I was wondering how some of you hobbiest's and providers feel about first impressions. I have realized that my first impressions have served me well. It seems that when I meet a new lady I know from the moment I walk thru the door if I will have a good, bad or fantastic session. No matter how good her performance is if I don't have that good first impression, I usually end up disappointed to some degree.

Guys, when the door opens, do you get an instant feeling about what's to come good or bad? Ladies, when the gent arrives, do you sense right away if the session will be good? I know we all have preferences with what we like but I mean do your instincts kick in at first meet?  

I can't deal with boring, whiney or insecure people in or out of the hobby, and those are the worst dates ever. I can usually tell by one phone call if it is going to be a good date, and nip it right there if not.

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some of my FAVORITE clients have been ones I would not normally be into, and we had great chemistry and great sex to boot~

sometimes the best bodies or best looking ones are the worst, they have such a huge ego, and no personality. When you get those guys, it definitely seems like "WORK" to me than the ones who I have fun with, laugh with, can talk to etc

I'm always nervous the first 5 minutes

I have sessions with providers who looked great and did wonder things for and to me, but I didn't bother to repeat; while on the other hand I have seen providers for years and years who are nothing that special to look at and our activities are pretty plain vanilla.

The reason I see the latter is that my heart starts to beat faster at the thought of seeing them, and I can't place a solid fact on why other than it is just something about the chemistry.

It's a wonderful mystery and I hope they never figure it out.

So i've learned to keep an open mind and give it a chance to work out.

When I am first contacted, I make note of how the guy is. I prefer someone respectful and decisive. Basically, just follow the rules of etiquette and we should be fine. I admit, I am probably not all that fun via email, and maybe a little business like, but I am firm believer in business before pleasure and a guys time being his time, so once we're alone, it is all about him! First meeting have always made me nervous and I am more than upfront in letting my company know that. I think being on the same level helps a lot in breaking the ice and getting past that feeling and onto the good stuff!!!