Posted by RRO2610

When I'm hobbying I want the woman to look, act, sound and talk like some dissolute, nymphomaniacal slut.  
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Ok , I have always wore my make up and clothing appropriate when I am in certain places . Or when certain company comes over . This is a perfect example of why it is important for gents to register with some verification site for example DATE-CHECK where they can tell us- they want this and they dont want that etc..
I am a pleaser and I like to make sure I please the fellas that I see . If they want heavy make up with the  slut look or if they want the light make up and more of a natural look or even some do like  LOT'S of cologne and will spray more on you when they are here ..Then there are some who want NO cologne at all .
This all goes back to communication .
Guy's how are we ladies to know what you like or dislike when you fill out our contact forms with evasive info ?
I like to know what I am getting into when meeting a new friend .
Not all fellas want  the  "dissoluted slut" .

If you are meeting me for the first time  I want to know what you like me to have for you to drink,ambiance, certain soaps , and all the small details that some do not think about until it is too late .(including XXTRA Large raincoats) We only get one time to make that first impression .
Does this make sense ?

If you want  me to be a good "slut" honey I can sure be one .
There are many fellas who like to visit for multi hours and are not looking to  see how many pops they can get for the several hours they are here .
Then there are some who are shedding the clothes before they hit the door and are in and out  in no time ..


Oh shit I am out of wind ..

Point here is   just if you are coming to see me please let me know what you like and dont beat around the bush .
I like to please and know what you like




-- Modified on 11/1/2007 8:58:50 PM

part of the issue is the confusion many men have with what is and is not acceptable in an email or a form's 'general comments' section.

Since most ladies have some form of "You are paying for our time only and anything of a sexual nature may cause us to not answer you or not meet", men want to be real careful. Obviuosly if it is a repeat date, more detail cn be easier to give. We know there are a number of ladies who take a long time to respond to emails in general, and it can leave a man wondering if what he put in the email/form crossed the line for that particular lady if he hasn't heard back.

It's kind of hard to mention the size of the condom, or the type desired (male or female) without the obvious implication that it is going to be used during a get-together being planned.

So I don't think many guys are 'beating around the bush'.  (Actually, we like treating that lovely area with more passion and respect.    


Maybe a good rule of thumb is that if a lady is reticent to put a specific information-seeking question on her contact form, chances are the men are hesitant as well in offering that info up for a first meeting.

-- Modified on 11/2/2007 6:00:09 AM

Layla, As Visiting Prof so articulately pointed out, the industry has set the guidelines determining what can and cannot be said before an initial contact.  I think most of us hobbyists try to be very respectful of the ladies we see and try to make the ladies feel as comfortable with us as possible.  

I have looked at literally hundreds (thousands) of provider web sites that warn the hobbyist that during a phone conversation, any specific talk about sexual activity will terminate the conversation immediately and that if written in an email, the email will not be answered.  

My feeling is the more descriptive an initial contact (meaning all contact before an actual meeting), the more uncomfortable the provider would become due to entrapment issues.  No one wants the provider he is with to be uncomfortable.  

As Prof said, perhaps the only solution is that the specifics can be worked out on subsequent visits when it comes to the things you discussed.

so that they pick up on her client's likes and dislikes.

This is one reason why I like the more mature providers; they seem to have a knack for always knowing what I like.

The variation is as wide as the number of clients there are.

Layla -

I agree, which is why I do my best to communicate early to a provider my likes and dislikes, in a respectful way of course.

I would just add, it works both ways. I also can play many roles, I can be the gentle romantic, the big stud (OK, not so big doing the fast hard shag, DATY if that's her thing, if she wants to bring out a toy that would be great, I can talk dirty, be a gentleman, whatever.

Just give me a sign, OK?

A few of my providers have asked in the confirmation email if I have any requests- let's me know it's okay to email or call the requests

A well reviewed lady (that I've seen a bunch of times) screened me for our first time together, and asked that I contact her a day or so before we were to get together.  At that point, she asked me if I wanted anything special.  I was too new at that point to realize exactly what she was getting at, but that was the time that I could've told her about any specific things I was interested in.

I don't think that I'd request (personal preference aside) anything too far out there the first time.  Point is, the "nothing explicit in the email" is MOSTLY before you're screened.

I'm a whore - 'cause I get paid!

Giggle,
TS Jamie
Your local nympho trans girl...

PS - Hi Layla.

I spend time looking over a provider's website and getting as much information as possible before I see her.  I like to let her know before the session if I have any requests, and if she is open to them.  
Thanks for starting this topic Layla.  It's a good reminder for hobbyists to express themselves before a session about what they like.

Runningman

My feeling is that no two women are the same so I don't want the same type of things from every woman.  

I already make a choice on who to see based on the reviews of a particular lady and her looks.  If I do my homework, 99% of the time, I will have a great time.  

Does that mean that I want the same things to happen to me that I read in a review?  Not really.  I know that there is potential for those activities from the review but I prefer a natural flow between me and the provider to dictate where things go.

If I feel that we had a good connection on a first meeting, I will book another date to see where it goes the second time.  

I usually book only book multiple hour dates anymore.  In an hour it's hard to let anything develop and you just hit and run.  Hit and run is OK too, on occasion.