everyone I talk to says that the ladies in the spas just put on a act.  that there is no feeling. do you agree or disagree

I don't get what you are trying to find out about your survey here, but kinda generalizing the definition of spas, their are different kinds of spas, whether you're in a resort, you're in a Doctor's prescribe spas, Asian, Korean, Nuru, Russian, Swedish, Thai, Latin etc,etc, but anyways why are you worrying about their feelings  you go to this places and get what you want have a HE or more and go home, they don't care about you, they probably have 100 guy waiting for you to finish your appointment and they wash up, sanitized and .  who's next. Answer: everyone is correct
 

I like to go to jazz clubs. Very old-fashioned to most of you. I like jazz. Used to play. Still know a few musicians and sometimes I buy someone a drink and talk. When I'm listing to the music, I feel all kinds of things. I really enjoy the whole evening. New renditions of old Tin Pan Alley songs, free improvisation, who's sitting in with who, happy sounds, sad sounds, sounds that make me want to dance, to meet a new woman.

Really nice post.  Not sure where the flack would come from (though maybe we'll find out).  Sounds like two worlds you're well acquainted with that offer a nice analogy.  Take five, then carry on!

If I say of myself that it is only from my own case that I know what the word "pain" means - must I not say the same of other people too? And how can I generalize the one case so irresponsibly?  
   
 Now someone tells me that he knows what pain is only from his own case! --Suppose everyone had a box with something in it: we call it a "beetle". No one can look into anyone else's box, and everyone says he knows what a beetle is only by looking at his beetle. --Here it would be quite possible for everyone to have something different in his box. One might even imagine such a thing constantly changing. --But suppose the word "beetle" had a use in these people's language? --If so it would not be used as the name of a thing. The thing in the box has no place in the language-game at all; not even as a something: for the box might even be empty. --No, one can 'divide through' by the thing in the box; it cancels out, whatever it is.  
   
 That is to say: if we construe the grammar of the expression of sensation on the model of 'object and designation' the object drops out of consideration as irrelevant.  
   
 Ludwig Wittgenstein. Philosphical Investigations Sec 293

I would like to think that this is at least partially true.  It can't ALL be, let me get this fat blob off off me as quickly as possible mercenary attitude can it?  Well, I guess it can be, but those girls probably don't stay in the biz very long.  I mean, I can understand where it can be a shitty job, but there have to be high points, albeit perhaps in different ways than the customer has his high points, and I don't just mean the payday.

From the Chauvet Caves in Southern France.

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No i do not get out of a session what my client does. I am here for the money AND I also like to please decent people. Sometimes a high point for me is the fact the guy is super clean, is gentle, is not demanding and is great to chat with. That is a good session in my book. Therefore I can say that is a high point, especially if I wouldn't mind seeing him again.

Wynton Marsalis likes it when everybody turns their cell phones before he starts.

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I was on a 4 day golf trip and just wanted a quick nut. It was relatively inexpensive and I got what I was looking for and I was in and out in less than 1/2 hour, so I was back at the hotel before I was missed. She was certainly cold, with little to no emotion, but I got what I paid for, didn't pay for gfe.