it I see them anywhere between once a month and twice a week. It depends on who's in my regular rotation at the time. I have the same deal as you . . . . . if I cannot physically see them in person, we converse via email, text message, or facetime & they send me gifts. It's a great life, isn't it?
How often, do you have to see someone? Once a week…once a month…once a year?
I have life long friends & see them on a regular basis. I’m curious providers & fellas what makes someone a regular? For me even if I can not physically see them in person, we converse via email, video, phone & they send me gifts.
I enjoy two or three meetings per month. Building friendship and trust makes the experience that much better.
Enjoy
it I see them anywhere between once a month and twice a week. It depends on who's in my regular rotation at the time. I have the same deal as you . . . . . if I cannot physically see them in person, we converse via email, text message, or facetime & they send me gifts. It's a great life, isn't it?
Some will be a few times per year with no contact in between. Others can be once a week (schedule permitting) and we text almost daily and hang out off the clock frequently.
I kinda have the following categories:
- Ad girls, I won't save their number because if I want to see them again I'll find their ad/site again
- Regulars, I'll save their number with the intention to repeat frequently
- Faves, probably are on real name basis, know what's going on in their life, will drop them a line once in a while to see how they're doing.
- Friends, relationship has moved beyond just sessions. Have a good relationship and typically will see them once a week either professionally or personally. Care about them just like any other friend
- ATF status... I'll treat her like a girlfriend without her being my girlfriend.
Guys sending you gifts ? Why ? Guys please explain why ?
I'm actually on my way to the Panerai store for a provider's birthday gift as I'm typing this. Why? Because I'm not poor and I love spoiling women. I always have. Love the reaction. The problem with civvies is that if I buy them something nice they automatically start planning a wedding. And I don't want that.
that giving to others is the path to happiness.
I learned years ago that buying myself nice things brings pleasure, buying nice things for others brings happiness
Get her one of their bread bowls full of the soup of the day. Panera is low-cost, so it's okay if you're poor, but rich people are welcome, too. Just be aware they are loaded with carb calories, so if she is already struggling to maintain her weight, you might want to consider a healthier choice at a salad place.
I agree with what you said about gifts for civvie women, but don't be surprised if some providers have the same attitude when you give them something luxurious and stunning. I had a FWB civvie girl who I fucked for free for a year, and I ordered her a Sapphire and Diamond ring for her birthday, but I was careful to tell my jeweler to make sure it doesn't look like an engagement or wedding ring. Fortunately, it worked and there were no awkward moments.
Rings are probably the only thing I won't ever give because of the symbolism. And anything I'd consider an asset ie cars, real estate is also a no go
How long would you have to fuck the same pussy to get the intrinsic value of a car or a condo? Too long, IMO. Lol
Well she's probably gonna get a ring before she'd get a car. Real estate will only happen if my attorneys fucked up and she gets it during the divorce.
I gave this married woman I was seeing an anklet because wearing it on the right ankle supposedly symbolizes looking to have an affair. In the case of a single woman on the right foot it also symbolizes single and available. In my sick and twisted mind, giving the anklet was sort of a symbol of her submission to bondage.
Poor ? Neither am I, just not a love smitten guy like you. Wake up bro.
I never said you were poor, I said I wasn't as in I can afford to buy nice things for ladies and it makes me happy to do so, so why not. And if you'd actually read my post instead of getting stuck on the word poor, you'd have understood that I'm trying to avoid the whole love thing when giving gifts.
it's okay if THEY love YOU. Just make sure they get there before you do and it can be a great relationship.
when I was pounding a girl from behind, she started yelling, "Marry me! Marry me!"
I started laughing but she never explained.
For me it isn't about who gets there first but the kind of love. I love a few providers the same way I love good friends. But romantic love is a no no. And yes the lines can get blurry once in a while. But I understand what is what and have no illusions that I'll end up in a real relationship with them. Done it, have no interested in doing that again, but if it does happen again the path will be very different than the last time.
Sharing is caring. I buy my friends gifts too! Gratitude & kindness is very sexy. I reciprocate! Xo
I see about 5 or 6 local gals about 4-5 times per year, and have done so with them for many years, in most cases. So they are definitely regulars.
Then there are gals who travel to my area once or maybe twice per year, and I usually see them unless there is some conflict, so I consider them regulars as well.
"regular-ly" to be considered a regular. Not sure if that means on any set calendar frequency.
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