I'm not in the habit of learning the real names of the ladies I visit. But as I was visiting a favorite recently, she had her makeup/toy bag in the bathroom. Due to a long drive to meet her, I had to use the facilities and take a shower. I discovered her bag, complete with airline baggage tags and her personal tag. If I wanted to, I would have her real name and address. I let her know about her faux pas and she hopefully removed the tags.
Please keep yourself safe, which includes being discreet about your identity. Hobby safe, my friends.Post this crap here. I know real name and addresses of providers because they told me..that doesn't mean I am going to tell you or anyone else.
In your case, it is even worse, you were spying and want to brag or make the provider look careless and stupid.
Here is piece of unsolicited advise. One very important thing in this business is, both provider and hobbyists must. E able to trust one another. You lot of things and you keep your mouth shut and yor typing in check, PERIOD.
I am also guilty of forgetting to remove my checked luggage tag and have had situations where the client saw my real name. Oops.
I've also gone to dinner and the waiter greeted the client by Mr. ______. Or I call room service and the person addresses me as Mrs. ______. Or the hotel bill is slipped under the door with his full name on it. Oops.
You definitely have to trust eachother, it's pretty easy to stumble across eachothers real name.
after it was slipped under the door and successfully blackmailed him as a result.
Now I've heard plenty of stories of BSC hookers outing guys for whatever reasons...but I've never heard of any dude actually paying off any hooker to NOT out him.
I think it would be hysterical to have some hooker try and blackmail me. I've got too many legal pals who are slow right now who'd love to prosecute the extortion.
What I've had to do in the interim to keep them on retainer is have them work with that investment banker _________________ in Cleveland on arranging the funds to buy TER.
I already have my list of nice folks who will be mods as well. And as a twist I've confirmed that TaylorSteele will be on the GD board as a mod. That should be fun LOL
I don't know the guy personally. The story was told to me by one of my hooker friends who said he paid because he's an easy mark with a wife and baby and didn't want to risk it.
I would have told her to go fuck herself and try it because I'd have the cops on her for blackmail. Then again, I'm not married and virtually everyone I know is aware of what I do. I'm about as bullet-proof as it gets.
Even if I were not in a good place (i'm close to you and GaG but admittedly I have a small Achilles heel), I wouldn't feel threatened by it at all.
A $500/H lady tried it with me...ONCE. She started small- wanted $1000 or 2hr of "service in advance." But she actually FB stalked me and came to my workplace- not cool. She was foolish as she didn't know I knew her real name too and knew that she was loosely affiliated with a small ring of indy escorts. Extortion+harassment is a fairly big deal, especially if it comes with felony conspiracy (because she didn't act alone). Luckily for her, she only tried it once, or else I'd have gone after her and she'd be enjoying the hospitality of Riker's Island right now.
A $700/H ATF recently tried to use it as counter-leverage when I caught her stealing a watch from me. She was smart enough to realize it was a bad play. She spent a few nights in the Law and Order Tombs courtesy of her actions.
A $700/H ATF recently tried to use it as counter-leverage when I caught her stealing a watch from me. She was smart enough to realize it was a bad play. She spent a few nights in the Law and Order Tombs courtesy of her actions.
Arrive, TCB, and leave as quietly as you came. I saw a hotel bill in the hallway leaving a provider. I didn't look at it and I didn't mention it to the provider because I didn't want her to worry that I had...regardless what I said after "cautioning" her, there would be that nagging thought, what if I had looked at it and lied? No thanks, I prefer to see her again.
There's a difference between a bill slipped under the door that she can't control, and luggage tags in easy view in the bathroom. One is easily preventable and accessible.
Oh, so your solution is that since "no good deed goes unpunished" and you might want to see that girl again, you should keep your mouth shut and allow her to keep herself vulnerable?
Yeah, you are quite the "humanist".
If you went to someone's home and saw a bank statement laying out would you say, "hey, I wouldn't do anything with that but you should put it away in case someone else sees it?" Of course you wouldn't, to do so would be condescending, rude, and that person would think it odd indeed that you made such a comment. But we have to help out the poor little incompetent providers who don't know enough to look after themselves, right? My point was simply that we do more harm than good by pointing out something like that...how does she know the guy isn't giving her a thinly veiled "hey I know who you are now, better treat me right?" But I'll allow that I shouldn't have added the bit about wanting to see her again, because that's irrelevant. Also you can disagree with me without being a dick about it...or maybe you can't.
No. I didn't miss anything.
You think that sparing her (and more importantly yourself) a little potential discomfort is more important than helping someone who is in a vulnerable position to be a little less vulnerable.
I get it - it's a lot easier and less painful to default to MYOB. And the older I get, the wisdom in that course of action becomes ever more apparent. But I'd feel rather bad if I walked out knowing that I could have helped her out in some small way and didn't.
And I get we are all adults here, she is a big girl and can take care of herself. Fine. But if I'm doing something stupid that could put me in danger, I'd appreciate it if someone points it out to me. So I'll extend the same courtesy.
I find it hard to imagine bringing something like that up without sounding at best paternalistic and at worst creepy, but if truly done in the spirit of cluing someone in I guess it's not the worst thing in the world, probably best done as an email afterward though. Personally I have found that any line of conversation that touches on the reality of what is happening in the room can get very awkward very quickly, therefore I avoid it.
He didn't out her, so what crap are you talking about? Your post sounds more like a brag than his.
Lighten up, Francis. Go get laid or something
there are actually SOME smart hookers who have more common sense than to leave stuff out anywhere, or work from their own home.
But sometimes people get in a rush and do not realize that they've forgotten a small detail. All you need is one BSC shithead to ruin your life for a while. It's bad enough in civvie life, eh? (In Canada today, so I had to write like a Canuck. Love this place!)
...An alibi in case he is caught lurking outside your bedroom window.
He didn't purposefully get your name and address.
Most guys who go by Arthur or Theodore get a bad rap for stalking and SK'ing. Lol.
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Some douche bag stole the SD card out of a friends' phone with all her work pictures, personal photos, foreign travel videos and music. Nothing backed up, naturally And it was the second time she'd seen the fcker. Thankfully he didn't steal the SIM card to clone her phone and really cause shit.
BTW, anyone threatening to out a lady, or blackmail her deserves to get his nuts cut off and fed to them.
I like my kitchen knives razor sharp, but I'd go the workshop and get dull garden shears, con gusto!
Maybe put address to FBI office on tags lol or a attorney we all know one of them . lol ok or eveon address of a Florida guy that will STAND HIS GROUND lol . safe is always best . on the good side i like to say all my hobbing friends are married and really like and respect each others privacy.
I guess if one was a bit to much I would keep his if close and pass it to a friend to hold till i knew he ment no harm. I wouldn't threaten a person . with that said , in the heat of a moment thing said can be apologized for and then move on peps.
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with a box cutter if necessary. I often share magazines with friends (for shared non-hobby interests) & they pass them on. But there's no way to know where they'll end up...
True story... one of my first dates with the gal who I married & divorced 5 years later... apparently she went through documents on my desk in plain view... that's how I paid my bills... while I was briefly in the bathroom, including my checking / bank book. I was a solution to her financial problems... which she resented from day one.
I was naïve for sure. I know too many people who've been stolen from or ID theft or ... I did not plan of having anyone to my home & never dreamed such was possible.
I myself would never have misused that opportunity, but I suppose there are quite a few who might. I'm not sure I really care what her real name is, as long as she Rocks my world for 2-3 hours.
Repeat after me: Any hobbyist that tends to repeat with the same ladies (and/or those hobbyists who have "stage names" who repeat with the same ladies) is going to find out her/his real name. Period. It always happens. It has nothing to do with discretion as such. Sooner or later, you're going to be picking up airfare for an ATF, or she'll need/want to have her real name on the hotel room, or she'll leave something behind in your hotel room by accident, and will then get in touch the next morning and ask you to send it to her, or something.
If you've been seeing the same gal with some degree of regularity for a year or two (or more), it's just gonna come up. And if a girl doesn't trust a long-term client enough to reveal her real name to him (should the need arise), then maybe she needs to re-evaluate her "relationship" with that client--or perhaps her comfort level with her profession.
Learning real names of my favorite providers "just happens" for me; it's not a big deal, it's not some weird little mind-game I play of "how much/how quickly can I get her to trust me"--it just happens--it's inevitable.
I do know the real names of some of the ladies I have visited. But they have volunteered that information.
I'm just trying to do a PSA for the inadvertent disclosure that may place a lady at risk.
I agree with what you wrote. Other than being semi-useless, that is.
This is about anyone she sees, 10th time or 1st time, being able to easily access that information covertly in the bathroom.
We all try very hard, ladies especially, to remain anonymous in this activity. Doing so and leaving that information out for anyone to see is like locking your convertible with the top down. Your friends and neighbors probably won't steal your GPS from your glove box, but the stranger walking through the neighborhood might