Disturbing similarities.... effeminate posts, white knightism, and PC crap.  Very frightening.

Im not divorced, but was engaged and am no longer. For me the best part is I have a HELL of a lot more money to spend on the hobby. she was more expensive than any lady! Guess that's what happens when u take on an unemployed and uneducated 20 yr old The worst part is I do miss having that warm body next to me every night... and of course the free sex, but I am sure that would've dissapeared after the marriage!

Ditto on the clean house!....Plus i now no longer have to look at her,"Friggin Ugly Face".

I was married once, for 2 1/2 years. I was in my early thirties. My career in the US Navy made it impossible to spend sustained time together, and I was a hobbyist as well. I TOLD the lady to expect all of the above, and she still wanted to marry. I foolishly went along with it, out of some sense of responsibility for having enjoyed a lot of pretty good sex with a nice Catholic girl. I took responsibility for her conscience, which was a mistake. The bad thing about the whole deal is that the lady hates my guts to this day, over twenty years later. The good thing is that I learned something important about myself - I love screwing women, but I do not like the drama that comes with a "relationship".  So I hobby and occasionally pick up a civvy target of opportunity. And I run as soon as a lady starts seeking approval from me or tells me about the crappy sex with her boyfriend or asks my advice or wants to date me non-professionally. OK, so I'm a bad, bad man, but there it is.

Re: For the divorced guys.....

Best thing: being rid of a virus.
Worst thing: The children.

Geez, the best thing about the divorce is

The SHE BITCH is no longer living with me.



The worst thing about the divorce is

My kids are still on her side and I miss my kids dearly.

Worse parts about the divorce....

I miss the marriage (not the x though)
I miss seeing my kids everyday... a whole lot - and even though I see the 50% of the time, I don't see them 50% of the time.
I miss the fun of working with a partner in the day to day decisions (and we did that in the 1st half of our marriage)
I miss my ex's eye on interior decorating.
I also miss my ex's earning power - her degree is worth more than mine.

best parts of the divorce,

I can hobby - could not when married (internal stuff kept me from cheating at any level)
I can also go strip clubbin... and love to.
I can go drinkin with my buddies... with no repercussions...
I can be with my kids, as I want to without any worry about what my ex will say....
I can sleep late on saturday mornings....
I can watch what I want on TV!  

And Mr. Fisher - if you love Braniacs - perhaps I should introduce you to the ex ms. Superdude... yea, she is that smart.  me?  I like smart women too, but not those that feel that only by beating you at everything will they win your love....