Honesty is required...  
 
Some providers require you to spend a certain amount of time with them that they feel is "appropriate" usually 2, 4, or even 6 hour minimums - which can amount into a couple hundred or few thousands. In other words, you better have done your research and have a good feeling about what you're getting into. Literally haha  
 
I personally don't believe in enforcing minimums. I just think it's ridiculous  
 
If there's a gentlemen that wants to spend an hour with me, he will, if there's someone else who prefers longer dates and wants a 4 hour he will. I choose to let the people decide what they want  
 
And as for the myth that longer hour minimums attracts better quality of clients - Sure that may be true - But it's also true that respectful classy guys will treat you well in one hour  
 
Now it's ok to have your personal preference listed on your ad,site but let people make their decisions lol  
 
Your thoughts

I pay for NSA sex, I enjoy an hour long paid session. That is more than enough time to have great sexual experience, which is what I pay for. I take pretty much the full hour to enjoy a bit of foreplay, the main event and just a bit of down time before leaving merrily on my way. My chances of finishing twice in a ninety minute or two hour session just aren't that good and I would much rather schedule two different one hour appointments a few hours apart with different women than try to cram two cups into a single session.

I personally prefer 1.5 to 2 hour dates. I like getting to know a little about my dates and I have found most all the ladies i have seen to be bright, funny ladies and some have amazing live story (and I just love looking at and petting a woman's  body!!). 1.5 to 2 hours also gives me a shoot at a second pop which is not going to happen in one hour date.  

I'm not the guy who is dropping 5k for a night on the town. I'll take an hour make you laugh and smile and be on my way. If I want a night on the town I got friends I can take who aren't charging me a dime. Most I will pay is 600 which is a lot of money to me. I know who I want to see and save month by month so far I haven't been disappointed.

I love what I do as a companion! I love getting to know people. I love making friends and building relationships over the long term. I love people who are similar; those who are interesting and have something to say. People who book longer engagements tend to be people like that- willing to share more of themselves in a situation like this.

Gives me time to become acquainted with my date.  I never feel rushed and can take my time giving and receiving pleasure.

two-hour sessions, which can be combined with OTC time outside the incall if we enjoy each others company socially.  I'm over 50, so one pop per hour for me.  That's why I like two hours.  

1 hour dates are just too short for me; too impersonal and no way I can be ready for a second round in 1 hour.  

i truly feel that a woman who sets minimum times for dates is probably too high maintenance and inflexible for me.

I can do all the homework to know that we will get along well with action, but it's more difficult to know if we'll get along well during the down time.

Come on over about 3 PM Saturday and have a drink, then upstairs for some fun while dinner stays warm in the oven.

Just like my personal sex life.  Never had a truly satisfying hookup that lasted less than 3 hours.  Except for quickies in the woods.  Those are hot even when they're short.  

and that as a professional and a very well paid one at that she puts her clients needs first and doesn't feel it's her place to be overly restrictive just because it's what she prefers, and that she feels it's "ridiculous" to demand her customers not only pay her, but do what satisfies her sexually.  

To each his own. I love eating and love dates so those with elementary deduction skills can probably figure out that I love dinner dates.  

of your wife to keep the kids out the way during these long sessions at home so you can fully enjoy yourself.  Many women would resent you having a good time while they got stuck watching the kids.

Not the actual business model itself, but the premise of "getting to know someone."  I'm with Ga on this one, when I was younger time mattered more, but as I've gotten older, I realize that it's not the time, it's the quality.  Having done this for awhile, I know that if a provider likes you then she will be willing to share OTC time with you at not charge.  And if she doesn't, then it is what it is, a mutually agreed upon fuck date.  I mean it's give and take, but mostly the clients giving (money) for this "getting acquainted" time.  

These will not attract better quality clients, they will attract clients with more money to burn.  I do my hobbying by setting aside $20 every week, which means a 1 hour date every 2 1/2 months.  Which means that if I'm going to do a 2 hour date with a provider, I have to wait 5 months.  No thank you, 2 1/2 months is bad enough.  This doesn't mean I'm a lower quality of client (just ask my ATF), it just means that I REALLY need to get the most bang for my buck.  If I was a millionaire, my approach would be completely different.  But it still wouldn't affect my "quality."

But sometimes life is good.  As it was for me this past weekend.

Your multi hour rate is very reasonable, I may add.  

Posted By: SoftlySarah

I love what I do as a companion! I love getting to know people. I love making friends and building relationships over the long term. I love people who are similar; those who are interesting and have something to say. People who book longer engagements tend to be people like that- willing to share more of themselves in a situation like this.  
   
 I'm not into providing sex for money. I did that in Denmark, and while it was fun for a week, it got pretty boring after a while. I prefer companionship- spending time with men, women, and couples. Not a lot you can do with someone in an hour; you certainly can't get to know someone that well. Maybe in one hour increments over several times, but I'm just not that into it.  
   
 And because it is my gig, I like to set the terms of engagement. Those terms presently begin at 2 hours for me, but will probably go up to three in the near future. In the past, my minimum began at 4 hours. Those are really the engagements I prefer- dinner engagements and longer. Weekends are wonderful, but I am no longer able to offer those that often.  
   
 I think it's great that there are ladies available at all time increments. But since my business is about me, I'm going to shape it how it serves me best, so that I can serve my friends best. Happy me means happy them!  
   
 As for better quality of clients? Nah, not necessarily. But when you narrow your market sector by time minimums and other factors, you narrow your takers- they self-select. That tends to make it so that the few you do get are people you really want to spend time with, and who really want to spend time with you. With a wider market sector, you're doing a lot more work filtering out those with whom you might not feel particularly compatible. I imagine that's where assistants come in handy- they can do a lot of that work for you. But that's just not my thing.  
   
 But indeed, the biggest $ would be in the widest market sector, so if that is the goal, don't limit yourself or your clients!  
 

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I don't want to do a date that will be shorter than the bare minimum amount of time it takes for me to properly get ready (AT LEAST 1hr). Nothing crazy or ridiculous about that.

what's the benefit in getting all gussied up for an appointment that will take you far longer to prepare for than to execute? I'm with you. But it takes me about two hours to get ready.

My best provider date ever was a weekend.  My second best was dinner + overnight. And I've had several great 3-hour dates.  

If it wasn't a question of money, I would probably prefer a 3-4 hour evening.  There is no way I am going to blow that much money, however.  One hour does seem to cramp it a bit.  I suppose 90 minutes would be better.  I had a two hour and that had the most unrushed feeling to it.  But for now I will stick with 60 minutes due to the cost and try to get'r done

but alas, he hates me now.

If it was with me you would have plenty of time to sleep! For a mere 6500 + expenses I would get maybe 2k worth of sex. I'm good for about two hours of sex a day. The rest of the time could be spent eating, sleeping and arguing. Sort of like having another wife. At least you still have sex

That's all I offer, straight to the point. But trust me 3 hours is a love making fest. I don't wanna go outside! Anything else after 3 hours,  is rare and I don't have that kind of time to spend with people, I like hanging out with my dog too much.  


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You've been seeing the wrong girls love lol

Oh, that actually sounds like a lot of fun. Do you water ski? That's fun to do. Hey! And you get to see the boobs bounce all day without even having sex!
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But right now I'm a newbie so I know longer engagements won't happen right away. I just truly enjoy dating and getting to know people from all walks of life. I came for the sugar dating world and easily crossed over into escorting because the men are now treating it as a cheap escort service. For $500 a week they expect to see you 3 times a week with constant phone calls and texts. No thanks!

Ideally 6+ hours, could go longer than 24 hours if we weren't together every hour and I had a few hours to myself. My guys and I usually connect on more than a physical level (which really, that's all your 1 hrs are about) and, most importantly, it's the best use of My time. Had an appointment that went about 17 hours last week and that was a perfect amount of time. Though if it wasn't for his business meetings, we would have had that lazy Sunday in bed of sex, sports, food, nap and repeat all day long.  

In my short time as a hobbyist, I've had a few 1 hour dates and only a single 2 hour date.