My Wife and I are going on Vacation, and she is going to have me select an escort to meet at our hotel.

I want to ask those in the know out there some questions regarding this situation.

Would younger hot girls have an issue being with a couple in their late 30's with average bodies
(not in bad shape, but not hardbodies either)

My wife has already said that I can have the girl too, I plan on having the girl focus on her for awhile first, but I know that she will be nervous when it's my turn with the girl.

When do you know when it's cool to join in and start making advances on the other girl.

Thanks!

Find the right, well talented provider, most likely someone in her 30's too and she will guide you both through what could be a very erotic encounter . . . but my advice is that no matter what, you both play with 'her', and finish with each other . . . let the sexual tension between you and your  wife build and the release will be something exceptional . . . . have fun!  L.

...from teenagers to guys in their seventies +, so a couple not yet in middle age should have no problem.

My only advice on this is to choose an escort who is well versed in doing couples. Since it is the first time, you and SO should read the reviews, pick somebody well thought of and contact her first explaining the general situation.

Then it really depends on whether you are a "planner" or a "go with the flow" type. You might want to explain in detail how you see the date developing via phone/email, or you might want to just see what happens when she turns up. If she is experienced there should be no probs. I always think that the best advice is to relax. If you are having a good time you'll know when to join in.

I've had situations with an escort where we decided to have somebody else join us, which admittedly is not like doing it with an SO, but both planned in advance and as a snap decision on the day. So far it has only gone badly wrong once and that was because I chose girl 2 badly.

If your wife does not want to help you select the escort, I would suggest the following:

An escort close to your wife's age, but with whatever physical characteristics you believe both of you find attractive.

An escort you are certain has done multiple couple or threesome sessions.

An escort that is not going to be a clock watcher.

I'm not sure there is a specific time when it's cool to join in and touch the other woman, but your wife will probably let you know when that is. Be sure to give your wife at least equal attention during the session (from you, not just the escort) so that she doesn't feel insecure afterwards about whether or not she gives you pleasure. You might want to be sure to give (at least one of, if you're able to do multiples) your pop to your wife.

The hard part about choosing a lady is that couples rarely post reviews (I've worked with couples, and not one review from any of them) so you really don't know what to expect.

A good provider will want to speak with your wife to make sure she is honestly interested in the session.  She may ask about your personal rules and boundaries, or at the least, ensure that you two have discussed them well.

If a younger hot girl sees couples (many ladies state this on their website), there is absolutely no reason that she would have an issue being with a couple in their late 30's.

Know that screening may be a little tougher.  She is inviting in a witness to the session by agreeing to see the both of you, please respect this concern and do what you are comfortable doing to alleviate it.

During the session, make sure there is good communication between yourself and your wife.  To avoid her being nervous, perhaps have HER give the signal or suggestion (when she is comfortable) that the attentions turn to you.

You are a lucky man!  Don't get so wrapped up in the provider that you forget to adore your wife to the fullest!  Have fun!

xoxo,
Sola

This is Katrina's opinion on first time couples.. (those that know me, know I can be abit opinionated)
If she is having you choose, my suggestion is try to have her involved as much as you can...this way she would feel as much as apart of this wonderful event.  Her feelings need to be considered.
Look at a women that is around your women’s age, and figure type this would assist in your wife feeling more comfortable and willing.
Discuss with her the do's and the don’ts up front have them confirmed before you even open the door to this women coming in.. this will avoid confusion and help in the developing of your relation in the long run..
Choose your escort carefully, do not be afraid be open..