I was just strolling down memory lane remembering the time I was fucking a civie married woman (not my wife.) There is something psychologically erotic about fucking another man's wife (behind his back, not the voluntary cuckold kind.)  She's risking a lot to be fucked by you.  It captivated the imagination dreaming about the next time we would meet.  This relationship lasted several years.  It was infrequent due to the usual complications.  But a hot experience every time.
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I did try to recreate that scenario with the failed foray into Ashley Madison. But never did manage to arrange a similar situation.  Never the less it is one of those things I wouldn't hesitate to dive into again if the opportunity ever arose.
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I was married at the time too.  So I often wonder if a similar feeling exists in the other side. There are supposedly women who are drawn to married men, and I assume for the same ego gratifying reasons of stealing another woman's husband.  He's risking it all to fuck her.  That's gotta stroke anyone's ego.

The one I fucked wasn't a civie though. She was a female monger who invited me for a visit and I fucked her in the bed she shared with her husband. I also fucked her in my hotel room. And she fucked a fellow monger friend of mine the week before. I'm not sure what her motivation was, as we didn't talk about it. I know she hated her husband on several levels, but it was more than that. She's just a very independent, sexually voracious person who refuses to be put into a box by conventional society. I'd love to fuck her again and I suppose it could happen, as we are still in touch. I have never been able to replicate the experience.

Spot on, Forbidden apple?

So as you can guess I don't see the allure of it. I don't want to come off so self righteous but it just isn't my style. I have boundaries, as little as they are but knowingly being with a married women just isn't in me. I've been pursued by married women but I just couldn't see any good coming from it, if it was a conquest/ ego thing then ok, but I'm not wired that way.

but like you, it's not my thing.

so I don't see it as a big deal one way or the other.

What if she’s married but working as an escort?
I know one like that - very pretty MILF type and a great fuck.  Husband knows what she does (he encouraged her to do it) and helps her manage her business.

I have posted this before so if you have read it, just pass on by.

But I did see two that were married. One told me at the end of our date that she was married. She told me that her husband reads her reviews so she has to "tone" down the activities. Her attitude was to give them enough to make them happy.
The other one was separated, again I didn't know she was married. Her husband got a hold of my number. She gave me the heads up so we got our stories aligned. He was a nice guy, and it went well. But I never saw her again....she had more drama besides the Ex.

years ago when the internet was new, there was a lot of hot one night stand hookups from chatting online.   it was new and novel and exciting to the women as well.  heck for the first year i actually RECEIVED requests for dick pics !  shows you how much has changed.  

It's been that way forever...as long as human beings trod this Earth we'll forever be attracted by anything regarded as "taboo."

Spot on! This will always be the case. Something tempting about what's forbidden or frowned upon in society that's so appealing.

I know some providers find the illegal nature of the biz part of the turn on.

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Had that experience. Provider told me before we started and it immediately made me want to leave. Just doesn’t appeal to me.  

I yam what I yam.

Unless her hubby doesn't know it is not the same, since it is not "forbidden."  It has to be with someone who's husband would object strenuously.  That's the risk.  She's risking it all for YOU.  Pretty hot.