years, said she was stopping kisses with most of her clients. Except for me, lol, and X-number of others.... Anyway we have been growing older together and not about to stop - hell, I know her pussy better than the wife's.
I love GFE. I hobby when I travel mainly and had to shelve a Houston-Dallas trip cause of the virus. Would've seen a provider in each city.
Ended up going to Milwaukee later in the summer, had plans for an escort but she cancelled about an hour before the scheduled appointment.
Saw one of my local favorites instead. Se had protocols in place to be safe. She only took appointments every 2 weeks. I was not allowed to dine in at restaurants or work out and was temperature checked at the appointment. Aside from that, activities were normal.
Saw a touring gal earlier this year. GFE activities were done. Pre appointment precautions were not done.
Going to Phoenix next week. Seeing an old friend. I am fully vaxxxed. No idea her status. Cant really say care.
Without GFE the session can go down by 50% IMO! With C19 and some providers GFE is just off the table/bed! I believe it will take down scores and in reviews do not make a session look attractive for anyone checking out a provider to visit! A good GFE added to the visit sends it through the roof! Now, I've had different degrees of GFE and they are always wanted and appreciated! Not passe' at all, maybe just on hold for some and I do miss it each time it's not included in the session. IMO! But, with Covid you tend to give some slack!
Full gfe (bbbj, dfk) and fun.
I did not hobby the first 7 months of 2020. Started back slowly in Aug. Vaccinated in April. Making up for lost time now.
If you are in a room with a girl for an hour I don't think it makes any difference as for Covid whether you kiss just once, or DFK for the entire hour.
I'm not a doctor...but I did stay at a Holiday Inn last night.
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It is a big part of time together with a gent.
Who wants to jump into bed and just get right to it.
Kissing,touching,licking,sucking is all part of the fun that really makes a very enjoyable time
I have been requiring every gent I see to wash their hands immediately as soon as they come through the door.
Surprisingly,I have had some guys give me pushback on washing their hands.
I have heard Oh I took a shower before I came I am all good. Then we have to have the conversation about touching countless things from shower time until he comes through my door. Then they get it.
On a few occasions when a gent have came to see me and have a persistent cough no kissing is offered,
On one occasion I asked one gent to leave with his envelope as he was clearly sick and whatever he had I did not want.
Better safe than sorry
I have been traveling all of this year and the greater part of last year minus a few months last year.
I take my wipes I sanitize my room before I see anyone and after every gent I see. THe clorox wipes comes out. lol
I am fully vaccinated so I don't have concerns with providing GFE
I have been requiring every gent I see to wash their hands immediately as soon as they come through the door.
Surprisingly,I have had some guys give me pushback on washing their hands.
I have heard, "Oh, I took a shower before I came, I am all good."
Just like you, jaydalee, I don't want to hear "I'm already clean" or "Don't worry, I showered last night before I went to bed". Nor do I want to try and say that to the escort. Don't take my word that I'm clean, verify it yourself, just like I don't want to just take her word for it, I want to verify it myself.
Besides, foreplay can start in the shower stall, right? Yes, getting all slippery wet with your partner and playing with each other's body parts is a lot of fun.
I would like to see every escort brush her teeth within five minutes of us being together, and I'm also willing to do the same. Hell, I admot that I'm even envious of the blue mouthwash routine that Korean providers have made famous. It makes complete sense to me that On-The-Spot mouth hygiene leads to more and better probability of DFK, and of enjoying DFK.
I just can not personally imagine playing with a woman without freshly brushed teeth and hand washing. I know that there are other guys that don't see it that way. I personally want to see only providers that emphasize be clean or be gone.
She didn't tell me ahead of time when we made the arrangements, and to her credit I did not specifically ask, but I found out within ten minutes of our date starting that because of COVID concerns, she took DFK off the table completely. I respected her decision without commenting, but I was truly disappointed, and it resulted in a one-and-one between us. It's really a shame, because almost everything else about her was 90% to 95% up my alley. Technically, she was GFE but held back temporarily on that one aspect of it for COVID (she has such a sexy, kissable mouth, too).
GFE is a main contributing factor in my decision to repeat with an escort, so if and when she shows it on a first date, I'm in. The difficulty can come from merely promised GFE that turns out to be GFE-lite, or GFE with an asterisk behind it, figuratively speaking. The way that GFE can be described differently by each person who talks about it also means that one's expectations might not match up to another's interpretations.
During 2020 and into the easing of restrictions brought on by vaccine-availability and lower negative COVID stats, I have taken extra precautions beyond the basic hygiene actions that any person respectfully undergoes to be intimate with another person, all in the interest of keeping the hotness level and the kinkiness level of P4P that I enjoy. I am very glad that I found escorts who thought and acted the same way.
I have not noticed any loss of the GFE factor, to be honest, even though I hobbied twice in 2020: July and October. Maybe I lucked out with a good agency, maybe the girls trusted me not to be a 'Rona carrier, or maybe who knows. Although the most recent time I hobbied this year in March, I was already fully vaccinated, and the lady seemed to really like that.
Every time, I excused myself to wash my hands right after I dropped off the envelope. Which is a tactic having nothing to do with 'Rona. I learned it back in 2005. It gives the lady a chance to look at the envelope, and it lets me actually wash my hands. It's a courtesy on my part---I usually take a train to my sessions, and trains are filthy, with or without 'Rona. If I'm gonna hold her hand and play with her hair---and that's just the start---I like knowing I have clean hands.
Either way, nothing changed from 2019. Hugging, DFK, full touch, and what-have-you were all on the table as before.
How does washing hands prevent covid or just reduce the odds of transferring the virus if you're going to have sex with a woman?
How does washing hands prevent covid or just reduce the odds of transferring the virus if you're going to have sex with a woman?
It's not perfect, but at the same time, not doing it is worse than doing it. That's true even if and when sex is part of the equation.
beforehand. They were and are concerned about FIV and, as you say, "...our hands come into contact with so many different things..." They don't want guys poking around with unclean hands.
beforehand. They were and are concerned about FIV and, as you say, "...our hands come into contact with so many different things..." They don't want guys poking around with unclean hands.
I cut back the frequency of my visits and limited my partners to a short list of favorites for repeats! Most of the girls are cautious and slightly lower volume. They also continued to provide full GFE services throughout Covid! Thankfully the slowdown and precautions are behind us now! I’m back to a full schedule!
Mid March to June 3 or 4 of 2020 things were shut down so no activity then but after that I was seeing my regulars as usual with one or two new ladies thrown in.
I have seen someone nearly every week. Many were strippers in VIP. Everything was on the menu.