So many of these women on SD sites say they are looking for a.mentor.  WTF?  I'm not looking to give career advice or take you under my wing. I'm here to pay you to fuck you.

Don't browse those sites, right?

Paying someone so you can fuck them... a whole nuther thing.  

it may just be marketing, but SBs want to believe the relationship is more than P4P

Or maybe it's just a thing that sounds nice...like when reviews call a girl a "keeper" or instruct others to "treat her well" or whatever. BFD.

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so I'm not going to stop browsing them. Just saying that all the profiles mentioning mentoring are getting tiresome.  And no, they're not looking for a mentor, they're there to make money. In exchange for sex.

It might just be the way they phrase it. Just like escort just "model" for you, or serve as "companions". Get it?

... so you won't bother them!!

If, for example, they are new to sugarbabyland, they might want to meet their very first sugar daddy and learn what it's all about. If you believe that. But even if you don't, it gives you a clue as to what sort of "relationship" could be in store.

That they mean like career path advice, networking tactics, business/entrepreneurial acumen, that sort of thing. Whether she spoke for all of them or just herself, who knows

At least someone asked a Sugar Baby what she thought a mentor would do for her...! Perhaps there are some additional SB's who could add to the commentary ?

I read it as being used in the sense of looking for older 'wiser' men, you know like a daddy. Mentor type Daddy's would help with not just money, but like a surrogate fatherly figure who may leave her with some helpful tips or more mature perspectives about life. She may not have access to successful role models in her life.  I believe it's looking for SD who would care to engage in intellectually stimulating conversations, along with the fun.  
Mentoring "Daddy types" are usually less crass than to speak of her with the attitude you have. I'm not putting you down, that's your choice.  Just not what she is looking for.  Obviously, not a fit for you.

You can get lucky on these SD sites with girls who do not know their value - yet.
That's why they are fun.  You want pussy- They need money- Some arrangement can be worked out.

The women writing this probably just think it's something that sounds a little classier than the stereotypical BP ad.  

very funny...but stupid!!!

This can be actually true.  Courts have ruled that mistress relationships are not illegal even if the mistress is showered with cash and gifts.  

... and the first civil case is filled against a SD because the girl is suffering from stress disorder because the man tricked her into selling him some pussy.

I think they think it makes them look more mature and therefore more desirable to older guys.

just give them this universal advice.....

...You're a mentor! See how easy that was?

It's simple don't write to them. Every guy don't just need to get their nut. Some guys want to feel needed and want to help the woman move in a better direction preferably away from someone like you. I've never had a problem finding someone who wanted to be a mentor towards me. I've learned a lot from the last relationship I was in for 8 years. Maybe you should just stick to escorts and prostitutes because the what you wrote you sound like a complete asshole. And if you took the time to read some of the ads some of the guys on there say they are looking to mentor.

You are so right. Thank you for someone else on this board who have a brain. When you put mentor in your ad that means that you are looking for someone older who can help you along the way with your business ventures. I only look for guys who want to be mentor. Everyone isn't a dumb slut. Some of us have brains. You use what you got to get what you want. First thing is invest in yourself.

I'm on those sites and my profile states that I am looking for a mentor. Because when you are looking for a sugar daddy you aren't just looking to sell pussy. That's not what a sugar relationship is about. It's an actual relationship with attachment and teaching/learning/mentoring/experiencing. if you just want to pay a girl for sex then stay on this site. But being a sugar daddy is about more than just the money and the sex. it's a friendship first and foremost.

no matter how you choose to phrase it. You may be "looking for career advice," but you're still sellling your pussy.  As far as sticking to escorts, please keep your advice to yourself, I've found and fucked lots of whores on these sites. And never had to give them career advice lol.

They're still whores.

It's sex first and foremost, but go on deluding yourself.

now bring in alan sues and joanne worley and you've got a hat trick!

Client, trick, john, dumbass, atm, misogynistic prick - Which would you prefer? You call women whores so quid pro quo is only fair, right?

You say that as if we should take offense! But dear, whore is just a word!

that being with men in better positions changed many courses in my life. I had them (eventually) tell me about how to better manage my money, business and skills to do better for myself. We discussed different ways to increase business (my civilian job) and other ways that the married men I had been with (I was a mistress a few times over) have helped me. In return, I helped them. Ahem. I didn't initially go in looking for a mentor but it is how it all turned out. I appreciated the help. They appreciated me paying them for that help. Ahem again ;

I've had several "mentoring" relationships where an hour session turns into several hours of just lying around in bed, talking about career, school and life in general. I don't think this equates to OTC time, a dirty acronym around here. YMMV?