Calls you "babe, honey, baby, hottie..." from the very first exchange? Is this off putting somehow? Do you like it?

to call a guy one of these terms in the first exchange.  So if the lady starts off responding this way then is it OK for the guy to respond the same way?

once I've developed a relationship with someone, I'd don't really take issue with it. However, from a new person, it feels super infantalizing. So whenever i get it, I usually just stop communicating at that point. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Most call me "babe" or "sweetie" (I think it has to do with age difference). One calls me gorgeous every single time and I adore this. I would take any of these over "miss" or "mam" I think that would be weird.

I can’t get past the fact that it is the name of Paul Bunyan’s blue ox.

I do not like to be called in an initial email sweetie,baby,babe to me it comes off like a guy is sending a copy and paste email out.I don't use those words when I address a gent by email,pm,or on the phone.

even if "baby" is fully spelled out. So no, I'm not a fan. While I appreciate compliments, if one doesn't demonstrate a level of intention and specificity, it doesn't really leave the best impression.

I can attest that whatever you talk to back to this person ends up in total waste time. Xo

I think that it's usually meant in an endearing way. It's almost always followed by a nicely worded and respectful interaction. The words can be used negatively, but over a computer screen, it would have to be quite derogatory.
I think it's ok, and just a way to show some admiration. It's not personal by any means, but overall I don't find it offensive.

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I dont find it nessicarily offensive but it makes them come off as a time waster as ive Noticed most guys who talk like that flake or dont end up booking.....

If someone text me baby they don't get a response back. It's off putting.

I’ve certainly taken my share of balls on the chin.

I've always texted "hey, beautiful" or "hey, gorgeous" to the ladies I frequent, but NEVER on the first communique, and I usually don't do that until I've seen them at least 2 times.  

I have no problem when a client calls me something sweet. Makes me feel special.

He may have wood, but it’s not going in the flume.

she follows "babe" with "I have to reschedule." Like tonite! SMH

Then I do like being called SweetHeart.. Most all the time.. Xoxo

....should be used when the person is endeared (is this sentence grammatically correct? oh well)

Generally because it usually is lined up with u avail now? Any specials?

Can't stand it. My dad calls me 'sweetie pie' and he's the ONLY man allowed to do so. Do you want me to think of my dad when you email me? No.

I am still shaking my head over this, Hookers get messages all the time that start with "Baby, I want to fuck you in the ass bareback and then spin you around, cum on your face, and watch my cum drip down your chin"  And here we find out that the most offensive part of this message is calling her "baby" roflmfao

I remember back in the seventies living in the very deep south (Southern Louisiana) and having to put up with redneck bosses  talking about "fucking japs" (meaning me of course) right to my face and me being unable to do a thing about it unless I wanted to lose my job and be black balled from finding another job anywhere in the parish, Fast forward to today and ubersensitive white people are telling me now that I am supposed to be offended if someone describes me as Oriental. Come on folks, lets fight battles worth fighting.

that's the part that gaga doesnt get. the way a guy may come across says a lot about them. gaga thinks we are just making a big deal about little stuff. I like the per names. just not on the very first email. first email should be about making a proper introduction and show youre mature and serious.  

that's what im talking about.

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I don't know what or when I have ever posted anything that would make you think otherwise.  

I am not "courting" you, If I have contacted you, I fully intend on being naked with you within five-ten minutes of meeting you at the "longest" If you really think being call "baby" is shallow, you haven't seen anything yet where it comes to being shallow.

and I am neither. lol

And it's along the lines of clients asking if it's off putting for a provider to call them schnuukums before the first date. Lol

Chaturbate  where they don't speak English that well. I remember this big-belly Eastern European dude trying to get more money by saying, "Come on Guys! You want to see me do ass fuck?"
"Oh BBY ( Bee Bee EEE) I want big cock ... in ass  ... now! Don't make me wait!"
I laughed so hard I had tears in my eyes.

As a client I don't like to be called "hun."  And the reason is because "hun" is so frequently used in impersonal situations that when it is used it brings to mind an impersonal nature -- as someone above mentioned, like a waitress answering a question about what's on the lunch special.  Why telegraph that the person you are dealing with means nothing to you.  Where is the fantasy in that?

You don't get Gaga.   He has a fetish for putting down people.  He does it 24/7.  Then he offers a lame justification for acting retarded that is so old it has been a movie trope since Al Jolson -- " We're just having a bit of fun."  Gaga is all about acting superior.  He drips it from every pore.   He brags in each missive.  He puts others down in every other.  You need to understand that Gaga is an ego on steroids.

same difference.
i get that same shit look on my face w both.
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don't do it.