Wow....no replies? I am amazed......

Wow...no replies? I am amazed...I would have replied sooner but I have been out of pocket of late.

You've actually are asking a few different question here...some listed, some implied...I will try to address them.

"Instead of your wife, girlfriend or ex and you showed up at her place after calling on her Eros ad...Would you have gone through with it and gladly paid for her time? "

This assumes that I saw her in the ad, and was pleased enough with what I saw that I decided to partake. I think you are also implying here that I DON'T know what I am in store for...so far we are dealing with just the visual.

I think the VAST MAJORITY of hobbyist would say that unless there was a serious bait and switch, or misrepresentation, that once they arrived at the said location for the main event, the curtain would be raised, even if there were a tad bit of disappointment with the performer once she was examined first hand. Thus...this might not have been your intended question.

Perhaps you meant...is my SigO attractive enough that "I" would see her if she were a provider. For me...current SigO...no. And that IS NOT to say that she is not attractive. She is...she just doesn't possess the "look" I would seek in an ASP. She DOES have a look that I would seek in a SigO...she LOOKS intelligent, interesting, and attractive. She doesn't have to beat men off with a stick, but she has never gone very long with a man in her life...and she gets approached fairly regularly. She also looks "safe"...which is a characterization I know that both women and men abhor, but it is true. She looks like someone you'd consider spending a lifetime with, someone who'd make a great wife and mother. She just does. However...none of that is likely to generate heat in an Eros Ad. Of course...after a professional makeover design to project "sexy slut"...who is to say? BTW...I HAVE dated women who could easily have "the look" that would led to success via an Eros ad...but my current SigO doesn't qualify.

"Could you see your wife or girlfriend escorting. If not, why?"

Now...unlike the previous question where you specified that I didn't know my GF from Adam (scary thought...how about I don't know here from "Eve" instead?), I would HAVE to know her on some level to answer this question. And the answer is no. As much as my GF enjoys sex (I have never met a woman in her mid 30 to mid 40's who didn't), for her it is ABSOLUTELY an emotional experience, rooted in a relationship bond of some sort with the person. I simply could not see my GF having sex for money...it is simply too personal of an experience for her. Beyond that, she is a pretty conservative person...the sex industry in general is not something she supports, even though she is fairly uninhibited herself behind closed doors. She just simply believes...strongly...that a woman should only share her sexuality...pretty much in any form...within a committed relationship.

There...long winded, but hopefully your questions are answered.

flipside survey question

I'm also amazed that there have been so few responses to this...

I have a question for hobbyists that is the flipside of the one, above:  

Could you see marrying or becoming "committed" to a provider?
If so, why?  If not, why not?

I'm constantly amazed by the number of guys who "fall" for providers.  Is it "Pretty Woman Syndrome," do you suppose?

Maybe part of the whole fantasy package is the idea that we'd never argue about money, or who's turn it is to clean the toilet... in fact, cleaning the toilet may be something that hobbyists don't think about AT ALL when they're thinking about providers, and thus the provider becomes even that much more appealing.  

Anyway... just curious...
Love to all.
Anne