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davincib1 96 Reviews 1900 reads
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I like to read reviews, especially if there is the potential that I am going to visit said provider.  A couple of things catch my eye, one in particular is when a client indicates that he performed DATY on the provider, but in return got a CBJ.  Providers/Clients what are your thoughts on this?

Zak0326667 reads

That's how I feel. If the guy ask for a CBJ that's one thing but if she advertises CBJ she isn't the provider I would be looking for.
 

Posted By: davincib1
I like to read reviews, especially if there is the potential that I am going to visit said provider.  A couple of things catch my eye, one in particular is when a client indicates that he performed DATY on the provider, but in return got a CBJ.  Providers/Clients what are your thoughts on this?

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Posted By: davincib1
I like to read reviews, especially if there is the potential that I am going to visit said provider.  A couple of things catch my eye, one in particular is when a client indicates that he performed DATY on the provider, but in return got a CBJ.  Providers/Clients what are your thoughts on this?
IMHO, it seems VERY one-sided, and unfair for the hobbyist.  With that said, there are hobbyists who feel more comfortable with a CBJ.

Many times I've thought of working at a brothel, but the downside for me is...they insist on CBJ's.  I've said it before, and I'll say it again...I love a Deep Throat BBBJCIM, and savoring every drop of a man's cream

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davincib1530 reads

And thats why you're one of my favorites Robin

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Posted By: davincib1
And thats why you're one of my favorites Robin

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perfectstorm452 reads

Anyway from the lady's standpoint she is trying to be safe. There is less STD risk in oral sex than intercourse or anal, however there is still risk, and in the case of oral, both BBBJ and DATY have more risk to the giver than the receiver.  So yes from a safety standpoint, it is not "fair."  Now I have seen a few reviews (years ago though, none recently) where DATY was performed with dental dams.  

In any case it doesn't really bother me and I have seen a number of providers who only do CBJ, but allowed DATY. Do I prefer a BBBJ? Of course, but there are other things I look at, and if those other things are all good, I will see a CBJ gal. If she allows DATY and appears to be clean and has no weird smells down there, I am happy to perform it.

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NoYellowEnvelope347 reads

I know some providers who allow DATY but detest CIM. So they do CBJs, at least until they know the monger well enough to be certain he won't CIM.  

Although I prefer BBBJ, CBJ isn't a ball-breaker for me.  Especially when the CBJ is done very very well and the overall experience is good.

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subrob27391 reads

that is not a fair exchange.  Communication is important between both parties to dispel any health concerns before the session starts.  Personally I dislike a CBJ.

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nothrofboston406 reads

had an ATF who I saw frequently for 8+ and for the first 6, her CBJ skills were so good, it didn't matter. I'm thick, she went deep ... game over.  

Then CBJ made me lose my erection. It pained me to cut back on seeing her. In the end, we respected each other's boundaries and needs and still keep in touch.  

One of the best fucks on the planet, we rocked each other's world, but if you can't keep it hard .... and I'll take some of the credit for that.  

I never saw anyone else that advertised CBJ,  nor wI'll I. I have learned that in many cases bbbj is a YMMV situation. That's where reviews are critical to check out. Profiles aren't always accurate. Same for anal.

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coeur-de-lion493 reads

His provider was happy to allow BB Greek, but then wanted the ensuing blowjob covered!  No clue why the disparity?

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harlan.spector473 reads

Given the other thread about GFE being favored over PSE, I'm assuming your friend's provider didn't like the taste of her own ass?

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vjlovesbj353 reads

Then for CFS, we might as well fuck a  rubber doll...just saying...

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Posted By: davincib1
I like to read reviews, especially if there is the potential that I am going to visit said provider.  A couple of things catch my eye, one in particular is when a client indicates that he performed DATY on the provider, but in return got a CBJ.  Providers/Clients what are your thoughts on this?
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mrfisher290 reads

Didn't think so.

Did her profile and/or reviews indicate CBJ?  If not, then you'd have a reason to fuss

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vantheman666328 reads

But that's probably because of my ATF.  She does CBJ, but she does them so well...she gives the best blowjobs I have ever had.  Now, if she weren't letting me eat her out, I might be a bit hurt.

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