So, just completed my first appointment with a "10" last week. Smokin' hot body straight out of Playboy. Tall at 5'10, thin, perfect tits, ass, legs...she had it all. Younger than I like, but I took the shot because, well, she had my ideal physique. Love tall, athletic women with nice firm B/C cup boobs. This was my shot to once again sleep with someone with "the perfect body" much as an old girlfriend from years past had. As she took her clothes off, I couldn't believe my luck in finding this one and successfully setting up an appointment with her. Jaw dropping hot.
Went fine. Several pops over our 2 hours that I didn't know I had in me. She was kind, intelligent, and accommodating. She was talkative. She was responsive. She was fairly skilled considering her age and relative inexperience in the hobby. What more is there to ask for? There wasn't quite the connection or commonality due to the age difference, which made for not the greatest conversation at times, but we talked just fine during the breaks in the action.
Well, the experience just didn't match up to a night with the ATF. My ATF who is older, who is a mommy, and has the mommy's body. Who is short at 5'2". Who has put on considerable weight, and is pretty self conscience about it. I always tell her she is "nuts", she's gorgeous, and to stop worrying about it. And that’s the truth, but yes, completely not my body type. So why do I find her so damn attractive, and now start looking at women with her body type as much as I do the former?
Can't say it's all familiarity as we hit it off pretty great from the start, and sex with her was more comfortable and we were far more compatible in bed than myself and the young hottie. The hottie didn’t do either of us the disservice of trying to fake an “O”, which was appreciated. Fact is, I wasn‘t on my game like I usually am with someone I‘m familiar with, and prefer when someone doesn‘t try to bullshit me. So still, high marks for her there as well.
So why didn’t she match up? I’ll see her again in order to try and improve on the experience now that the awkwardness of the first meeting has passed, but no way would I forsake time with my ATF to spend it with the young hottie.
Perhaps a lesson to myself, and a vote of confidence for the older ladies out there....sometimes the young hotties just simply don't match up for us older guys.
I married my Mommy, and my kids are involved with versions of their parents (actually, I do not see that much resemblance between the daughter's SO and me - he is much nicer), but I draw the line at even considering that I am going P4P with my Mom. Ewwwwww!
Maybe more seriously, an ATF has to connect with a lot of senses, and all that mind and memory thing, so it is no surprise to me that a perfect 10 is not the whole package. Actually, I would go further - if you are a perfect 10, the service you are selling is more likely to be the super model version, and not the true GFE, make the hobbyist feel really good and really good about himself, version.
You came to worship her, not get comfortable with her, or maybe you worshiped her and came? either way, looks do not ATF make, seems pretty obvious.
P4P with my Mom - it is going to take a long time to get over that thought.
But lets face it. There is more involved than just the visuals. As much as guys want to think our dicks get hard with a stiff breeze, it just ain't so after a certain point.
Don't think too hard on it. You'll go permanently limp.
Their ATFs are nice looking, not 10s.
They have very good skills, not the best they've experienced.
But there's something about the way the whole package fits together and the two people match that makes an ATF.
"There wasn't quite the connection or commonality due to the age difference, which made for not the greatest conversation at times"
"sometimes the young hotties just simply don't match up for us older guys."
Chances are, the old guy with the dog face and the PYT Ten on his arms,is more in tune with today, versus the old fogie with Barry Manilow and Simon and Garfunkel, as his prized collection.
What this "old fogie" does:
I listen to Mangina music AND I bang PYT's without getting attached. Schizophrenia? I think not.
As far as I'm concerned, Manilow should be in everyone's prized collection, young and old.
P.S. You misspelled "fogie" - it's fogey, like "bogey" as in "bogey on your tail".
"P.S. You misspelled "fogie" - it's fogey, like "bogey" as in "bogey on your tail"."
"I listen to Mangina music AND I bang PYT's without getting attached."
When I see you on the road with your PYT singing along with Manilow, I will have no doubts she is $$$ per hour.lol your spelling of fogy is also correct according to the Lawrence Welk crowd.
P.S. If she asks if you like "garbage" she is talking about a band.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=old%20fogie
"Not if she's really a PYT she's not! That band was popular 15 years ago."
If she was 15 in 1995 that would make her 30 now.oops My age is catching up with me.
looking at the sunny side, Garbage is coming out with a new album this year.
Sometimes chemistry takes precedent over looks for the simple fact that the intimacy is mutually shared and when the two of you come together you feel like a well oiled machine.
There have been several occasions that the person I was with was not the most handsome, but the chemistry we had made everything else fade into the background and we just enjoyed one another.
Must disagree with your assessment of her being a 10. The looks were obviously a 10 by your standards, the services were slightly lacking ("She was fairly skilled considering"), and the connection was not there. To me this is not a 10. IMHO: to be a 10 a lady must be a 10 in all aspects, with the most important being connection.