1. Inside information. From avoiding scammers to learning details of services provided.
2. Camaraderie. People that go thru the same shit one does.
I am curious if the majority here preferred a sausage fest board, or do you actually enjoy & value an OG in the industry’s knowledge? Sharing is caring. I love being a VIP member on this board + a top rated provider. I receive DM’s daily with encouragement from other members who are tired of the trolls as well. Hide behind an alias if you feel the need. This board was boring before I started to participate. My personal opinion.
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to the sausage fest board!
I prefer a board that is welcoming to all members, male and female. The board was much better when we had a good mix of companions and clients posting.
I appreciate your presence here.
That being said, I DO want a board where all opinions can be heard, not just the ones we might want to hear. It might be contentious at times, but this board is the ONLY place I know of where companions and clients from anywhere can go for an open discourse and discussion.
with little to no blocking of ideas.
However, people should always remember: Just because you can say something doesn't mean that you should always say it.
That being said some of it has very little no substance but at the same time sure as hell beats nine hours of silence and definitely beats the tone of those attacking your posts. Then others bring up new topics for thought and interaction.
Also is a step ahead of a couple others here attacking each other with the same types of troll posts .
Keep posting as more are enjoying your posts then finding them wrong or offending.
I appreciate your posts even if they aren't particularly serious sometimes.
I wish more ladies were regular posters. It certainly livens things up and it's always good to get a different perspective from the other side of the bed.
I enjoy your posts on this and other boards. In fact, I enjoy the interaction that we get to have as a group of the somewhat socially outcast. Those of us on this board share much in common, I'm sure. We have our differences in how we see the world and how we see others in it. We also differ wildly with how we present ourselves here. However, the one thing that we all have in common is this activity that we participate in.
There will always be trolls on any internet board, and there will always be bully's. We have some of both here. I believe that in general, this is a small but good group. I believe that every one of us here has something of "value" to offer. Some simply choose to limit their offerings and present a face that probably isn't very true to who they really are outside of this forum.
I do wish that more providers would participate on this board and the others that are available. Your perspective is appreciated by me and most others who come here for whatever reason brings us together in this forum. I live on one side of this hobby and providers live on another. It is always beneficial when we can get together and share what makes us tick. For me, that is where the "value" perception is.
I can't say if there's one or two individuals who I really read and take to heart what they have to say most of the time.Alot have something interesting to add to a thread. But there's one or two who are so full of shit that I rarely read anything they have to say.. I just roll my eyes when I see that they've chimed in.
But as a whole I enjoy most post and if I feel I have something to contribute, I will....if not I'll just pass on by. I'm not "that guy" who feels he has to chime in on every thread that is posted just to be heard from.
It’s embodied in the Constitution (specifically, the first amendment.). It’s called free speech. Say what you want.
However, the first amendment doesn’t protect anyone’s free speech from being attacked as stupid, dumb, or many other characterizations … because those critiques are also free speech.
So if you’re thick skinned and don’t mind criticism, post whatever you want.
If your thin skinned and easily offended, you might want to find another hobby.
Variety is the spice of life. Hearing from women on here is something I welcome, I find it adds to the atmosphere around here. If this were only a bunch of guys, meh.
Whether male or female, not everyone’s posts are 100% accepted by others, myself included. I don’t join every thread, so if a post or its answers or its comments interest me to the point that I want to provide input, I do it.
I also know what it’s like to post something on here and hace its intent completely misunderstood by some people. Sometimes a person might just want to stimulate new banter and throws out an off the wall question, it doesn’t hurt anyone. I don’t think that every single post needs to be about a serious topic or delivered in a serious way, I think any post that generates conversations has validity.
Your questions in particular I see as you genuinely wanting to be a part of keeping this place lighthearted and fun. Asking questions that no one expects or that no one else would ask, sort of like a conversation piece in the middle of the dining room table. Its purpose is to encourage conversation.
...The MPLS board had a wonderful ratio of men/women. I've participated since the previous version of TER was in place (1999?) but I can't speak for the general board by memory. Hobbyists and providers had great interaction and the ability to back channel/PM across the lines was fucking priceless. It was unfortunately, pretty common for a rogue actor or unhinged member to use an alias and become a nuisance. Too often, there presence seemed only to harass and impugn providers. I'm guessing it was some form of aggression based on their inability to play normal with the opposite sex. Whatever the case, it drove providers away from the board. Competition from other platforms didn't help but I still think TER is the gold standard for this activity. It was an extremely useful and valuable amenity to be able to get to know a provider long before you met in person.
Yeah, I know members get tired of me going after the TER board assholes but their efforts have had substantial negative repercussions.
Anybody who imparts their knowledge and experience (good or bad) which would include both clients and providers, bring value to this forum.
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I learned the ropes here before venturing out.
Done a single review or dated any.one Some people are just a fake, imposter, undercover, or just get his kicks from trolling.
1. Inside information. From avoiding scammers to learning details of services provided.
2. Camaraderie. People that go thru the same shit one does.
Don't care about know-it-alls that feel entitled enough to criticize everyone else. Don't need lectures. Don't need to read personal fights among posters.
Although mostly on the Erotic Highway board, 2 standouts are herbtcat and sweetman. I only lurk there for a vicarious experience but they are the most helpful posters I've ever read in all my years on TER. In fact that board in general sets a standard that other boards can only dream of.
I appreciate and enjoy your post. You are a positive light in a hailing shit storm. You show the wonderful nature of many providers and overcast the incessant drivel over rates, deposits and the “why we secretly hate and mistrust women” negativity etc…
of you coming on this board and leading us out of the darkness. We should call you Ms. Moses for the way you lead the unwashed masses out of (or into - lol) bondage. Anyone who thinks you are not the best thing that happened to this board in recent years should just ask you, right? Lol
I had to hit the like button. I love your creative writing. You made me smile. Make it a great day! Xoxo
I'm happy. No need to thank me, but it IS steak and blowjob day. Lol
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TBH CDL is half the reason I even come here anymore.
I'm exempt from the steak and a blowjob thing though, not nearly korean enough. If he wants to buy me a steak though....
I like your input Queenbia always love reading your post btw I wwouldprefer more value input from providers
I would love more providers to participate as well love, but unfortunately the disrespect detours them. So I’ve heard from my dm. It is what it is. Let’s make this community great again.
You add so much value here ! Keep on with topics and thought provoking posts !!!!!!!!!!
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"This board was boring before" YOU started to participate? Perhaps, but you have done little with your judgmental posts to make it less so. Not to mention your numerous threADS. You probably don't like me but I'm no troll. I just call it like I see it.
Like Harry "Give 'em Hell" Truman once said when asked, "Why do you give 'em hell, Harry?" "I don't give 'em hell. I just tell the truth and they THINK it's hell."
And I don't give much of a damn if you or anybody else doesn't like it.
Have a blessed day. LOL.
I do love sharing & Caring (But I do need the cash). HELL!!!!! Money Talks & Bull Shit Walks.
brings value:
Honest answers
humorous answers
insightful answers
provocative questions
what does not:
ad nauseam back and forth attacks
shill posts
threAD posts
I’m thinking back about ten or more years. It was incredibly vicious. I had no desire to post on here. It was an absolute shit show. There were definitely more women posting here then (probably more men too) but it wasn’t pleasant that’s for sure….