Question for Hobbiest?
Is it rude to ask a provider to finish this way?  

Question for providers?
What is your reaction when someone asks you this question?  Are you usually offended or do you just say yes or no?

thanks

I  don't think it's rude to ask beforehand, provided that you respect her answer if a yes or a no. It would be rude to do the action without asking her permission. For myself, I am not too much of a big fan of either, but depending on the chemistry between my client and I, sometimes I will allow it

I hope this helps!

Mel

Has never been one of disgust. I do however find that to be actually more intimate than most activities. I know it sounds strange, but hey this is me we are talking about...LOL

I have usually kept those kinds of activities exclusive for the men in my private life. But when it has happened I never came unglued. When gentleman have asked if this was something I offered I politely said no. My concern was my gents happiness with our time together and sometimes giving me a pearl necklace or facial was not planned but did happen, but I always explained that that wasn't the "norm". I did not want them to assume this was something that would happen everytime. I guess that put me in the YMMV catagory but so be it. There is always a time and place for certain activities and sometimes you just step away from the basics and go with the flow because in the end the happiness of your gent and yourself is what is most important.

As I explained before, it depends on the chemistry that I may have with a client. Although I am not a big fan of it, I have done it in certain circumstances. I would lable myself a YMMV kind of girl

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Is there a easy way to ask the question, without offending the provider?  

thank you for your response.

I always ask a very simple question at the beginning of the session.

"What are your boundries?" If I don't hear my favorite things, I make a simple statement of the things that I like to do. Then I ask if these fall within the lady's boundries. Depending on the response I make a decision to walk or stay.

Besides, why do you think they call me HiProGlo????

Cheers,

HPG

There's no harm in asking for anything.  Weather a provider is into it or not I believe most would rather like to know everything they could do for you, then decide to do it or not. Rather than find out later you would've had a better time if........

XOXO Charis

Well, the provider I see on a semi-regular basis (all I can aford) has asked ME for both, so I have been willing to oblige.  


Light

"Cowards can never be moral."
M.K. Gandhi

MD, as long as you ask politely the provider shouldn't be offended.

This is something I offer because I find it erotic but it has surprised me how few men I've seen have expressed any interest in doing it.  I almost never do it because it's almost never mentioned.  I think a lot of men and women have issues around facials in particular.

You should ask away. The only real way of clarifying what a provider defines as "off limits" is to ask her. Most good providers also want to know what you are interested in so that she can make your time as pleasurable as it can be. So be honest and open about it!

I hate getting asked that, because I hate redoing my makeup.