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Female clientele?
JakeFromStateFarm 594 reads
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I don't doubt our resident archivist can find it deep in the vaults of TER, but I think it's an interesting question you've asked and look forward to some answers.  Not that I have any.

lopaw 29 Reviews 736 reads
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...since so many lady mongers are deeeeeep in the shadows and don't announce themselves anywhere (me? I ain't shy :))

I often chat with several other lady hobbyists here in LA and they are terrified of posting on a forum like this. I don't understand that, but it is what it is. A woman-friendly site would go a long way to coax some of them out of the shadows.

For starters my first suggestion would be to make sure that you include the fact that you see women on your website and in your ads. I still spend FAR too much time trolling ads and sites and often have to email a provider to ask if she sees women. My success rate is really good, but had those ladies provided that info on their site (in the FAQ section, maybe?) I could have sent her an appt request instead of waiting for a response to a back n forth email chain that can take days to evolve.

Another thing is to use advertising sites (when appropriate) that have clientele info in a box that the provider just has to add. Keeps it quick & easy. Slixa, Eros, callgirlfiles are some that I LOVE to see when I am browsing thru a lady's TER's profile and I see that she's tagged that she sees women,couples,groups, etc.  

I don't know if that helped at all.  
But feel free to ping me if you ever tour LA. I'd love to be your LA rendezvous ;)

souls_harbor 488 reads
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You would have to find special venues because otherwise 98% of the market is NOT female clients.  Too dilute.  You have to figure out where they hang out.

impposter 49 Reviews 494 reads
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Posted By: lopaw
...since so many lady mongers are deeeeeep in the shadows and don't announce themselves anywhere (me? I ain't shy :))  
   
 I often chat with several other lady hobbyists here in LA and they are terrified of posting on a forum like this. I don't understand that, but it is what it is. A woman-friendly site would go a long way to coax some of them out of the shadows.
A forum like this? It's totally anonymous. Those terrified ladies could probably read and post gender neutral comments and we'd never know if she was a she or a he.  

lopaw didn't say anything, but Profiles that say "Really bi" aren't always reliable ... not that it matters to me :-) .  One or more reviews that can testify that you aren't merely gay for pay but provide an authentic, fulfilling experience will be important.  Those reviews can from lady reviewers or even a guy if he is part of a FFM session. Do you do duos with any Provider friends?  

Good luck and have fun! And maybe take a trip to LA to see lopaw.
For starters my first suggestion would be to make sure that you include the fact that you see women on your website and in your ads. I still spend FAR too much time trolling ads and sites and often have to email a provider to ask if she sees women. My success rate is really good, but had those ladies provided that info on their site (in the FAQ section, maybe?) I could have sent her an appt request instead of waiting for a response to a back n forth email chain that can take days to evolve.  
   
 Another thing is to use advertising sites (when appropriate) that have clientele info in a box that the provider just has to add. Keeps it quick & easy. Slixa, Eros, callgirlfiles are some that I LOVE to see when I am browsing thru a lady's TER's profile and I see that she's tagged that she sees women,couples,groups, etc.  
   
 I don't know if that helped at all.  
 But feel free to ping me if you ever tour LA. I'd love to be your LA rendezvous ;)

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 398 reads
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who claim girls are "really bi" in the profiles.  Just because they took money for a double with a man and another provider doesn't necessarily mean they are "really bi."  I think Lopaw would back me up on this.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 540 reads
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I think the Carolinas would be lovely place for you to take a week's vacation.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 442 reads
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always been among us, even more so, bi women, but as Lopaw says, many stay in the shadows out of fears and insecurities.  I would personally welcome more here because its a different perspective on many of the topics we discuss here even though they like pussy just like us.  

lopaw 29 Reviews 459 reads
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Yes I totally back you up on this.  

It didn't take long looking thru profiles to see some discrepancies amongst what some providers claimed and what they really offered. It's one reason I would like to see the incentive for providers listing themselves as "really bi" to be deleted. Hopefully TER will revamp/remove the additional points system in the new and improved TER coming to a screen near you!

Tippecanoe 518 reads
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The only time I've seen it is where its a couple seeking a woman, and the woman is bi and the husband wants to participate and watch.  I know a girl who is a provider and does them both, and then one-offs with each of them separately.  Not a real answer for you, but that's the closest I've run into answering your dilemma.  She finds her swinging couple friends on BP and Craigslist.  Yeah, I know, you think she and the couples she finds are Walmart shoppers, but they are not and she is really hot, young, and good looking.  She is well reviewed on TER and her pictures are very close to reality.  The couple is also very attractive, both former military.

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 437 reads
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You may have to put it on your website clearly for the ladies. I know for a fact that many profiles on here say a gal is bisexual, when she really isn't. Hopefully that will change now that the review process has changed.

There are female hobbyists out there (ever so often I fall into that category as well).
Posted By: AlliLux
Hey there everyone!  
   
 I have a deep desire for women just as much as I do men and was wondering if anyone had any feedback on how to gain more female clientele? I have chatted with a few ladies that actually have female clients and would love some pointers on gaining some myself.  
   
 Thanks everyone and have a lovely evening!

NoYellowEnvelope 444 reads
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Some providers post pics of themselves romping with another woman (no guys there) in their ads and/or on the photo board. That tells me they're into other women.  I also know some providers who make it very clear in their posts on their local boards and others that they have a "deep desire" for other women.  

impposter 49 Reviews 503 reads
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Quoting lopaw above: "I often chat with several other lady hobbyists here in LA and they are terrified of posting on a forum like this. I don't understand that, but it is what it is. A woman-friendly site would go a long way to coax some of them out of the shadows."

- there are other lady hobbyists in LA
- BUT, they are terrified of posting to TER

I think they would be as welcome here as lopaw the other lady hobbyists that post here and there is nothing to "out" them. Even with the personal info lopaw has told us, we don't care who she is. She remains the anonymous lopaw.
Posted By: coeur-de-lion
always been among us, even more so, bi women, but as Lopaw says, many stay in the shadows out of fears and insecurities.  I would personally welcome more here because its a different perspective on many of the topics we discuss here even though they like pussy just like us.  
Did I reply to the wrong post? I thought that somebody said that many bi F do not act on their impulses out of fear.  

Anyway, if you're reading this, JOIN IN!

Dr. joe 32 Reviews 459 reads
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have made it clear to me they see and enjoy seeing women.  Now they may do this to offer me a three some or just to get me excited (why is it incidentally that bi women are exciting to men but the fact a man is bi is not the same kind of turn on for women?)
Outside looking in, I am surprised to hear it is difficult for women to find wiling attractive providers.

FatVern 334 reads
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Especially their rear ends... and I could use a few female clients of my own.

Posted By: AlliLux
Hey there everyone!  
   
 I have a deep desire for women just as much as I do men and was wondering if anyone had any feedback on how to gain more female clientele? I have chatted with a few ladies that actually have female clients and would love some pointers on gaining some myself.  
   
 Thanks everyone and have a lovely evening!

TurbayVeronica See my TER Reviews 413 reads
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and meet wonderful ladies in this environment. One or 2 from TER. Also they seem to be in other sites but they don't post on boards and are way too much discreet compare with the guys. (That's a good thing).

mrfisher 115 Reviews 466 reads
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you are going to have a harder time finding people.

The hobby isn't cheap, and unfortunately, most of the people who can afford this hobby are men given the imbalance between men and women in terms of economic opportunity.

I think there is also a social stigma factor that affect women more than men, but that is just a guess.  No hard facts to support that.

Maybe it is best not to mix work and pleasure, and look for female sexual partners from ads on websites that focus on the lesbian or bi community.

As far as lesbians coming to TER, I don't see it happening.  Lopaw is the only gal on here, and in the 16 years I've been on here, only one other female client comes to mind - the wonderfully named webterrorist.  This place is just too much of a sausage fest, I'm afraid.

Here's hoping you find your hopes and dreams somehow.

lopaw 29 Reviews 438 reads
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As an active hobbyist I have found no shortage of more than willing providers to see. The challenge is with girl friendly  providers finding lady hobbyists. I think one of the biggest factors is lady hobbyist getting over their fear and uncertainty about taking that first step and contacting a lady for a session. Once she does that, each subsequent date gets easier to set up.

lopaw 29 Reviews 376 reads
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.....your Eros page lists you as seeing "men" only? It's the first page that I saw listed for you when you joined TER and right off the bat I put you in my DNS list. This is the type of thing I'm talking about.  If lady hobbyists see that site first they will assume that you aren't girlfriendly and move on to someone else.

It's really important to keep all active websites updated and correct!

 

 
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impposter 49 Reviews 356 reads
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Posted By: mrfisher
As far as lesbians coming to TER, I don't see it happening.  Lopaw is the only gal on here, and in the 16 years I've been on here, only one other female client comes to mind - the wonderfully named webterrorist.  This place is just too much of a sausage fest, I'm afraid.
I've only noticed frenchy74's reviews and don't recall any posts. However, she's not shy!

lopaw 29 Reviews 370 reads
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Better yet....please DO hold your breath.

souls_harbor 392 reads
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I think they would quickly overstay their welcome due to the undercurrent of man hatred they exude.

Posted By: impposter
I think they would be as welcome here as lopaw

2648667 31 Reviews 406 reads
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Yeah that makes sense. One lady I've seen a few times really enjoys playing with women. She says a number of them make appointments and chicken out and cancel.

FakawiTribe 344 reads
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Assuming that you are a "man" then any reason that a lesbian would hate you would be if you gave her a reason.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 328 reads
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END OF MESSAGE

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 391 reads
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most of the ladies I know are professionals and have WAY more money to play than I do. Fuck, they're taking 4 vacations a year and  
10-20 weekends away ... with other gals most of the time ... makes we wanna go .... hmmmmm

can you say Bosom Buddies? Ya know, Some Like it Hotttt

souls_harbor 358 reads
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The reason is that lesbians are more likely to be third wave feminists that non-lesbians -- and strongly so.  Third wave feminists hate men.

Posted By: FakawiTribe
Assuming that you are a "man" then any reason that a lesbian would hate you would be if you gave her a reason.

mongo19621954 23 Reviews 408 reads
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I have known a number of lesbians including at least one relative whom I happen to like.  Never gotten any particular man hating vibe or at least any more of one than a similar group of straight women.  Possibly less actually.   I will say that the girlfriends do seem to have a lot of drama but maybe that's just the folks I know...

My experience is that the lesbians I know just aren't interested in intimate relationships with men and are perfectly happy to have a civilized conversation with me.  As it happens- I am not interested in having an intimate relationship with a man either...  

 Folks is folks.  Really.....
Posted By: souls_harbor
I think they would quickly overstay their welcome due to the undercurrent of man hatred they exude.
Posted By: impposter
I think they would be as welcome here as lopaw

FakawiTribe 406 reads
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I'm sure no lesbians (or any other women) are losing any sleep over it.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 424 reads
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But she has always been an intermittent poster, posting a bunch, then disappearing for a while.

 
Modified to replace omitted text.

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GaGambler 358 reads
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just not on this board, but on P&R.  

Don't tell me the TER chief archivist is slipping??? lol

and yes, I know you don't follow that board, so I guess "some" slack can be cut.

souls_harbor 392 reads
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But we aren't really talking about face to face here.  We're talking about a forum in which people are essentially anonymous.  Where they can let down their hair and say whatever the like with no social repercussions.

If there was a large contingent of lesbian posters here, yeah, there'd be a lot of man bashing.  

scoed 8 Reviews 308 reads
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My wife hasn't posted on TER but she does use the site to find WOMEN to pay to bed. She is a female client that uses TER. I know of more but don't post or review. They are small in number but they are here and do see the paid ladies here. I have gotten more than one PM from couples looking for local truly bi providers to see.

P.S.at this time I do not have VIP anyone wishing to contact me must do so by email [email protected] thank.

FakawiTribe 265 reads
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perfectstorm 19 Reviews 287 reads
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I wasn't about to search every board and am well aware she might be posting on other boards. My post was truly supposed to say, "She last posted on the GD in October."  Lost a couple words in that sentence and forgot to proof it.  
I'll edit it now, and then it will make your post look wrong. :D

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impposter 49 Reviews 518 reads
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It's been on S&P and Newbie a few times, but there is real, open source, popular forum software that makes the TER forum software look pretty bad. You can search a username for their posts across the entire site (ALL forums / discussion boards), just selected forums, etc.  

perfectstorm would have only had to type one search, not one search per board.  

And keeping with the original post's theme: SHOULD THERE BE A "Women for Women Discussion Board"?
Posted By: perfectstorm
I wasn't about to search every board and am well aware she might be posting on other boards. My post was truly supposed to say, "She last posted on the GD in October."  Lost a couple words in that sentence and forgot to proof it.  
 I'll edit it now, and then it will make your post look wrong. :D

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lopaw 29 Reviews 353 reads
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Posted By: impposter

 And keeping with the original post's theme: SHOULD THERE BE A "Women for Women Discussion Board"?

impposter 49 Reviews 382 reads
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Posted By: impposter
And keeping with the original post's theme: SHOULD THERE BE A "Women for Women Discussion Board"?

JakeFromStateFarm 351 reads
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CannonHome played with her husband.  I think she was bi.
SwingsBothWays, well, swung both ways, and loved to party with women along with her boyfriend.  She's still active for sure.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 437 reads
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your TER profile indicates you "are really bi".

One additional option would be to make a suggestion to some of your more favorite clients (perhaps during pillow talk) that you would enjoy seeing him along with another provider. Once you get a doubles review, more female providers will know to contact you.

Good luck.

BTW, if you are ever in Florida, I would enjoy meeting you.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 267 reads
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but apparently, they ALL hate you.  Wonder why that is?

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 331 reads
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they're anonymous enough, so they use an alias so we don't know what their anonymous handle is.  Does that seem overly paranoid to anyone?

As far as man-bashing, wonky or effeminate men are going to get bashed just about anywhere they go.  

FakawiTribe 375 reads
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HookerWithAHeartOfTinFoil 318 reads
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3rd wave feminists view sexwork as a valid career path/life choice. They don't malign the men that partake. Unless, of course, those men are d-bags.

 
This book was published way back in 1997. You, and the boys at the Elk's Club, should really get with the times! :-p

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triage 353 reads
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