often I find a lady and she looks terrific, she is exactly what I want in terms of personality, price and other qualities... but! when I do a search I come up with nothing... and yet, her posts remain... linking to any reviews would be a help. while I would prefer it be TER, I am not limited to TER.
so, in short I agree! but help us TERites find the other planets of review!
Many discussions have been threaded/posted about references, red flags, diamonds in the rough and gut feelings. But, if I may: just because a lady has reviews on another site and not (or just 1 or 2 on) TER doesn't automatically mean she's a rip-off or has ulterior motives.
Even I don't have an issue letting people know my whereabout or where to find the other reviews. Because I would expect the same consideration.
Some of us live in other parts which aren't prominent and are listed under "Other Cities". The local area boards are where most of the gents post. So please it's not necessary to write rude inquiries to us who tour IL, D.C. and other areas where TER is more 'main stream' if you will.
Just curious if there are other Ladies like my self who're on the up & up who experience this as well?
often I find a lady and she looks terrific, she is exactly what I want in terms of personality, price and other qualities... but! when I do a search I come up with nothing... and yet, her posts remain... linking to any reviews would be a help. while I would prefer it be TER, I am not limited to TER.
so, in short I agree! but help us TERites find the other planets of review!
...heaven-or-hell.com. It's a Madison WI based board and that's where my reviews are. Like TER one must register but it's shows.
Direct links are available by email once you're registered...
When those ask if writing a review is OK; I don't always ask to direct it to a specific board. Now I shall request both boards if it isn't to much trouble for them.
...that this site does not dominate in some markets, even a few large ones. I worked in the bay area (Northern California) about 2 years steadily before ever touring. I had more than 70 consistant reviews during those two years. There were a few business men who visited the bay area and posted TER reviews but they were sparse and there was a one year gap in that 2 years of work.
SEVERAL Gent's just assumed that I was limited in experience or not a full time provider because of the lack of TER write-ups. There were several times that I had to address Gent's rude inquiries/board posts (more over on local boards) in the first tours. Additionally, some were wrong to think I was truly new in the biz (aka: an ignorant fool) and "tested" and "tried" me with some of the most horrific behavior or ridiculous request.
IMO: This biz can be wonderful or savage and a participant will likely experience both should they participate over a longer period . You have to be strong and keep your focus to succeed longterm.
I have traveled to Dallas, and it only got its own "city board" separated out from the general "Texas" board back in February 2007 (though much of the "Texas" board was dedicated to DFW posts). Right now, the "New Reviews" for Dallas shows 68 reviews, while another board that is much more prominent in Dallas has over 300 reviews (plus comments on many of them!) in the same two-week period.
While TER covers my home base of Baltimore/DC much more to my satisfaction than any other board I've encountered, it's not the best resource for all cities across the country. Do your searching, and find out what boards are most prominent wherever you're going to be seeing providers. Post here, and post there as well; information needs to be shared, after all.
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