Have you ever just  had a horrible providing day where everything just went wrong..like the incall location turned out to be some @#$! and you werent able to click with the guys you had appointments with because they were either too quiet,had the personality of a dial tone or they just freaked you out!? If you're having a bad day, does it reflect on your performance? and as a result, does it effect your reviews?

I think I need a Twix bar right about now..smh

If be's being weird, stand-offish, too quiet yet  you're still nice and bend over backwards to please then it's just him. Some will sit through and appt they are not "feeling" just because they already paid which imo is unfair to the girl so some will review anyways and does it affect how we rates you maybe.  I don't get many of the days you describe but there have still been a few. So at least the good ones greatly outweigh those.

It doesn't matter what you do for a living, we all have bad days.  Like mentioned above, there are so many more good ones than bad ones.  When a bad day happens, I just shake it off and make tomorrow better.  I don't believe it effects my service.  I'm able to put everything out of my mind and just focus on my client when I'm with him.  My bad day is not my client's fault so I'm not going to give him less than what he should expect to get.

How you handle your bad day makes all the difference in the world.

Sometimes you need to just take a moment for yourself. Regroup and find yourself in yoga. (Yoga helps so much!) Like the previous statements; we all have bad days. And most often it's the bad days that build our character and help us to improve and become more stable and secure. I'm no DR. lol but being apart of the biz for so long sp's are like DR.'s lol If you need a twix with some ice cream on the side! whatever makes your day brighter!
Just note: we never want our business to reflect our personal moods. Hence sharing business & personal accounts are never good. If you lose control in one the other will follow.



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i have had bad days where my car is acting up to the date cancelling on me at the last second..but we all deal with it.. even at work when i get chewed out by my mgrs .. i take it in stride..    as for reviews? most of my guys dont post on TER.. they post on my yahoo group.
Indiana Provider  not vip here..