Ladies- Do you ever get that request from a gentleman, who wants you to double with someone that you are just NOT attracted to? Do you do the doubles to please him? How do you find yourself getting out of it? Do you give him a list of excuses? Or, are you honest in telling him, that you are not attracted to the girl? See, I was in a similiar situation some months ago, and I made up some excuses to get out of it. I was scared that if I told him the truth, he would probably repeat back to her.

Gentlemen- When you pick your 2 girls as double partners, and only come to find out, that one if not attracted to the other, how do you react to this? Are you insistant on this venue, because it is your fantasy that you are paying for? Or, you go with the flow, and try to listen to the provider's choice on who she will double with?

Mel..

-- Modified on 3/1/2003 10:58:35 AM

Well, this is just me, but I would want to know who you do find attractive and would enjoy doubling with.  I would want you to feel comfortable enough to enjoy yourself and our time together to it's fullest potential.  I would reserve the right to say I'm not attracted to the lady you want to come, but I'm sure we could find someone who gets both our motors running.  I'm kind of like a woman, in that I'm just as attracted or put off by what's written on the pages as the cover of the book.  There is beauty in all of us, whether it is inside, outside, or (if we're lucky) pouring out of every pore of our being.  Sex appeal is just a matter of letting it flow, and we all have to find our own way of doing that.  Anyway, back to the question at hand.  If you weren't attracted to someone I wanted see with you, I would be happy to work with you and find someone we both find sexy.  I know that not everyone would feel that way.  I just hope the vast majority would.  In the end, all you can do is be honest and hope the guy's not an asshole.  And if he is, that's his problem, not yours.
P.S.  This is all just my own opinion.

"Gentlemen- When you pick your 2 girls as double partners, and only come to find out, that one if not attracted to the other, how do you react to this?"

Well, if it were me spending a lot of money for a three-way, I'd make darned sure the two women enjoyed each other, too. If I felt that one or both were just putting up with it, well, it would spoil the fun for me. The way I would approach this is to simply ask provider #1 "Is there anyone in particular you like to work with?" If I find her attractive, too, then great! Otherwise I'd ask if she had other suggestions. I find the results are much better if you work with the other person than if you say "my money, my way."

I have to be attracted to the lady I am working with. There has to be some kind of attraction between us in order for it to be fun for all parties involved. The very best doubles partner I ever had was Harley of Tampa. Not only were we best friends, but very into each other when it came to having fun. This made a big impact on the gents that we saw together.

I have had other doubles partners since and always had a good time. I have had gents ask me if I was interested in working with a couple of ladies I did not know or wasnt very attracted to. I simply reply to them that I do not usually work with ladies that are unfamiliar to me. I work with Devin here in Las Vegas, mainly because she is sexy, but she really makes it alot of fun.

Having the ladies know one another and how each other ticks and what the limits are is a very important aspect when booking this kind of appointment. Tbis is usually a big fantasy for the guys and if the ladies are not into it or have no repoire' with each other, it will end up being awkward for all parties involved.

Next time tell your gent your not sure the lady in question will click with you. Suggest someone you have worked with and gel with in that scenario. If he declines then by all means give him the opportunity to see you alone or go with someone else. It is his fantasy and it generally costs a pretty penny, so it must be something that will make him happy.

Just be honest in a delicate manner.

xoxoxo
Lass

-- Modified on 3/1/2003 2:56:35 PM

I agree with what others have said. The experience is going to be much better when the ladies are having fun. If they have fun, you have fun. Bottom line kind of thing. It's all about the overall experience, everything has to mesh and then the fun can be had.

Just my 2 cents

ShuadChaun

I often work with one of my best friends and love working with her as she is gorgeous, sexy and we have fun together.  This means the client has the time of his life too.  

I've done a duo with a woman I didn't find attractive (in personality or looks) once and it was hard.  I've had a client who is a regular of her's ask me to join them since and I've declined.  I'm so much more fussy with women I sleep with!!

but because I travel a lot I can't take her with me..so in that case the client and I both make a 'wish' list often the same lady shows up in both lists so then it is very easy..
I like it only when the other lady is genuinely bi sexual..I hate it when it is just a show with fake moans etc.