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Ladies, do millennials make good clients?
FatVern 1683 reads
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The younger guys I talk to say they would never patronize a provider.

ROGM750 reads

Posted By: FatVern
The younger guys I talk to say they would never patronize a provider.
 
These next generation guys will have to pay for Sex just like us Baby Boomers do.

FatVern528 reads

I'm a gen-Xer.

I think the dynamic will be somewhat different, given that providing is more mainstream than two decades ago, and most millennials will have dated a gal who has provided.

GaGambler602 reads

You are part of generation "why?" As in "Why in the fuck were you ever born/hatched/excreted?"

Posted By: FatVern
The younger guys I talk to say they would never patronize a provider.
If you're a webcam model.  My busiest webcam modeling months of the year, are when college guys go back to school until the summer break.  Also, millennials enjoy Virtual Reality porn.  

I don't know why millennials prefer online sex and masturbation to hiring a prostitute, but it seems they do.

I hope some day that they do, then they can join the party

Posted By: mrfisher
I hope some day that they do, then they can join the party.  
   
 

I have seen a few millennials, and they have all been very into online porn and masturbation. So much so, that they have a very hard time interacting with women.  
Hopefully that is not a sign of things to come.

Posted By: AdinaAndrews
I have seen a few millennials, and they have all been very into online porn and masturbation. So much so, that they have a very hard time interacting with women.  
 Hopefully that is not a sign of things to come.
And I've also noticed when dating young men, who have viewed a lot of porn, most expect sex to be rough and without passion...which, is NOT my thing!

I am SOOO with you on that Robbin!!

Posted By: RobbinYoung
Posted By: FatVern
The younger guys I talk to say they would never patronize a provider.
I don't know why millennials prefer online sex and masturbation to hiring a prostitute, but it seems they do.
Most of us are too burdened by student loans to afford it.

Posted By: traveler1989
Posted By: RobbinYoung
Posted By: FatVern
The younger guys I talk to say they would never patronize a provider.
I don't know why millennials prefer online sex and masturbation to hiring a prostitute, but it seems they do.
   
 Most of us are too burdened by student loans to afford it.
And, yes, you are correct..."student loans" are a major factor.  But, that doesn't explain why millennials are able to afford paying for my webcam shows (which in my case, aren't inexpensive).

Posted By: FatVern
The younger guys I talk to say they would never patronize a provider.

the young guys will be paying more than older ones,
because the girls
are learning to get  
SOMETHING
 for that Vagina.
Mother Internet is teaching them.

The young guys may not Pay Cash,
   you can be sure,
they Will be Paying with some form of energy.

I think a lot of young guys are counting on Internet Porn and  
Not Learning real life skills of interacting with a live girl for sexual needs.
It's cheaper, safer, more efficient, and less that he has to learn about women and "feelings".

All the more reason ladies will evolve and learn their own bodies and how
to make themselves Happy.

FatVern447 reads

You talk about separating a man from his money, than follow it up by talking about feelings.

 
I know your post was in English, but what?

Posted By: GYBOpower
the young guys will be paying more than older ones,  
 because the girls  
 are learning to get  
 SOMETHING  
  for that Vagina.  
 Mother Internet is teaching them.  
   
 The young guys may not Pay Cash,  
    you can be sure,  
 they Will be Paying with some form of energy.  
   
 I think a lot of young guys are counting on Internet Porn and  
 Not Learning real life skills of interacting with a live girl for sexual needs.  
 It's cheaper, safer, more efficient, and less that he has to learn about women and "feelings".  
   
 All the more reason ladies will evolve and learn their own bodies and how  
 to make themselves Happy.

souls_harbor242 reads

I kind of disagree that fem power is ascendant.  Guys have been comparing notes on the Internet now for a couple decades.   Female behavior that used to be inscrutable to the individual male has been poked and prodded by thousands of guys who have shared the results online.    

Things that I never understood back when I was young now make sense (too late for me, but not for younger guys.)  

I think fems are more likely to be played these days than any time in history, because guys are now able to be equipped with the knowledge of hidden fem agendas, and that knowledge can be used against the fems to manipulate them rather than be manipulated by them.

Posted By: GYBOpower
the young guys will be paying more than older ones,  
 because the girls  
 are learning to get  
 SOMETHING  
  for that Vagina.  
 Mother Internet is teaching them.  
   
 The young guys may not Pay Cash,  
    you can be sure,  
 they Will be Paying with some form of energy.  
   
 I think a lot of young guys are counting on Internet Porn and  
 Not Learning real life skills of interacting with a live girl for sexual needs.  
 It's cheaper, safer, more efficient, and less that he has to learn about women and "feelings".  
   
 All the more reason ladies will evolve and learn their own bodies and how  
 to make themselves Happy.

all the more reason women will learn
to quit looking for "Love" in other people.
The Love and Acceptance they want Soooo badly will come from inside of them.

They won't hear the words "I Love You" and automatically spread their legs
to get their "Scrap of Love"

They will learn and accept they are natural Sexual beings,  
that Sex is an activity done for pure pleasure.

Manipulation will not be necessary.
And, the whining for guys to Change
  will end

The generation they were born in. But, I also prefer to see gentlemen that are no younger than 30. This is just a personal preference for me. I have always been more attracted to wisdom and maturity than youth. To address your question, I've seen guys as young as 23 and I receive a plethora of requests for visits from men in the age group of 21-29. I feel that -especially for younger guys- when men talk about p4p amongst themselves, there are obscurities. Guys of all ages pay to play at the end of the day.

 Anywho ... what makes a good client is subjective, mostly. But, transcending providers personal preferences, 3 things are vital; respect for the nature of the relationship, respect for discretion in and out of sessions, and a genuine interest in comfortability and communication (no boundary pushing, keeping arranged dates and communicating cancellations etc, being open with provider about his/her expectations, being honest with oneself about a genuine "fit".)

 This webcam modeling has been, something of a hot topic lately. And, I'm pretty consistent with my belief that, -that- will never replace this. It would be an unfortunate loss if this world were to become like the one in Total Recall, where virtual sex would be the only kind we were to enjoy. I'm a huge sci-fi fan but that part of the equation could forever remain -fi, as far as I'm concerned.

Alexa V ❤❤❤

... some do, many don't. Most younger guys serve a different purpose... ;)

Your GFE Assisatnt~
Sexy Ton

say that they don't like the under 30 guys because they grew up in a porn/masturbation culture where many have desensitized their dick to the point where they can only cum with a vigorous handjob.  Intercourse and BJ's do not provide enough friction to get them to the end.

Early in my hobby career I encountered this issue. Really, turning it around is as simple as: stop binge-watching porn

I don't see anyone under 30, it's too weird for me.  It's not that I have something against them, I just prefer to be with gentlemen who are closer to my age than my kid's.  It just would never feel like I'm with an adult.  I'm 42, I need a certain level of maturity that comes with life experience.

Zzbottom2499 reads

I have a webcam account and will throw in a few bucks to watch some dumb girls show on occasion but guys in there are paying up to $10 a minute for private "chat", $10 a minute to watch a girl please herself privately or talk dirty to him. 10 minutes to jerk off online for $100? When there is free porn alll over. On some of the webcam shows where handfuls of guys tip in $5-10 to see a show there are usually a "big shot" or two to tip in $50 or $100 to see the girls eyes light up...I''m pretty sure most of them didn't know you can get a decent "real girl" for a couple hundred. Thinking most don't have the sack to do it. Ill pay for pussy but $100 to watch a 5 minute online show, voodoo economics/bad decision making.

When one girl has roughly $500 in "tips" or "gold" to do a show or someone throws in $100 tips I sometimes ask on the chat line if the guys know they can get a real hooker for $200? Its either crickets or the typical, non participating stereotype of how they are all streetwalker type, dirty, dangerous, pimp controlled hookers from the 70s...One walk down the main ad page would blow the minds of most millennial webcam guys.

Even as a young millennial myself (20 years young!) I prefer the +40 crowd. As a very general rule, drawing from my anecdotal data to estimate the rough trend, they older gentlemen are more patient and interested in connecting emotionally and intellectually.  

To add to the online porn era comments, what I've found more than anything is sometimes a tendency to mimic pornography in bed, which is rather unrealistic when booking a very girl-next-door type such as myself. They want to try seventeen different positions, have you do a headstand while blowing them upside down, and seem disillusioned if there's a hair out of place or whatnot (yes, I'm exaggerating slightly but you get where I'm going...)

xo

souls_harbor362 reads

There's no reason to expect providers to be different than civies in this regard.  Except for the few really "hot" guys, most women in their late teens or early 20's aren't so interested in guys their age.  It is sort of a wasteland for young men from their late teens until early 30's.  That's when the tables begin to turn and guys who have started to make a career and build some equity are now the targets of younger women.   In a sort of karma reversal, these guys begin to ignore the women of their own age who had ignored those guys for the last decade.  (All of my wives and long term girlfriends have been about a decade younger than myself.)

Meanwhile the gals who thought the party would never end and didn't get hitched up now find the prospects dwindling and have to either settle or start hording cats

Honestly not sure anymore. I just turned 31 and I'd like to think I make a decent client

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