This is my first post here (please be gentle). After lurking on this site and various provider sites for months now, I decided I couldn't take it anymore, and I finally made the call.  Let me tell you, I am SO glad I did.  I had the most amazing time yesterday.  She was really nice and really funny, and of course totally beautiful. I'm paying for it a little this morning though - I'm sore all over, she left hickies on both sides of my neck, and I've got fingernail scratches on my chest and my back (she turned into quite the wildcat once we got going). But it was worth it.  

You know what the best part is?  I feel empowered now.  Used to be, whenever I saw some tall, good-looking guy, I got all ticked off, becuase I knew guys like that can have sex whenever they want.  But now, thanks to this so-called "hobby," I too can have sex whenever I want.  That makes me just as cool and as great as any other guy.  Because of this experience, I feel more upbeat and positive about myself than I have in years.

So, yeah.  Thanks to the folks who run this site and to everybody on these boards for all the good advice. Without knowing it, you really helped me find the right provider to be with. You also helped me avoid naively walking into a bad situation. You all rule.

Way to go Beaver

ConGrats!, on your first experience.  Now just be careful, and don't get burned, on your second experience.  Take it from me, do your home work, scour your local boards, and pick a highly rated top of the line lady!  Make your second experience as memorable as your first, and not because of all the wrong reasons.  PM me if you'd like details.

Glad you had a great 1st experience.  Remember to continually "do your homework" so that you don't get a lesser experience next time.

Be sure to write a review so others can benefit.

The hobby offers many things to many people, but the confidence you felt during your date can also be the same in the civie world if you would only just say so.

I am glad you had a great time. There are a loot of amazing women that choose this profession. TER is a great way and I'm always glad for another success story.

Congrats' Bro' you have stepped into a wonderful world and you did so by wisely doing some homework before doing it. Keep up the research and your pratfalls will be few and your enjoyment edifying.

I may be wrong, but I have a hard time believing a provider would give a first time client hickies on both sides of the neck, and fingernail scratches all over...not to mention the fawning nature of the text.

Again, I may be wrong, but my first thought here is this person is trying to dupe you all by feeding egos.  The most interesting part of it, though, is how so many people jumped on sadwife saying that post was BS, and no one has even questioned it here.  What does that say, hmmm?

BP, if I am wrong, sorry about that.  You can tell us who you saw and post a review to help change my mind, though.

because it's getting really deep in here.

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Speaking as a provider, I would NEVER give a client hickies or back and chest scratches (unless he were a regular and requested it.)

That post just screams bogus to me.

-PD

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to walk out the door with. Most of the girl's I've been with don't even wear heavy perfume or any at all because they are pros and don't want you to go home smelling like them. Hate to call bullshit on you Mr PotatoHead, but that sounds like a tall tale...

NSF

Even is he is James Frey and we are all Oprah, he does accurately describe the feeling you get after your first one - where you sit back in wonder at this whole new world.  That rings true, even if the hickies and scratches sound like a scene from the 40 year old virgin.

The hickies and scratches struck me wrong too. Having received such TLC from a provider, I'd wonder what i would say when I got home. Tough day at the office?