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provider feedback needed for prostate cancer survivor
oralbgood 2984 reads
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Hi I had my prostate removed because of cancer and because of this when I climax nothing comes out.  I still have that great feeling of cumming but nothing comes out no fluids at all.  Do providers find this too strange or a turn off.  I can still get hard (sometimes need blue pill) and I still love giving oral....I just wanted to know

condom like you should be, providers may not even notice.  If you're looking for CIM, then you may have some 'splaining to do.  If you are respectful and clean, and paid for the session, I don't know any providers would be turned off by this development, whether they knew the science behind it, or not.  I don't think professionals will care.  Its more likely to freak out a SB.  

You're wearing a rubber so I doubt she'll know.
I'm sure whoever you see it'll be cool...relax

Trust me, they have seen it all before.  I highly doubt that you will be the first client that has your condition.
They probably wish every guy was in your situation.  Saves a lot of tissues.

I am sure you be alright.. I've had plenty of times where I couldn't perform due to stress or something else on my mind - psychological than physiological .  

 
Last April, I scheduled something with a provider and was so scared of getting COVID, I couldn't even get an erection..

 
It's all good. They understand.. It's business..  Good luck to you on your recovery.

Or at all a turnoff. Happens alot more than you think. Most men took a few minutes to share beforehand just to get it off their chest so they can truly enjoy themselves. I think it was a sigh of relief for most of them. Just do what makes you comfortable. Either way, guaranteed no judgement by 99.9% of the professional women here. Happy you're ok...

Taylor

Posted By: oralbgood

Hi I had my prostate removed because of cancer and because of this when I climax nothing comes out.  I still have that great feeling of cumming but nothing comes out no fluids at all.  Do providers find this too strange or a turn off.  I can still get hard (sometimes need blue pill) and I still love giving oral....I just wanted to know

I have been with quite a few clients who are the same as you.
They still have the great feeling but it is all internal.
I do not find at strange at all most have had prostate issues/cancer.
They did explain at the beginning of the appt and I appreciate them sharing.
Have fun and don't overthink! :)
Us providers are here to provide a sensual escape as long as you are having a wonderful time that is all that matters.

SteadyAlways88 reads

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...What I am about to describe.  Simply put, I have never, ever had a provider care.  

When I use a penis pump, cause that is what I need before fucking, I do not shoot.  OK, maybe a little.  

The cock ring holds back  the semen , no harm, no foul.

HOWEVER, I must go to the bathroom before I can remove the ring, otherwise clean up on lane  4.  

Once, immediately after came after a standing BJ, the provider removed my cock ring  assuming I had cancer. Boy was she in for a surprise, got all over her floor.  She was cool about it.  

So don't worry.  

Posted By: oralbgood

Hi I had my prostate removed because of cancer and because of this when I climax nothing comes out.  I still have that great feeling of cumming but nothing comes out no fluids at all.  Do providers find this too strange or a turn off.  I can still get hard (sometimes need blue pill) and I still love giving oral....I just wanted to know

There are a number of older gentlemen in the "60+" forum whom have experienced retrograde and other forms of non-ejaculatory orgasms'. They enjoy DFK, DATY, and whatever mix of handjob and bj the lady will provide. The more mature providers are familiar with the physiology of us dogs.

first of all,  I have dealt with guys who does not shoot anything but still gets the satisfaction.

I too had my prostate removed a number of years ago.  After recovering from surgery, I was glad to be ale to have a modest climax but with no ejaculation.   My girl friend remarked she looked at it as a feature, no mess, no clean up.   We have had many a BBFS session together.  After she moved away, I began mongering.  I have always had a great time with the professionals.  Occasionally the look at the condom and ask "Are you ok?  Want more?."  Unfortunately I am just good for one pop, but they still try.

By the way, I consider "penile massage" a recommended health service, that should be legal.   That is going to be my defense if there is ever an issue.  And because of health privacy laws, you can not be publicly identified.

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