So-  If I have made the leap that I WILL try a younger lady- Now What?

What is the governing principal or philosphy in choosing that has worked best for member?

How would Providers prefer us to choose?

I'm not looking for guidance so much as dialogue.  What works for others might work for me-  but it might not...

as a consideration.  I have met older providers who are young at heart and young providers who impressed me with their maturity.

Every one is different and it is a mistake to stereotype a person because of their age.

Age is an number that is easily obsessed over and one can only guess the one that gets to you and when. There is no formula for success in the hobby certainly. My own personal peference to leave the teenagers be and most of 20 somethings are making a quick buck with little or no skin in the game, literally. Yet there are others of that younger group that will knock your boots off and have you slobbering for more. The point is, age is not as significant as we'd believe and not even important when it come to most relations, yet the rule of 5 -7 plus or minus two might work for you. If you looking for someone to talk to and who might share the same taste in music or history, then the rule will work fine and most often, you'll get treated.  I am talking about you hobbyist not much over 50 because the plus or minus rule thins the odds of getting lucky, be most of the gals your age have retired, save for the beautiful and ageless Anneke, et al. My sweet spot in the hobby are the women 30 - 40; and who don't lie too wildly about there age. I am most often treated to women who are peaking sexually and who like just as wild as ride as they give and get.

Dude- Just so you catch up.  I HAVE ONLY SEEN OLDER Providers so far.  I get that-  what I DON'T GET is trolling for 20s.  But I am up to try it- and seeking a dialogue on how others make their choices - just for shits and giggles if you like.

A couple of the ladies have also e-mailed me which was cool.  Still getting my heads around it-  but game...

Granny Clampett.  I bet the old broad could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch!

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You may be making it a little too complicated.  Perhaps you are a bit self concious about your age.  This is not at all neccessary.  Many providers  welcome the mature gentleman.  I've even seen ads by some who avoid clients under 35.  Simply pick someone who attracts you and you'll have more good outings than duds.  I look for someone whose photograph I like, check to see if the menu is to my liking, and consider the subjective experiences of the reviewers.  Is she warm, interesting to talk to, pleasant attitude?  None of these qualities is necessarily age dependant.  I've had my best times with the 25-35 year old group but I've had good experiences at both ends of the spectrum.  I suggest that you not make too much of an issue of age,either yours or hers.  This is a hobby for all ages and in my experience, they mix very comfortably.

...by the time you actually choose there wont be any young ones left.

I too like 'em young, mainly 18-30.  I had no problem carrying on a conversation with the gal I saw even though she was 10+ years younger than me.  We had a number of common interests and even had similar musical tastes (it's great that many youngins these days are listening to the classic rock I grew up with .  

It almost felt like a date, and that was rather cool.

Ah, the Balliol Vote heard from...

Actually I think you are right-  I better $%^& or get off the pot...

there are a few younger, fresher, ladies who have yet to learn what, and tell you what pleases them, the ultimate satisfaction in my book.

I like older women, but always take the lady's age with a grain of salt, or even more.  

Last week I was chatting with one of my favorite women here in Britain.  I ask when she moved to this area.  She said that her mum was in the UK army in Germany, was born there, and the family returned to the UK in 1976.

I know that her website says she is 26.  Just one problem, I can do simple math!!!

yes, but there are so many nice looking chicks between the ages of 18-25.  I don't look for them by age, but by the look I like. After all, I am not looking for a girlfriend.  The young girls are more raunchy to be with, the older ones I can relate to better.  But both experiences are nice. Loosen up!

governing principal or philosphy? I humbly would say that finding the right look is the priority (as long as the reviews are good).  IMHO when you look at a young chick you don't necessarily want someone you can relate to.  You want a taboo raunchy experience.  ...maybe you can help her with her homework?  The girls may look young when you're older, but are of legal age and they know it's fantasy.  Maybe you can go through it with them so they don't freak out.

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