by City for BDSM (which is generally where these activities are talked about).   This arena is generally the province of older providers that add stuff like this to their menu to pick up new customers in the niche market for kink, so don't include any age constraints in your search.  

I wasn't sure from your handle if you were in Raleigh, NC or if you smoked Raleighs from your ass. I searched the Carolinas Ad board for "Hextyn." She posts to several ad boards (and discussion boards) so I knew that was into pegging, etc.. I was thinking that she might be the gal for you. There were her posts replying to your ISO (In Search Of) on the Carolinas board!  
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As CDL suggested, search some other boards (and Profiles) for similar keywords. Even if you find someone in, say, NYC, they might travel or get you to visit the Big Apple.
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Good luck.

She has been around for years.  I see her for outstanding BBBJ.  She also does pegging...I don't choose this but hear she is very good .

New York Assman?

I think you’d get the  best results by asking on the regional board. I do use the “BDSM” search but unfortunately, the number of false positives is high so it will take a bit of sorting to find what you want.  

Good luck.

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