Physical attraction can never be denied, so appearance gets the first look.

Second look would come with any history of board postings, what her activity level here might be and her level of communicative skills.

Third look means I'm now sufficiently intrigued to check out her website. If I like what I see there, then on to the reviews and looking for a consistent pattern that indicates that we might be a good fit. I'm always mindful of the YMMV syndrome from one provider/client interaction to the next, so the longer her record of reviews and the more consistent they are over a wider selection of "reviewees," then the better I feel.

Like everyone else, somebody who "looks good on paper" can be a total mismatch with me when we finally start to communicate one-on-one.

So if all has gone well during the preliminaries, we'll start trying to match schedules -- then comes the payoff for both of us (hopefully). No matter how well one plans, there's always the wild card -- I believe his name is Murphy.

All of the above...

I prefer Asian and South American women with petite frames and dark hair. That being said, if she has bad reviews I don't care what she looks like, I'm not rolling the dice.  If she has good reviews then my next consideration is her rate.  I can get laid every week by one of my favs for around $300 an hour so I rarely spend more than that no matter how good a woman looks or how good her reviews are.

Lastly, I will roll the dice when I'm traveling on a gal with no reviews, provided she has a good web site, or an agency gal if it is an agency that I have used in the past.  Again, rate is a consideration here.

Service(s) provided, looks, price, location. Then it's on to the reviews and to try to get an idea of what other hobbyists have experienced. If I think we'll gee-haw, I'll try and set up an appointment.

1. Looks - I have no particular type.  I think any healthy women has the potential to be attractive. A nice smile is the main thing for me.
2. Personality - I like the friendly, sweet type. I prefer GFE.
3. Reviews - I look for consistency of good service.
4. Price - I'm generally mid-market $300/hr. But I've met some great gals in the $200/hr range too.
5. Location - No more than an hour drive from where I am. Easy parking or Metro accessible (DC).
6. Professionalism - easy to contact (via email or phone) and responds in at timely manner.  Also, puctuality. I don't like waiting in my car or hotel lobby any longer than I have too.
7. It also helps if they have a decent website and belong to one of the verification sites (Date-Check, Preferred 411, etc...).

All things equal.What will sell me every time over other choices is nice photos that show her smile and eyes

Since I'm paying she's got to look the part, but above all others, she has to really love and show that she loves what she does. I am not talking about fake over-the-top stuff, just someone who likes to give and get. You are renting after all and too much big head thinking will impact your little head.

I'm not looking for a beautiful perfect robot.

I like voloputous ladies .. and athletic teens .. but they got to be able to carry themselves as true GFEs.

First; I look at her photo's.  I look for her general build and attractiveness.  I look at the assets she shows, but also what she does not show in her pictures.  You can tell a lot about a person from her expressions, so Face pictures are a big plus with me.

Second; is her stats.  (Measurements, age, hair color, etc.)  

Third; Reviews and menu offerings.  

Last; donation amount.

I like young, thin, light skin, women.  But no single item is a deal breaker.

I used to think that I knew

I have a type.  Young, thin, blonde, with small perky real breasts.  I've scorched a trail through a wild pack of them through the years.  Then, just when it seemed safe for all the rest of womankind, I got thrown off the beaten path.

I got to spend an hour or so with a lady tonight that was not the normal little phil model.  She's still thin, because that is a must.  Amazingly, while not the target demographic, I have to declare that she is truly beautiful.  So, go figure.  Even a miserable old fucker like me can learn.  

Oh, and she kept her clothes on (ok, in full disclosure, she did pee).  She probably will next time as well.  But I make no promises for the time after that.

Oh, and I'm not naming names.  She knows I was there.

I look first for physical attraction and location-i prefer close to where i work - and for looks i am not so fussy about hair color but she must not be too large or heavy

Then I check reviews and too many under 8 will discourage

other disqualifiers
implants
piercings other than belly button
no bbbj
no dfk
over $300

Mine is about:
--40% attitude
--20% communication, both what and how
--20% appearance
--20% reviews/other

Jaydalee, the first thing I look at is physical appearance.  I prefer the exotic type whether at be Hispanic, Asian, Middle Eastern....I just
LOVE the dark skin, dark eyes and hair.  THEN...I go straight to the donation and see if I can afford to see this person more than once if we have a great time.  I don't like seeing two different girls a day everyday when I am hobbling.  I prefer to find one or two that I am really comfortable with.  I know I can afford to see whoever I want ONCE...but it would be nice if their rates were such that you could see them SEVERAL times!

Once I have determined that based on their rate I could POSSIBLY see this provider multiple times then I look at her reviews.  They are very important to me.   I need to know what she offers and what ahe doesnt.  GFE is way important necause i like to kiss.  Multiple pops being allowed is important to me as well.  Bbbj isnt as important to me but it is nice.  

So few fine providers come through my home town here in Southwest Virginia that I really do my research when I go to Vegas.  For a while, I was flying a lady here to spend a few days with me here because we got along so well.

So in a nut-shell (no pun intended)

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Or just got out of one.

These can all come together to get me in the door, but they're not enough to get me to return.

A PYT from Florida was definitely the hottest provider I have seen, but she ran a script and mostly laid there. I didn't pick this up initially reading her reviews, but figured out later. I gave her a 9/5 (I was tempted for a 10/4).

However, some providers who are a bit plainer (still hot) have the attitude that keeps me coming back for more.

Some guys are after the hottest thing they can find that is still breathing, and call it good.

For me it is a complete package deal.

If I am not, why waste hers and my time.  However, before that, she has to do incall, as I cannot do outcall except when on the road.  Then I look at her profile/reviews to see if she has any of my deal-breakers, which are no DFK, and no BBBJ.  If those are not available, I'm done right there.

Obviously, if her reviews are not good, or she does not have any, it's over too.  I'm not gonna see someone with bad reviews thinking I'm the one that can make her change her routine.  Price is also a prominent factor, as I very seldom go over $300 for a donation.  To do that, she would really have to appear special to me.

So, there are a number of factors that go into  my decision on whether or not to visit someone.

Swim

For me, the absolute most important thing in choosing a provider is reviews. I don't rely on a single review, good or bad, but look for a common pattern in the reviews that indicate what type of provider she is... Such as Attitude, Approach, Etc.  The most important thing to me is not body, age, race, etc, it is whether during a session she was flirty, seductive, enthusiastic, perhaps a little kinky, definitely fun (where SHE typically appears to be having fun as well as the guy, not just mechanical going-thru-the-motions)... I never allow one or two bad reviews or exceptional reviews to sway me, I look for the general trend that tells me what I can reasonably expect her to be like... Lance