The Anatomy of Seeing an Escort......

So often we share advice on how and when is the best time to book companionship. Unfortunately we also hear all the time how ladies are unwilling to deliver services that are advertised, leave before the alotted time is up or just flat out rip off clients.

There is never enough emphasis, however, on some of the issues that pertain to the gents who book the time. I have thought long and hard about this today after a particular incident that happened to a lady I highly respect, so here are my thoughts.

Choose Carefully:

When trying to find a lady for your perfect encounter. PLEASE take the time to READ her website, read reviews if they pertain and tactfully ask questions to make sure she is the right lady for your fantasy. Although it may not seem this way, but most ladies are not just merrily lifting their skirts for just anyone. The time and money spent on websites, advertising and preparing for your encounter means that a vast majority really care about what they do and want it to work out perfectly on both ends.

KNOW Your Boundaries:

When seeing a lady you must KNOW what you can and cannot do. In the realm of Dom/Sub fantasys, please, if this is new to you, let the lady know. This is a very delicate and very erotic area that can turn ugly if you do not know your boundaries. KNOW your safe words. If you feel you are not emotionally or mentally ready to handle this..DO NOT DO IT. The outcome will be that someone gets hurt physically and emotionally and your chances of ever hobbying again will be slim to none.

Help Her Understand What You Want:

This is key to a great encounter. So many ladies offer different fantasys and delights. One lady may be your perfect physical fantasy but not be able to perform such delicacies that would make your encounter perfect. Research and ask her questions. Tell her what it is that you seek and most times if she does not offer this, alot of ladies will recommend someone who does. NEVER assume that because she is perfect in other aspects that you can just do and say and behave any way you please.

Respect Her Wishes:

When a lady says No...that is what it means...NO. We understand that you are paying for time and companionship, but that does not give you license to Take what you want regardless of what she says. The money does not mean you have free reign over her body and emotions. Please realize that this is a business and an intimate one at that. I have met a man or two in my time that gets off on taking what he wants because he is the customer. But all you do is breed hatred, fear and a lasting distrust that never really goes away.  


I could go on forever and it just takes up bandwidth. The basis of this is for some of the gents to sit back and think, what it is about us that attracts you. Is it the physical beauty? The intelligence, the companionship or the need for the human touch. For whatever reason there must be some understanding when you book time with a lady. It may just be plunking down some cash for bumpin uglies, but for the women you see it may so much more than that. You can see it in their websites, their posts, theri reviews and the way they conduct themselves.

Choose carefully, communicate and know your limits. My heart sinks everytime I hear someone has taken advantage of another, whether it be provider or hobbiest. I sometimes think people forget this is supposed to be fun.

Thanks
Lass





-- Modified on 8/21/2003 6:30:52 PM