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Excellent post, Tiffany. This topic..
TiffanyBerkshire See my TER Reviews 3228 reads
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Now I know I'm going to make a few friends, and probably more enemies with this post. However, I've sat back and watched this brutal witch hunt towards providers destroy lives, emotionally abuse women, and cause many problems. So before reading...please try to have an open mind. Thank you.  

Over the many years I have taken part in the 'hobby', for lack of a better term...I have learned many things. About life. About people's general outlook, negative & positive. And especially about the average mans treatment of escorts.

Unfortunately, fake reviews are becoming more and more common. So are the true brutally mean ones. What has this world come to that men think it is 'okay' to deface and emotionally put down women while hiding behind an alias? Yes, you pay for her companionship. But she is HUMAN. Let me reiterate this...SHE IS A HUMAN! A woman! With emotions and feelings. Imagine if there was a review site out there that turned the tables...where the provider could write a review about you, your attitude, or your lack of physical perfection...

How would you feel?

Now granted I have had it pretty easy in the 'industry'. I don't have a family to support, and I have other sources of income. However, that is not a common case.  

These 'pros', 'escorts', 'whores' that you like to call them are single mothers trying to barely get by. They are daughters trying to pay for their ailing parents in nursing homes. They are students working hard to put themselves through college. That bad review you write, simply because you didn't have chemistry with her? That just lost her thousands of dollars, possibly not allowing her to feed her family or pay her mortgage that month. What if she lost her home or her means of transportation to get her children to school?

It also causes significant more damage to her self-esteem & confidence, of which no woman ever deserves.  

So next time you walk into a strip club, or knock on that hotel room door with cash in your hand and an entitlement attitude...just remember, none of these women "OWE" you anything. This hobby is a privilege, not a right. Instead of treating these women as objects, ditch the entitlement attitude and show them a bit of respect and appreciation. I bet you'd be surprised how much more of a warm welcome you receive when she opens that door...

It all comes down to a simple rule we all learned in grade school...

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.  

Thank you for reading. Have a beautiful day!  

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Pimpathy 1922 reads
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When reviews become that much of an issue. I can't fathom a greater solution, once this issue becomes a problem for a provider.  

Yes you are human. Yes you have the ability to solve this on your own. No, there is no reason for this to turn into a "Reviews are necessary debate", because if they are. Take the good with the bad.

cashorcredit 1858 reads
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Cosette 2233 reads
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Not sure why TER chooses to award free days of VIP in exchange for a review. At one million plus reviews they've made their crowd sourcing model legitimate and too many reviews or easy ways to post them dilute from its reputation.  

As for mean reviews, you can't fix stupid just like you can't fix mean.

HooktardGold 2278 reads
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If a guy who actually met with you calls you fat, that's not a fake review nor is that "destroying anyone's life." Ego maybe, but not a life. The fact is, when you or any other woman signs up to be a provider in an illegal business, reviews are a part of that equation. No matter how much some women hate them, they are not going to go away.  

Many women have a "No Review Policy" and even still, guys will write reviews. The guy who called you a BBW said so based only on HIS opinion, which you cannot have removed. To some guys anyone over 110 lbs is in fact a BBW, and you're not going to change their mind about that. I've been called fat at 120 lbs and old at 32... those are the breaks.  

If a guy is posting personal information, trying to blackmail you with reviews to get free services or things you don't provide at all, then that's another story altogether and should be taken seriously, but guys simply being critical is nothing to cry about.  

Fake reviews and critical reviews are not the same thing. If someone you claim never saw you can prove he can, then it's not a fake review and TER has a policy of making that determination. Usually, the guy must produce the confirmation email, text, etc. that gave him your location on the day of your date, and trust me... many save them now because of so many women who whine about low scores.

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cashorcredit 2100 reads
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TiffanyBerkshire See my TER Reviews 2192 reads
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Please bear that in mind before a witch hunt ensues. Thank you.

JackDunphy 2236 reads
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I think that was the impetus behind this rant. Be honest about that. Your concern for all the other "whores" is secondary. You got your feelings hurt b/c someone thought you were plump. If TER thought it was a bogus review, they'd remove it.

Women know the deal here. Most of them benefit greatly by TER. But on any internet evaluation site, be it here or Yelp or anywhere else, the people/businesses being reviewed aren't going to like it all the time. That's the downside of any business. Get used to it.

Imho, this post makes you look whiney. Don't worry about the reviews. The guys don't look at any one review as proof positive of anything. It is the totality of the reviews that matter.

And please stop this "alias" bashing nonsense. You are using one, are you not

JackDunphy 1693 reads
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He didn't call her a "BBW." He said she was a "borderline BBW", whatever the hell that means.

Fridays117 27 Reviews 1694 reads
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I neither inflate, nor deflate in my reviews.  I try to be honest.  The numbering system makes it tough to accurately gage appearance IMHO, what if a gal's body is smoking hot but her face is a little on the bad side, or she's got a pretty face but her body isn't so good?  This is subjective by the person's own perceptions.  I mean, my idea of a 10 might not be someone else's idea of a 10.  Likewise, if a girl is average by my standards or if she has mixed good and bad physical attributes then it's a 6 or 7.  I've never been with a 10 yet, but I'll know one when I see one.  
However, the service should be pretty simple to figure out for most guys.  Did you have a horrible time, bad time, eh time, OK time, good time or great time or maybe once in a lifetime time it's pretty easy to gage your own feelings on that one.
I've never trashed a provider in a review and whatever details are in the review usually explain my scoring.  Yes, the providers we see are human beings.  Nobody's perfect, hell, I know I'm not.  In all honesty I'd probably give myself a 5 for appearance because while not morbidly obese, I'm portly and only of average height with average musculature (outside of work, I don't work out).  For performance, I've been told I'm pretty good, so maybe a 7 or 8.  
But see, as the guy reading these reviews I look at all of the reviews and overlook the outliers.  If a gal is consistently graded with 7's 8's and 9's then I'm gonna ignore the smattering of 1's thru 4's because the reviewer for some reason was just a douche or had an agenda.  Likewise with girls who all of a sudden have 10's pop out of nowhere in an otherwise average career.  Something is rotten in Denmark.
So... In conclusion...
Um... What was the question?  Dammit, ADD strikes again.

Pimpathy 1917 reads
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I doubt if it could be said any better.

 

Are you RodTidwell's sister? (Hypothetical) do not answer.

cashorcredit 1562 reads
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HooktardGold 2332 reads
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What you spoke of is not a fake review... it's a critical one, but I agree with the overall post in general about reviews that are designed to destroy a provider's business, not her life. If a guy's rude comments in a review are destroying a person's real life, they need therapy. Unless he posted personal information about her real name, where she lives, etc. saying her ass is fat and she does not swallow, is not causing her harm in her real life, unless she was too stupid to protect her identity.  

If reviews are that much of an ego problem for some providers, maybe they need to find a new line of work where performance reports/reviews cease to exist lol. Yah, good luck with that. Every job I have ever had came with a critique of my work for the year, and not all of them were glowing reviews. I had two choices... improve on what they said was lacking, or pack up my shit to work somewhere else.  

I agree that guys using the review system to barter for free service, BBFS, blackmail, etc. should be banned for good, but it's not that easy to do.

My_New_Alias 1997 reads
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But that does not mean it is inappropriate for them to frankly and directly state a reviwer's opinion.  You market yourself in large part on your looks -- that's why you have pictures on your ads and website.  This reviewer clearly felt deceived by those pictures (and the accuracy of your pictures has been called into question by more than one reviewer, so it seems this isn't a case of one person with unrealistic expectations).  Had he not felt deceived, his review may have been more charitable.  If you are uncomfortable being judged on your looks, don't use them to sell yourself, or take pains to ensure that your pictures accurately reflect your current appearance, so those who book you will find you meet their expectations.

Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 1828 reads
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I guarantee you that each and every single one of us has written at least one bad review in our lives....

After I left the Britney Spears show at Madison sq garden I didn't think twice when I wrote about how horrible, tacky, total lip synched, etc it was.

One has to have a thick skin to be an entertainer. Same with a restaurant/hotel owner, etc..

Please don't tell me that you have never complained about services at a hotel. Did you stop to think you could have cost that person their job? Or did you think that if you just spent $ on a hotel that you deserved better service?

Fake reviews are one thing, they are trash and belong in the trash can.
Reviews not up to your liking are great. They help any business thrive. Once you learn to tell the difference between people that can't be satisfied no matter what (and please know just as you can read through those, so can others and they ignore them) and the ones that can help you improve.. It will be a lot better.

We have to remember.. What a man likes isn't the same as a woman. And within that, not all men care about the same thing. Some things that may hurt a ladies feelings aren't intended that way as a man. Read your reviews to learn what you are doing right and what you can improve, not to define your confidence.

Cosette 1424 reads
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If a woman chooses to be incredibly expensive, unfortunately there's expectations. Sometimes that can seem like the world if it surpasses a certain point.  

Too much pressure.

TiffanyBerkshire See my TER Reviews 2396 reads
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Posted By: JackDunphy
I think that was the impetus behind this rant. Be honest about that. Your concern for all the other "whores" is secondary. You got your feelings hurt b/c someone thought you were plump. If TER thought it was a bogus review, they'd remove it.  
   
 Women know the deal here. Most of them benefit greatly by TER. But on any internet evaluation site, be it here or Yelp or anywhere else, the people/businesses being reviewed aren't going to like it all the time. That's the downside of any business. Get used to it.  
   
 Imho, this post makes you look whiney. Don't worry about the reviews. The guys don't look at any one review as proof positive of anything. It is the totality of the reviews that matter.  
   
 And please stop this "alias" bashing nonsense. You are using one, are you not?  
   
 

MasterZen 34 Reviews 1805 reads
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skimmed all of your reviews. I read a few of the "outlier" reviews you have as well, including the one you mention.

A few thoughts:

HTG told you true. A "bad" review and a "fake" review are two different things.
When you have 80 reviews, any 1 is not a make or break situation.
Most hobbyists can spot an outlier review and ignore it in an instant.  
We can see when a review was written by a person with a pattern of low scores (as yours was).

However:
Your review scores average 8, but range somewhat widely. Almost like there are "phases" where your scores are lower for a few clients, and then "pop" back up. Including the 3 most recent below-average scores followed immediately by a couple of higher than average scores.  

Your pics look great to me. No way you are BBW or even close. So I discount some asshat who claims you are. But... are those pics recent and accurate?

I guess to sum it up... I'd ignore the outlier review written by the asshat, but might wonder a bit about consistency in your appearance and performance.

GaGambler 1943 reads
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and while you made the post under your "real" fake name, so did the guy who gave you your latest lousy review. Maybe instead of blaming the "mean" reviewers you should take an honest assessment about yourself? One bad review in a sea of good ones is overlooked by most prospective clients, having reviews all over the place is not.

As for the damage your post "could do" I believe that with the exception of Turdwell, who is still naive enough to believe everything that every escort complains about here, I don't think there is any "could" about it.

I only read your OP AFTER you had edited it, I can only imagine how I would have reacted if I had read the unabridged version.

bonordonor 1730 reads
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to see assholes that try to barter with a favorable review. They are most likely "one & done" guys anyway and on to their next victim. I don't mention to the lady that I've seen her reviews unless she asks me. I want my session to be one about me and her, "no strings attached", well except for the envelope. lol! I almost always ask, after the session, if she minds if I write a review. I have not heard "no", yet.

DC. 51 Reviews 2171 reads
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You have periods of consistent good scores sandwiched around periods of very poor to mediocre scores.  Three reviews in January, including the one you referenced in your OP, describe you being bigger than your pics.  

Reading a profile like that suggests to me certain issues that result in periods of poor performance, and I would not see you based on the inconsistency that spans years of reviews.

Now, I'm not going to open the door on this thread by naming the issues that come to mind when I look at your reviews, but I think you can guess what red flags flap in the wind upon seeing them.

To be perfectly blunt, in your case, I'm very happy to have a full, honest, review profile available.  

Please keep in mind that the reviews are NOT for you - they are for the guys contemplating seeing you.  That's what this site is about.

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JackDunphy 1929 reads
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And one of them is for people to be able to speak freely without fear of reprisal. It's also why you don't use your real name in the biz, you use a stage name. We all have reasons and you shouldn't question others for theirs, just worry about yours.

I still stand by if you had not gotten that substandard review, you would not have started this thread. This is all about one bad review. This thread will hurt your biz far worse than any one review. Get over it. Learn form this. Move on.

cuntluver 1741 reads
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There's a huge difference between a "fake" review and an unfavorable review...

Guess the spawn was a handful? lol

bonordonor 1869 reads
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I hate professional, airbrushed pictures. It just sets the provider up for criticism. I much prefer "selfies" or at least "girl next door" photos, so that when I show up, I am not disappointed, well, at least most of the time

MasterZen 34 Reviews 2005 reads
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DC. 51 Reviews 1246 reads
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attacks her.  I read quite a few of her reviews, including the ripoff one from 2008.  None of them seemed mean or nasty, just honest accounts.

Try not to be so quick to morph into Captain Chivalry just because you've convinced yourself that every other guy out there is an asshole because they don't grovel and scrape at the base of the pedestal upon which you've placed all women.

Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 1321 reads
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Dear Madam Berkshire:
Although reviews are an essential and critical element in determining if a prospective hobbyist will select a particular provider, there should be some accuracy and accountability when disclosing what transpired during the course of a session.  However if a particular provider is not friendly and engaging and repulses the customer, he should say what happened and disclose what transpired in a session.  This is critical because as men and hobbyist we do have a duty to make future hobbyist aware of certain quirks and personality attributes that she would have.   The review itself is one of the only gauges that a potential hobbyist would have to discern whether or not he would like to have a session with a certain provider. Now once they get comfortable with others on the board they can then use the hobbyist only board to have certain discussion with other hobbyist regarding the provider in question.

Posted By: TiffanyBerkshire
Now I know I'm going to make a few friends, and probably more enemies with this post. However, I've sat back and watched this brutal witch hunt towards providers destroy lives, emotionally abuse women, and cause many problems. So before reading...please try to have an open mind. Thank you.  
   
 Over the many years I have taken part in the 'hobby', for lack of a better term...I have learned many things. About life. About people's general outlook, negative & positive. And especially about the average mans treatment of escorts.  
   
 Unfortunately, fake reviews are becoming more and more common. So are the true brutally mean ones. What has this world come to that men think it is 'okay' to deface and emotionally put down women while hiding behind an alias? Yes, you pay for her companionship. But she is HUMAN. Let me reiterate this...SHE IS A HUMAN! A woman! With emotions and feelings. Imagine if there was a review site out there that turned the tables...where the provider could write a review about you, your attitude, or your lack of physical perfection...  
   
 How would you feel?  
   
 Now granted I have had it pretty easy in the 'industry'. I don't have a family to support, and I have other sources of income. However, that is not a common case.  
   
 These 'pros', 'escorts', 'whores' that you like to call them are single mothers trying to barely get by. They are daughters trying to pay for their ailing parents in nursing homes. They are students working hard to put themselves through college. That bad review you write, simply because you didn't have chemistry with her? That just lost her thousands of dollars, possibly not allowing her to feed her family or pay her mortgage that month. What if she lost her home or her means of transportation to get her children to school?  
   
 It also causes significant more damage to her self-esteem & confidence, of which no woman ever deserves.  
   
 So next time you walk into a strip club, or knock on that hotel room door with cash in your hand and an entitlement attitude...just remember, none of these women "OWE" you anything. This hobby is a privilege, not a right. Instead of treating these women as objects, ditch the entitlement attitude and show them a bit of respect and appreciation. I bet you'd be surprised how much more of a warm welcome you receive when she opens that door...  
   
 It all comes down to a simple rule we all learned in grade school...  
   
 Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.  
   
 Thank you for reading. Have a beautiful day!  
   
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GaGambler 1262 reads
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and nothing he has said over the last couple of months has done a thing to change my opinion, he only seems to reinforce it every time he opens his mouth and rides to the rescue of what he perceives as a damsel in distress.

What we call honest, he calls mean. When we refuse to be manipulated he calls us abusers, he really has taken mangina to a whole new level, I think he has sunk from mangina to "he cunt" I really can't imagine anyone on this board I have less respect for.

cuntluver 1681 reads
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sympathyforthedevil 57 Reviews 2150 reads
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Could be the Aldo Antonio work. He has a way of posing (photoshopping?) the ladies to make weight go away. Lots of the pics have her hands above her head. Good way to lengthen and slim down a belly. The ones where she doesn't she mostly has clothes over her mid section. I've learned to look out for that.

I think the whole review discussion has about as much chance of being resolved as us balancing the national deficit.
Posted By: MasterZen
skimmed all of your reviews. I read a few of the "outlier" reviews you have as well, including the one you mention.  
   
 A few thoughts:  
   
 HTG told you true. A "bad" review and a "fake" review are two different things.  
 When you have 80 reviews, any 1 is not a make or break situation.  
 Most hobbyists can spot an outlier review and ignore it in an instant.  
 We can see when a review was written by a person with a pattern of low scores (as yours was).  
   
 However:  
 Your review scores average 8, but range somewhat widely. Almost like there are "phases" where your scores are lower for a few clients, and then "pop" back up. Including the 3 most recent below-average scores followed immediately by a couple of higher than average scores.  
   
 Your pics look great to me. No way you are BBW or even close. So I discount some asshat who claims you are. But... are those pics recent and accurate?  
   
 I guess to sum it up... I'd ignore the outlier review written by the asshat, but might wonder a bit about consistency in your appearance and performance.

TiffanyBerkshire See my TER Reviews 2118 reads
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I suppose I made a mistake in using my bad review as an example, and my apologies. I was not trying to attack reviews, aliases, or anyone for that matter. It was meant to shine a positive light on providers as human beings with feelings.  

There was no 'read between the lines' to my post. It was not to try and defend myself. I wrote this post and posted it under my stage name knowing full well the repercussions and the damage it COULD do.  

I'd like to say I wished to give it the benefit of the doubt, in hopes that it would get a positive response. Rather than the negative one that it did. I am not going to dignify the negativity and lash out, as many of you are probably expecting.  

One of the first things I said was, "this hobby has been a LEARNING EXPERIENCE". I'll bet not a single one of you entered the hobby knowing everything you do about it now. Everyone's view is different.  

Thank you again for your input and reading my post.

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cuntluver 1206 reads
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...to be you. You have created a new Mangina. Kudos. Judging from all your comments about "little men," I wouldguess you resemble a wrestler/ football player type, but very timid...

The OP should be able to take the criticism if she's made a public statement.  
Posted By: RodTidweLL
I take it very seriously. If a customer writes a review that has racist, sexist, or malicious undertones I ignore it. If this is just like any other business personal attacks can't be tolerated. I wouldn't let anyone take personal jabs at my employees. I certainly wouldn't condone the action.  
   
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Cosette 1168 reads
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The rate is something WE control dude.  

Hey I'm the biggest supporter of women against mean reviews.  

My biggest point is, you're an adult, you see me, I'm not what you're attracted to, be nice and say "this isn't going to work".  

If you don't say that, you lose the right to say something gratuitously mean. I couldn't care less if the little head was thinking. You decided to stay, don't be mean afterwards over looks. Performance is a different story but don't be mean over looks when you didn't leave.

0603450onThe 1794 reads
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real to life so the criticism cannot come, at least my interpretation and for that reason I decided from day one to never get professional photos done. I don't look like a barbie doll in person, and I certainly don't want a barbie doll persona. With me, what you see is what you get. Period. But in the same breath, personal photos can still be represented in a beautiful manner if taken the time to do so...it's a helluva lot more work taking on that task but the point is...you are in control of your own domain. And that's what I like. I don't need my photos in a some photographer's hands, at least not photos from here ;)

Everything 'in house' works for me...at least in this world.

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TiffanyBerkshire See my TER Reviews 2223 reads
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I think not. I agree with RodTidwell. Chivalry is not dead. Saying you expect the same chemistry and 'rip my clothes off attraction' every time she opens the door may be realistic for some, but not for me. If someone was to walk through my door and say "I hope you're worth the money", I would tell him to take his money and leave immediately through the door he came through. I would know up front we would not have a good time because I would never live up to his expectations, no matter how hard I tried.  

However I don't expect to be put on a pedestal. I do expect mutual respect and appreciation. I am very clear about that in my ads and website. I choose to spend my time with a gentleman, not a demanding hobbyist. To each their own.  

Regarding the responses to my photos and appearance...no. I am not a the early 20s stick figure like I was when I first began. I have curves, and I've had experiences as a woman that have changed my body. If you've been married, or watched a woman grow, you would know this.  

I have life in my years and in my body. I have no intention of hiding that.  

When those 3 reviews that were posted were written, I was using old photos. That was my mistake. I saved up to work with Aldo to fix that. Crisis averted.  

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cuntluver 2181 reads
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I know this wasn't your first post back but I've been away. Guess winter recess is over? lol.

Posted By: TaylorSteele

JackDunphy 2023 reads
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You dished out a good deal of negativity, some possibly justified, some def not. But you acknowledged you made a mistake in a few areas and I'll give you props for that.  

No need beating a dead horse here. Best to you in the future.

GaGambler 2284 reads
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is the fact that there are more fake positive reviews, than fake negative ones.

and that is a direct result of free VIP for reviews. It's a lot easier to get a fake positive review through the approval process than to get a fake negative, especially when there are so many women just like Tiffany who scream like a stuck pig every time some one gives them a bit of criticism. Guys who simply want free VIP don't write negative reviews about providers they have never seen, they take the path of least resistance and simply go along with the flow.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1531 reads
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I didn't read any responses yet as I wanted to give a generic, fresh response (with an open mind). Please have an open mind as well and see it for what it is. But if you want to know what I really think, or if you don't, lol, here's what I think.

I think what you're trying to say can be read between the lines, but all background hasn't been included so I'll respond based on the words on the screen.

Of course being a gentleman and not ripping a lady to shreds, especially when he knows she tried her best and tried to advertise as accurately as possible is important.

Regarding the average man's treatment of escorts, the negatives can be avoided through screening; however, I've met men through all screening levels, and all rates, (From $100 for 6 hours to $400 for 1 hour.) I've come across very few assholes.

Unfortunately, fake advertisement is common just like fake reviews. Brutally mean ladies are just as common as brutally mean reviews. (I don't want a mean review btw, have mercy!) Most ladies and gents I've come across are extremely generous with their knowledge, help, and finances. I'm blessed to know you all. But I do see reviews and treatment from and towards providers and hobbyists that are pretty sad and hurtful to see. But that's everywhere, not just here.
 
Men are also reviewed in the background, blacklisted for dumb reasons - with their real names blasted on the internet for anyone to google. I totally agree with being tactful in reviews about a lady's looks and performance. I don't agree with being dishonest. We all have our bad days, just like anyone in any job, and the paying customer suffers the consequences. They should have a say.
 
There are single mothers, people with families to support, and businesses to fund and keep open in every business. Part of owning a business is being exposed to public scrutiny - as is being a pop star. A pop star goes nuts, you bet the whole world will know. An escort tells another escort a deep secret, better know all other escorts and mutual clients will hear the secret if escort #1 pisses off escort #2.

The world is full of people trying to survive and make the most of their money. Remember, guys are forking over serious bucks per hour with us. We do 'owe' the guys (or gals) something for the big bucks they pay. We owe what we advertise - Otherwise it would be bait & switch.

I screwed up a weekend that was requested last minute and no review was written about it, but I'm sure there was back channeling. I know why I screwed it up - I should have not taken the last minute appointment, nor should I have continued on with the appointment when I found he wasn't attracted and I was only there as a 'bucket list check-off'. And when I was sent out to walk around the city all day while he was away. I could not be the 'Courtney' I advertise, and I could have learned from an honest review. I went wrong in not going by my ample notice rule for longer excursions, requiring a hotel room to stay in during the day while he was away, and frankly should have left when I noticed the side - insulting comments that were affecting my performance. I should have run my business differently that time.

We can learn from anything.

Don't sweat it. Just know how to bounce back, improve, or let it pass.

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TiffanyBerkshire See my TER Reviews 1902 reads
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Once again, I wasn't here to defend myself.  

My main career is in an industry where appearances are extremely important. People come to me because their self esteem is beat down, or they've been bullied or picked on. THAT is where the inspiration for this post came from. NOT from my reviews. Just to make it clear.

HooktardGold 1970 reads
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Have to disagree with that, and as someone who has been at every price point just about, I can assure you that the cheapo bottom feeders are the ones who expect the most for their change. When I was at 300 an hour, I did more work in that one hour than I did on a 3500 dollar overnight. Those hourly types were also the most critical in the review process, as you have observed. I got better reviews and had less sex at 1000 than I ever did at 300, and most providers will agree. If you've never charged more than 500, you don't know what is expected, and it's more along the lines of social events vs. kinky sex unless you're a porn star.

-- Modified on 3/18/2014 3:43:49 PM

0603450onThe 2254 reads
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stated is valid. All you can do is be true to who you are now, present day...nothing more. If a gentleman doesn't want that, his loss, not yours. But at least you can hold your head high and know there was nothing shy of honesty on your part with photos etc. I personally wouldn't post photos more than a year old and shoot every 3 months if you choose to do the professional route. If you do choose to leave older photos on your site, make sure it states that they are dated, and yes, crisis averted, to use your words and keep your life simple.  

I also wouldn't worry so much about reviews quite honestly...they are all speculation, whether amazing or poor and every gentleman will have his own experience with you. That's why reviews should be taken with a grain of salt...simply to verify a woman is who she says she is. Nothing more. Those who read them word for word and dissect those words, are only setting themselves up for failure unless he has the same chemistry as the guy who wrote it, which you and I both know is almost next to impossible. Every gentleman is different just like every woman, therefore every experience will take it's own path.

Blowing Chunks 1700 reads
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Cosette 1329 reads
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I'm sure it exists at every point. It's not about the price. It's about the person. Slowly you build up the hints that tell you whether you'll click or not.  

But it's not a blanket "hey he's cheap therefore he'll expect a lot."

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1610 reads
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I'll be in NYC next week. Wanna' hang?????!!!!!! I get to meet the great Cosette too!

P.S. Doubles? hehehehhe

0603450onThe 1854 reads
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Cosette 1424 reads
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You gotta stop. I don't even know if it's your real personality or not but you need to form an opinion based on facts and evidence and debate. Not on men are always awful. They can be for sure but we are all humans.

0603450onThe 1696 reads
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but you know what we chatted about. The one week I won't be here, can you believe it lol. I'm hoping to get a nice tan though and come back all dark. Have fun while you're here and I hope the weather cooperates for you.....enjoy NY and any new friends you may meet.  

End of May I'll be in your neck of the woods...........already looking forward to it. And it better be warm by then lol.  

;)

-- Modified on 3/18/2014 12:49:56 PM

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1708 reads
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But I couldn't respond based on assumptions. I hope (if anyone reads my long-ass post,) it helps people read reviews more constructively. The main point I would hope people would get is…  

- Most people who review a business are under satisfied and over satisfied customers. The majority of the ones who talk behind closed doors to the most amount of people are the under satisfied customers. Back channeling probably hurts us more than bad reviews.

bonordonor 1603 reads
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Are you a social worker as your main job? Please don't tell me your main job is a hooker, Pleeeease don't tell me that.

HooktardGold 1306 reads
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You've also said you were a sex addict, so maybe your expectations or limitations are not the same as the average provider who is not here for sex, but for money. My point is proven by the fact that your reviews are not 8s-10s, and you are just as hot and bright as the next girl who knew how to market herself to guys who would rate her high, so she could make more money.

MasterZen 34 Reviews 1448 reads
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has come up before and isn't unique to you.  

Unfortunately, there are manipulators and those with an overdeveloped sense of entitlement among both providers and clients. Both can cause real hurt.

Don't lose sight of the fact that there are still those who have the skill to express themselves accurately and offer criticisms constructively.

HooktardGold 1435 reads
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I beg to differ...

1. Providers offer a product that is said to look like x and perform like y... guys have a right to dispute that claim in a performance review just like any other business does.

2. Providers claim to be a, b and c... again, guys have a right to expect that for the money they pay and at a clean, safe location that is also advertised as being as such.

3. If a provider is marketing a Mercedes when she's only a damn Honda, guys can also point out where she fked up in doing so.  

The only place you guys have no business is a gal's real life, and unless your review somehow hurts her real life, reviews can stay or go.

russbbj 89 Reviews 1665 reads
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What motivation would someone have to write a fake review? Am I naive here? Are there people who just randomly pick a provider and say I'm going to write a fake review? Or are fake reviewers just like these fools that write computer virus', who want to be destructive, just to be destructive? I am perplexed.

Blowing Chunks 1856 reads
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Maybe TER can implement an automated system where review submissions with scores out of the ordinary average need to be verified before being posted (instead of posting first and back paddling like how it is currently)  

Review should be held in cue before being posted an automatic email sent to provider from TER asking for her appointment info during that month. Only TER knows this info and not shared with either party.  

If provider does not furnish info in a week or so,  review gets posted.  
This seems like a better way to reduce fake reviews. Just my two cents.

MasterZen 34 Reviews 1221 reads
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J'essaie, beaucoup essaient, mais il ne sera pas écouter. Peut-être d'une femme qu'il respecte.

0603450onThe 1951 reads
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while yes, I agree with you to some degree about 'appearances' that there are flavors for everyone in all shapes, sizes and colors, but you lost me on the self esteem, bully part. Not sure I understand where that comes from unless you were saying because a gentleman who wrote a review was bullied and took it out on your review, then that's a whole other topic. Then yes, this thread took a different turn. Sorry, I'm one for scanning everyone else's posts but the OP's. I did read all of yours, but I didn't get that for some reason. I apologize.  

In my opinion, men are here because something is lacking in their lives, whether it be the physical, emotional or spiritual and I can guarantee in most cases, it's so much more than the physical than you could ever imagine. But no one likes to talk about that part of this world...that's the stuff that stays behind closed doors. Whether he was bullied or self esteem was so low that he took it out on a review then should be brought up to TER imo. That's not right and foul play. That's like giving a gentleman an Okay on P411 when truthfully he didn't deserve it. Speculation.

HooktardGold 1804 reads
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I don't have to have chemistry to act and perform like a 10 even if the guy is a dud, but like you, I just prefer to not deal with those types. I also don't think guys should even be allowed to lower scores because of lack of chemistry... what a crock of shit. If she looked like her photos, performed as expected or better, made you feel like a king, wtf is this chemistry shit? It's not match.com!

DC. 51 Reviews 1607 reads
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This is directly from one of your recent ads:

"I am quite the pleaser, and I want your experience with me to be the most pleasurable, sensuous experience you've ever had! If you enjoy being pampered & spoiled, and you have a fiesty desire to be turned on from the moment you meet me, then I would love to hear from you!"

Now you want to add "unless there's no chemistry, in which case you may or may not have a good time for the same money!"

You've now said all you need to say for guys to take a pass. It's attitudes like yours that TER was designed, in part, to help us avoid through an honest review system.  You're just proving the concept.

0603450onThe 1532 reads
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What's up woman lol.

2labman 26 Reviews 2111 reads
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Back_In_Black 2087 reads
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Her two crappy ones , hey is her fat ness temporary or is she know larger than life ? You know some girls don't recovery after putting on winter tonnage ....Colorado was cold this year and she may have raided one to many miini bars ..oh well that's life ....l8r  

Posted By: GaGambler
and while you made the post under your "real" fake name, so did the guy who gave you your latest lousy review. Maybe instead of blaming the "mean" reviewers you should take an honest assessment about yourself? One bad review in a sea of good ones is overlooked by most prospective clients, having reviews all over the place is not.  

As for the damage your post "could do" I believe that with the exception of Turdwell, who is still naive enough to believe everything that every escort complains about here, I don't think there is any "could" about it.

I only read your OP AFTER you had edited it, I can only imagine how I would have reacted if I had read the unabridged version.

MasterZen 34 Reviews 1720 reads
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2labman 26 Reviews 1722 reads
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And even tell them the rough content/rating of the review.  Most all say Yes, then I post it.  Some ask me to screen out some stuff (CIM, NQNS, etc.) because that's a YMMV occurrence.  That's perfectly fair.

Some ladies just don't want too many reviews and look high volume.

HooktardGold 1823 reads
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Yup, thank you. If there is no chemistry as she requires, then per her own words, she should 'refund the money' and there would be NO review. Sorry, but I don't buy for one second that any hooker has chemistry with every client she meets nor does she need that to pay her bills... especially if she charges by the damn hour. Well, maybe Cosette is the exception lol. I would have been broke if I had to have chemistry with every fat, old, saggy man that walked through my door when I was a hooker, and they came in that way at 300 to 5k, so charging more won't make them hotter... just easier to deal with lol.

Back_In_Black 2254 reads
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Chubby girls usually do .....do you know Jenny Craig ? Perhaps you 2 can get acquainted and your problems will melt away ...xoxo.......;)

Posted By: TiffanyBerkshire
I suppose I made a mistake in using my bad review as an example, and my apologies. I was not trying to attack reviews, aliases, or anyone for that matter. It was meant to shine a positive light on providers as human beings with feelings.  
   
 There was no 'read between the lines' to my post. It was not to try and defend myself. I wrote this post and posted it under my stage name knowing full well the repercussions and the damage it COULD do.  
   
 I'd like to say I wished to give it the benefit of the doubt, in hopes that it would get a positive response. Rather than the negative one that it did. I am not going to dignify the negativity and lash out, as many of you are probably expecting.  
   
 One of the first things I said was, "this hobby has been a LEARNING EXPERIENCE". I'll bet not a single one of you entered the hobby knowing everything you do about it now. Everyone's view is different.  
   
 Thank you again for your input and reading my post.

0603450onThe 1623 reads
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'opinion' or 'judgment' on this board. It can have 8.5 different meanings. I personally think chemistry is that you have a different experience with different men...not the kind of chemistry you are thinking of. That's my take of chemistry in this arena. You can't tell me all of your dates were the same with all different guys......come on, not even you can say that. If you do, I won't believe you ;)

Attraction is different for everyone, everywhere in any world, even here, acting or not.

-- Modified on 3/18/2014 1:14:44 PM

Blowing Chunks 1930 reads
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They need a system to encourage honest reviews while discouraging malicious ones.

HooktardGold 1136 reads
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Emails are all dead, so you'll have to get my number from ADJ and call my ass ha ha. I have 2 free days, then it's back to the grind.

Back_In_Black 1945 reads
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Okay so I'm FAT know but a fucking 4 ??????? Ggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, you guys have to be drunk I think not , a few to get loose but drunk ????damn this is a tough crowd ! And I thought you guys liked high school photos the 80s were cool !  

Posted By: TiffanyBerkshire
I think not. I agree with RodTidwell. Chivalry is not dead. Saying you expect the same chemistry and 'rip my clothes off attraction' every time she opens the door may be realistic for some, but not for me. If someone was to walk through my door and say "I hope you're worth the money", I would tell him to take his money and leave immediately through the door he came through. I would know up front we would not have a good time because I would never live up to his expectations, no matter how hard I tried.  
   
 However I don't expect to be put on a pedestal. I do expect mutual respect and appreciation. I am very clear about that in my ads and website. I choose to spend my time with a gentleman, not a demanding hobbyist. To each their own.  
   
 Regarding the responses to my photos and appearance...no. I am not a the early 20s stick figure like I was when I first began. I have curves, and I've had experiences as a woman that have changed my body. If you've been married, or watched a woman grow, you would know this.  
   
 I have life in my years and in my body. I have no intention of hiding that.  
   
 When those 3 reviews that were posted were written, I was using old photos. That was my mistake. I saved up to work with Aldo to fix that. Crisis averted.  
   
 -- Modified on 3/18/2014 8:22:23 AM

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Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1724 reads
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Rejected! Lol :D

Ok! Can't wait for May! Weeeeeeee!
Posted By: TaylorSteele
but you know what we chatted about. The one week I won't be here, can you believe it lol. I'm hoping to get a nice tan though and come back all dark. Have fun while you're here and I hope the weather cooperates for you.....enjoy NY and any new friends you may meet.  
   
 End of May I'll be in your neck of the woods...........already looking forward to it. And it better be warm by then lol.  
   
 ;)

-- Modified on 3/18/2014 12:49:56 PM

0603450onThe 1803 reads
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you shoot up to NY when I'm gone and hit up Court and Cosette (you seem to hit it off with her and use that french accent if that's what that was lol)...you can call it the C2Z.  

;)

0603450onThe 1318 reads
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XXX? Who the fuck is that anyway.....nevermind, I don't wanna know LOL, you can have him and then some. But have fun back at the grind lady. I'm headed out west to feel the sun for the first time in what seems like a century. Damn this winter was horrible. May have to move there next winter LOL. Then it's back to the grind for me as well. Time to buckle on up. Yeehaw.

;)

-- Modified on 3/18/2014 1:27:18 PM

Back_In_Black 1629 reads
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Are all over the place , you finally got called out and ..........what ?? Poor you ? If you were more honest this wouldn't have happened so its your fault the guy wanted the hot young girls not her mom ! Sorry but if you wanted George clooney and got George Jefferson would you be happy ????? Oh maybe you would , you India resemble weezie !

Posted By: TiffanyBerkshire
Now I know I'm going to make a few friends, and probably more enemies with this post. However, I've sat back and watched this brutal witch hunt towards providers destroy lives, emotionally abuse women, and cause many problems. So before reading...please try to have an open mind. Thank you.  
   
 Over the many years I have taken part in the 'hobby', for lack of a better term...I have learned many things. About life. About people's general outlook, negative & positive. And especially about the average mans treatment of escorts.  
   
 Unfortunately, fake reviews are becoming more and more common. So are the true brutally mean ones. What has this world come to that men think it is 'okay' to deface and emotionally put down women while hiding behind an alias? Yes, you pay for her companionship. But she is HUMAN. Let me reiterate this...SHE IS A HUMAN! A woman! With emotions and feelings. Imagine if there was a review site out there that turned the tables...where the provider could write a review about you, your attitude, or your lack of physical perfection...  
   
 How would you feel?  
   
 Now granted I have had it pretty easy in the 'industry'. I don't have a family to support, and I have other sources of income. However, that is not a common case.  
   
 These 'pros', 'escorts', 'whores' that you like to call them are single mothers trying to barely get by. They are daughters trying to pay for their ailing parents in nursing homes. They are students working hard to put themselves through college. That bad review you write, simply because you didn't have chemistry with her? That just lost her thousands of dollars, possibly not allowing her to feed her family or pay her mortgage that month. What if she lost her home or her means of transportation to get her children to school?  
   
 It also causes significant more damage to her self-esteem & confidence, of which no woman ever deserves.  
   
 So next time you walk into a strip club, or knock on that hotel room door with cash in your hand and an entitlement attitude...just remember, none of these women "OWE" you anything. This hobby is a privilege, not a right. Instead of treating these women as objects, ditch the entitlement attitude and show them a bit of respect and appreciation. I bet you'd be surprised how much more of a warm welcome you receive when she opens that door...  
   
 It all comes down to a simple rule we all learned in grade school...  
   
 Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.  
   
 Thank you for reading. Have a beautiful day!  
   
 -- Modified on 3/18/2014 7:05:15 AM

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Pimpathy 2212 reads
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I do all that can be done. I don't write fake reviews. Why should I be concerned with a problem, that I didn't cause?  

 
The science is in...

Dr Who revived 1916 reads
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There's little that that man can't edit.

I've looked at his shots using the before pics compared to his artistic manipulation.  If you (and I know you do) look closely it's quite easy to see how heavy a girl really is.

Nothing wrong with taking out tattoos and such...but chopping off the 30+ pounds leads to reviews like Tiffany is whining about.  The truth does hurt.
 
Posted By: Back_In_Black
Chubby girls usually do .....do you know Jenny Craig ? Perhaps you 2 can get acquainted and your problems will melt away ...xoxo.......;)  
   
Posted By: TiffanyBerkshire
I suppose I made a mistake in using my bad review as an example, and my apologies. I was not trying to attack reviews, aliases, or anyone for that matter. It was meant to shine a positive light on providers as human beings with feelings.    
     
  There was no 'read between the lines' to my post. It was not to try and defend myself. I wrote this post and posted it under my stage name knowing full well the repercussions and the damage it COULD do.    
     
  I'd like to say I wished to give it the benefit of the doubt, in hopes that it would get a positive response. Rather than the negative one that it did. I am not going to dignify the negativity and lash out, as many of you are probably expecting.    
     
  One of the first things I said was, "this hobby has been a LEARNING EXPERIENCE". I'll bet not a single one of you entered the hobby knowing everything you do about it now. Everyone's view is different.    
     
  Thank you again for your input and reading my post.
-- Modified on 3/18/2014 3:32:27 PM

Cosette 1485 reads
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But I'm ok with 6-7 as my looks. If that's how one feels.  

I'm not ok with someone saying they saw me twice and came and yet I was awful, that's just mentally unstable.  

What I disagree with is with the notion that men who pay more expect less and men who pay less expect more.  

High end isn't for me. 100%.

0603450onThe 1409 reads
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"Men who pay more expect less than men who pay less and expect more".  

I think it's just the 'type' of gentleman who contacts you quite honestly and as I have stated from day one, pricepoint determines just what 'kind' of gentleman may do that. Not in all cases, but I have to believe that the gentleman behind curtain #1 who's budget is allocated towards a woman at 200/hr vs the gentleman behind curtain #2 who is at well over 500/hr are two different types of gentlemen. They just are, not better worse, just 'different'. At least that's what I've experienced and I have played with my #'s for a year and still do.  

The men I have met at my current price point which I guess is somewhere in the middle now, def not 'high end' in my book, don't expect anything more or less than where I was in the beginning a lil over a year ago. So to me, the men have been no different nor has the process in my opinion, at least for me.

Back_In_Black 2025 reads
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Any smart girl. Tries to keep it somewhat real , and yes I cross reference photos , pro , selfies and he m guys and if they are ant close I'll post that shit ! But I'm not taking chances , tiffany got called out and the reviews now are harsh but she messed up with those 2 new reviews after the next guys get burned the reviews will be worse !! Dumb ! Really DUMB !!!

Posted By: ChgoCPA
There's little that that man can't edit.  
   
 I've looked at his shots using the before pics compared to his artistic manipulation.  If you (and I know you do) look closely it's quite easy to see how heavy a girl really is.  
   
 Nothing wrong with taking out tattoos and such...but chopping off the 30+ pounds leads to reviews like Tiffany is whining about.  The truth does hurt.  
   
   
Posted By: Back_In_Black
Chubby girls usually do .....do you know Jenny Craig ? Perhaps you 2 can get acquainted and your problems will melt away ...xoxo.......;)  
     
Posted By: TiffanyBerkshire
I suppose I made a mistake in using my bad review as an example, and my apologies. I was not trying to attack reviews, aliases, or anyone for that matter. It was meant to shine a positive light on providers as human beings with feelings.    
       
   There was no 'read between the lines' to my post. It was not to try and defend myself. I wrote this post and posted it under my stage name knowing full well the repercussions and the damage it COULD do.    
       
   I'd like to say I wished to give it the benefit of the doubt, in hopes that it would get a positive response. Rather than the negative one that it did. I am not going to dignify the negativity and lash out, as many of you are probably expecting.    
       
   One of the first things I said was, "this hobby has been a LEARNING EXPERIENCE". I'll bet not a single one of you entered the hobby knowing everything you do about it now. Everyone's view is different.    
       
   Thank you again for your input and reading my post.
-- Modified on 3/18/2014 3:32:27 PM

bonordonor 1606 reads
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Cosette 1314 reads
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pineknot 1782 reads
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All I ask for is your photos are a good representation of your current looks and your service is to the best of your ability due to the circumstances at the time (johns,looks,attitude,etc.). I think scores then will truly reflect upon you as a provider.

Dr Who revived 2039 reads
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And there are some really good ones out there.

Aldo's work is little more than folly form anyone who has looked at his work for any length of time.

I just went through nearly 100 pics with a gal who used Aldo...and there was some good work there.  Then Aldo did his "magic" and distorted what otherwise would have been a very nice shoot.  Fortunately this particular gal couldn't live with his nonsense and used basically untouched shots...which in her case are quite accurate depictions of who will open the door.

But too many gals let Aldo knock off so much to make them appear thin...and when that door opens up..well, Tiffany's thread says it all.

And the funny part is that if they used untouched shots they would have just as much interest as there are guys for every type of gal here.
Posted By: TaylorSteele
real to life so the criticism cannot come, at least my interpretation and for that reason I decided from day one to never get professional photos done. I don't look like a barbie doll in person, and I certainly don't want a barbie doll persona. With me, what you see is what you get. Period. But in the same breath, personal photos can still be represented in a beautiful manner if taken the time to do so...it's a helluva lot more work taking on that task but the point is...you are in control of your own domain. And that's what I like. I don't need my photos in a some photographer's hands, at least not photos from here ;)  
   
 Everything 'in house' works for me...at least in this world.  

-- Modified on 3/18/2014 12:18:40 PM

Pimpathy 1278 reads
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Relation, or no relation. :-D

Cosette 1554 reads
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94 / 129

Looking perfect and being agreeable 100% of the time isn't what I want to strive for (it's exhausting), but there's a place for everyone...

HeathersLuv4u See my TER Reviews 1984 reads
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that's exactly what I'd do if the photos were not a fair representation.

Photo shop wander created to coerce/manipulate.
It is what it is.  

I say, toss up a selfie and lets see if the reviews is correct.

Nonetheless, reviews are meant for this very reason. Sure there's some shitbag clients but apparently there's some shitbag gals too.  

Keep it real or go home. Aint nobody got the time or money to be fucking w someone feelings.
We all have to play fair

inicky46 61 Reviews 1220 reads
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Now, there's not a damn thing wrong with fucking for money.  But just because you've got a Mom and a sister doesn't mean you don't get to call it like you see it in a review other guys will be guided by.
And it doesn't mean "they have problems with women."  It's clear you're the one with "female trouble." You have some pressing need to try to ingratiate yourself with them so they'll think you're a "nice guy."   But they actually think you're a putz.

anonymousfun 6 Reviews 1682 reads
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as long as reviews are a currency for VIP. El cheapos will use it get free VIP. Only recourse you have is to contact admin and get it removed. May or may not work all the time.

When a review written  more like a screen play for porn, you can pretty much assured it is fake

Back_In_Black 1635 reads
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About how some girls try to get an edge on other ladies by using fake or false photos .....then they discount themselves when the guy bitches a bit , he throws a descent review and she does it again the following week ...often they knot a hundred or so off and give some extra time .....its bullshit ..until they get the 1 guy who says no way and writes the TRUTH !!!!!! .......KNOW U STAY SWEET OKAY XOXOXOXO.......;)........BIB

Posted By: HeathersLuv4u
that's exactly what I'd do if the photos were not a fair representation.  
   
 Photo shop wander created to coerce/manipulate.  
 It is what it is.  
   
 I say, toss up a selfie and lets see if the reviews is correct.  
   
 Nonetheless, reviews are meant for this very reason. Sure there's some shitbag clients but apparently there's some shitbag gals too.  
   
 Keep it real or go home. Aint nobody got the time or money to be fucking w someone feelings.  
 We all have to play fair.  
   
 

0603450onThe 2129 reads
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guru myself, but I don't use it lol except to hide what will clearly and distinctly give me away. I don't think it's 'magic' and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to photoshop any photo out there, just a lil computer knowledge and 1k to buy the program or pirate it ;)

I could show you a basic photo of me like I post regularly and a super airbrushed photoshop image like Aldo's and you'd be like HUH? WHAT? LOL...and I'd say, yep, told ya so, but no thank you. I'd look 20years younger, don't want to look thinner, and my skin would be absolutely flawless, which I have nice skin but not 'airbrushed' skin LOL.  

Bottomline it's misrepresentation in this biz in my opinion no matter how glammed up or pretty they look. And they do look beautiful don't get me wrong. But we aren't cover models of Vogue selling magazines at the checkout counter. The 'models' of that world and this world are two different kinds models. If you believe those gals look like that in real life too, you are f'n kidding yourself LOL.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1964 reads
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If he saw you, though, I'm gonna' be nervous! LOL. You're so gorgeous! :D

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1851 reads
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She's got a point about the chemistry thing. It happens and it's a risk we all take. Looks and chemistry are different things.

inicky46 61 Reviews 920 reads
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Dave76015 38 Reviews 1516 reads
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Yes, it would be wonderful if folks were nice to each other, especially in this realm.
And it would be great if there weren't fake reviews, or BS that goes on on both sides of the fence regarding them.  Guys threatening crappy reviews, or Women threatening black listing if they don't 10's.

If I look at someone's scores, and see some outlier reviews (high and low), I'm going to look at the source of the review to determine if it's a valid post or crap review one way or the other.  I'm going to make my own decision and if the photos on your website are a fair representation, then the attitude I walk in with is going to reflect on the the attitude that you give back to me.  Personally, I prefer to roll with kindness and respect.    

Aliases and anonymity are ingredients for amplifying hatred and rudeness since the first message boards rolled up on a 9600 baud modem.  Nothing is going to change that.  Flamers will still flame.  

My opinion is that life is too damn short.  Don't be an asshole.  Learn and grow to a better person.  Going back to your first review to the current ones, I'd say you've done that.  Just don't let the assholes get you down, because you are the only one that can allow them to do it

User1994 23 Reviews 1207 reads
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Your probably referring to that review where they guy called you a borderline BBW but your last 2 reviews are a 10/10 and a 9/10. My pants are tenting and I am debating a trip to Denver. Things can't be that bad. But I do share your contempt for guys who give girls poor scores for service because they didn't like some aspect of her looks. It is so babyish and hurts a girl who clearly went out of her way to rock his world. I won't stand for it!

Dr Who revived 1755 reads
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Given what I now know about you...you are a bold faced liar!

Your main career....what a joke.  You are stuck in this world and are pissed that some dudes called you out for being overweight based on YOUR pictures.

Offer still stands...care to follow through or make more lame attempts at the fine art of bullshit?  BTW...you suck at that fine art of bullshit...based on the photoshopped pics and your lame behind the scenes bullshit.

Good news...you still have RodT buying your crap.  Hope that helps  LOL
Posted By: TiffanyBerkshire
Once again, I wasn't here to defend myself.  
   
 My main career is in an industry where appearances are extremely important. People come to me because their self esteem is beat down, or they've been bullied or picked on. THAT is where the inspiration for this post came from. NOT from my reviews. Just to make it clear.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 1667 reads
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the "whole truth".  Others have offered true comments as well.

Reviews of providers are merely opinions of the reviewers.  Guys should read more than one review of any provider they plan to see to get an overall opinion of what they might experience.  Guys can see photos to determine if they want to see a lady.

In the real world, newspapers contain reviews of restaurants written by professional writers.  Very few hobbyists are professional writers.  We often go or don't to a restaurant based on the reviews we read.  We also consider comments from friends who have been to a particular restaurant.  Guys PM each other to get intel not found in reviews.  Is there a pattern here?

VOO-doo 1035 reads
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Well, not sub-300, but I concur.  

I think you have a strange conception of 'high' end providers (speaking to Cosette now)...pressure to be what or do what, exactly? I was a $3-4 girl and felt more pressure in those days due to general lack of consideration/realistic attitude on the part of my clients.  

The one thing that's majorly changed is my ATTITUDE. And that's because I'm treated better, and work in more optimal conditions. Here's an analogy to retail. When you work at Walmart...you're expected to be everywhere at one time, do everything, to a completely unrealistic degree. You have a short unpaid break and not one second more. You have thousands customers, who are rude, who don't respect your space and think nothing of trashing it. Working at the Gucci store - you are expected to fulfill a higher (more personal) level of service, and dress better. BUT, your working conditions are a ton better and the customers are actually polite. They don't pull apart shelves and leave stuff lying around. You get longer breaks and the lunchroom is nicer. So you grumble less and your job feels EASIER even as you're expected to fulfill higher service requirements...

But as far as 'services' I do nothing different now than I did then...OK, well, actually, I do less. In those days, I had incall stocked with candles/alcohol/shower, toys, wipes, massage oil, fake nails, AND hair extensions. Now, I have...none of that, except a few toys, and some candles I keep around in case I need to get a hotel.  

You're still the same provider whether you raise rates or not, so what do you define as 'high end' and why is it not for you? Is it the clothes or something? If you're a NY'er, you probably have appropriate attire already. You don't need Loubies. I'd never waste my money on that sh** either.  

I have ONE client left from my $3-4 days, and I really honestly dislike seeing him. He's very fond of me...I tried to cut him off before, and he was crushed. So I just can't bring myself to do it. He's the hardest client for me to see. He's in Time Out right now because he is putting too much *pressure* on me to do things I don't wanna do, no way, no how. He feels entitled...homeboy needs to get his money's worth, I guess. All $400 of it.

-- Modified on 3/18/2014 6:21:47 PM

breannabreeze See my TER Reviews 1505 reads
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I knew it was fake from the moment I read it.  The guy said I met him at the elevators and my room was filled with smoke and trash.  Say what?  I've never met a client at an elevator and I sure as hell have never gotten a smoking room, not to mention I always made sure it was clean before someone came over.  Luckily I PM'd the guy and he admitted he couldn't remember who he saw so he picked a random provider to post a review under.  He took it down without me having to say anything to TER.  Besides that, I don't know how many times I've pissed someone I haven't even met yet and he threatened me with a bad review.  Other providers have had similar issues.  If TER had a review verification process, much like with P411 and the oks, it would weed out a lot of bad reviews.  All the client would do is write a short summary of the meeting and how she would remember him without revealing details of the review and she could OK it before the review was published.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 950 reads
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You're spot on. Way less sex at the higher rates. It's kinda weird, but I've noticed the guys seem to want the mental stimulation with the sex.  

I was just analyzing this in my head today. :D

breannabreeze See my TER Reviews 1633 reads
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And do away with "baby fat."  This is the stupidest body category I've ever seen and people put providers under this for having anything from having a curvy figure to being a complete apple.  Dating sites have better ranges for body types.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 894 reads
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cuntluver 1641 reads
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Hard to mess that up in such a short post. That's the beauty of posts. You DON'T have to read them. Lol.

Posted By: TaylorSteele
blah blah blah blah blah blah. Please book me. blah blah.

cuntluver 1645 reads
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of what you should have written...  

Posted By: TaylorSteele

Anyone out there willing to give me a shot this time around?
I promise 50% fewer train wrecks and posts RAPped!

Jstgttnstrtd 18 Reviews 1551 reads
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as that is part of the whole experience.
The best can create the illusion of this, even if they don't really feel it.
Hell, I do this in my job every day (pretend I like people and think they are interesting).

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 1759 reads
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I've gotten maybe 4 or 5 total and have been successful in getting all but one removed. The scores on the fake one are great and all, but the description of the date sounds NOTHING like me. And, of course, the creepy twat that wrote it insists that he saw me, yet can't even get basic details right. It sucks, it creeps me out, and I don't want people getting the wrong impression that what he describes is typical with me. Shit like that can make a lady feel pretty damn violated.  

So to all of you fake review writers out there: you're either creepy or cheap and I bite my thumb at you.

89Springer 1849 reads
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Pardon me for asking, but how does biting YOUR thumb get back at the creeps? ;)

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 1586 reads
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Shakespearean insult. Timeless.  

Posted By: 89Springer
Pardon me for asking, but how does biting YOUR thumb get back at the creeps? ;)

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 1696 reads
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Every fake review I've received has contained high scores. In fact, the one that I wasn't able to have removed is a 9/10.  

Posted By: GaGambler
is the fact that there are more fake positive reviews, than fake negative ones.

and that is a direct result of free VIP for reviews. It's a lot easier to get a fake positive review through the approval process than to get a fake negative, especially when there are so many women just like Tiffany who scream like a stuck pig every time some one gives them a bit of criticism. Guys who simply want free VIP don't write negative reviews about providers they have never seen, they take the path of least resistance and simply go along with the flow.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 1609 reads
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Cosette 1199 reads
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1 to 2 standards of deviation away from the average...$200-$250 seems to be the average when you take more than TER into consideration. Higher end I would say is $500+ an hour. My concept of what that entails I guess is things like doing your hair specifically for the date, giving wardrobe requests, being in a prime location or willing to travel to reach another location, and being up for doing different scenarios with a complete stranger, so in order to be ok doing all those things, prices go up. That's great, but I would suck at that, and I'm not saying one way is better than the other, but I'll tell you that the way I've been doing it is completely fulfilling, guys who pay sub 300 are perfectly fine, just like I try to emphasize that women who are sub 300 are also perfectly fine (when they are legit), and I personally wish there was more of them.

I don't understand why people don't think I'm being treated well...out of my 21 reviews I firmly know 14 of them, out of the others 3 are definitely fake based on acts performed that I don't do, and the other 4 I don't really know, could be or couldn't be. I don't consider being given a 6 for looks as not being treated well.

I have no problem having sex with someone who has many responsibilities like family and financial commitments and therefore is on a budget, but is a good partner. It allows for more consistency, kind of like therapy. Dr. Cosette's office hours if you will :) I would get a PHD in sex therapy but I'm afraid that would mean I can't have sex with patients, and that defeats the purpose.

VOO-doo 710 reads
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I pretty much consider all of the former - doing hair, traveling, hosting, etc. - with the huge exception of expanding my menu (YMMV as always, more $ on the table will not make me do something I'm not comfortable with) - the bare minimum. I did all of the above (except menu expansion) when I was $350-400 and I did it when I was $600...and I still do it. So if you're not willing to do any of the above, then I guess then you are providing a significantly different type of service than most higher-end or mid-range girls...which is fine, as long as your clients are fine with it. Some clients will be totally cool with that, especially for a lower price. But some won't do their research, or will see you for the wrong reasons - price/convenience - and won't be happy. Like that reviewer you complained about.  

When I worked for an agency, I thought I was treated well. I had a different perspective, because when I first started working, my provider life was full of hassle. By well - I mean guys who will give me a few WEEKS notice before scheduling dates, who are respectful about my time/limits, who want to pleasure me, who respect my body, who pay me for every second they intend to stay, who are complimentary to me, who occasionally send me articles/books/music I enjoy listening to, who are just all-around great people. When I worked for an agency...some of those guys were nice, sure. But they just didn't have the same respect. They didn't see the time as special...or me. It was more about convenience. If I'd know about being independent then, I probably wouldn't have believed that such conditions as I work in now could exist.  

I never said you weren't being treated well, I just said that - compared to the way I'm treated now - cheaper clients treated ME like crap. They were so much more work, and more stress, and MUCH more disrespectful, for so much less money. But you did complain on the boards about a guy who saw you - TWICE - and then had the nerve to write an insulting review. I relate. I had the stooooopidest reviews when I was an agency girl...because guys saw me because I was cheap and convenient, and not because they'd researched what I had to offer and were interested by something I'd said.

If it works for you, fine. But three girls who've all been there, done that...are giving you the hard-earned knowledge gained from their own experiences.  
Posted By: Cosette
1 to 2 standards of deviation away from the average...$200-$250 seems to be the average when you take more than TER into consideration. Higher end I would say is $500+ an hour. My concept of what that entails I guess is things like doing your hair specifically for the date, giving wardrobe requests, being in a prime location or willing to travel to reach another location, and being up for doing different scenarios with a complete stranger, so in order to be ok doing all those things, prices go up. That's great, but I would suck at that, and I'm not saying one way is better than the other, but I'll tell you that the way I've been doing it is completely fulfilling, guys who pay sub 300 are perfectly fine, just like I try to emphasize that women who are sub 300 are also perfectly fine (when they are legit), and I personally wish there was more of them.  
   
 I don't understand why people don't think I'm being treated well...out of my 21 reviews I firmly know 14 of them, out of the others 3 are definitely fake based on acts performed that I don't do, and the other 4 I don't really know, could be or couldn't be. I don't consider being given a 6 for looks as not being treated well.  
   
 I have no problem having sex with someone who has many responsibilities like family and financial commitments and therefore is on a budget, but is a good partner. It allows for more consistency, kind of like therapy. Dr. Cosette's office hours if you will :) I would get a PHD in sex therapy but I'm afraid that would mean I can't have sex with patients, and that defeats the purpose.

HeathersLuv4u See my TER Reviews 1682 reads
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for me not making bank. If he's not lying, that's on you to make sure you do what you need I do to get where you need to be.

Back_In_Black 1727 reads
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A gym would do her good . Shes just lazy and thinking those Aldo pics will help her is stupid ! She doesn't get it heather but we do xoxoxo ..;).....and your body rocks great selfies nothing like a woman who takes care of herself ..;..

Posted By: HeathersLuv4u
for me not making bank. If he's not lying, that's on you to make sure you do what you need I do to get where you need to be.

HeathersLuv4u See my TER Reviews 1691 reads
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Thank you very kindly..;-)
This practice of over photo shopping has jaded many fellas...and rightly so. THIS affects me and I don't appreciate jaded dudes giving me an attitude n hard time. I keep it honest and a "solid provider" ...over time, a ladies character and integrity will either make her or break her. Guys spend a lot of money and Imma bring my best game to every date...that's fair.  
I'm glad you guys get it cuz I wondered. I'm like "WTF" half her ass is gone..huh"  
That's why I put up a selfie page on my website last week so guys will feel more comfie.  
Imma come to NYC n toss few back wif u, k

Cosette 867 reads
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It's a work in progress, at the very least I'm very thankful that my agency experience was literally one day, and I can't say I've had negative experiences to my face, or that I've ever felt unsafe.

I do seriously want to move more into a therapy kind of thing, been researching it in San Francisco, so I guess I base my price on that as well, what a therapist makes in an hour.

HooktardGold 1806 reads
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Then, you are not accounting for true chemistry, but ACTING which is exactly what I said. Some of the guys around here need to find a dating site, vs. a hooker board.  

Posted By: Jstgttnstrtd
as that is part of the whole experience.  
 The best can create the illusion of this, even if they don't really feel it.  
 Hell, I do this in my job every day (pretend I like people and think they are interesting).

FoxyNC See my TER Reviews 1246 reads
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I haven't been up here a year yet.  
I had one OLDER pic (pre-motherhood) up, when I actually had a 4 pack, I wisely took it out after a guy reviewed me on another site & mentioned the discrepancy.

Which is RIGHT.

I didn't bitch, piss, or moan.

I bought a new sexy thing to put on, took some more selfies, replacing the older ones.
I don't advertise what is NOT true.

Guys have a right to be jaded over "false pictures" (a bit deceptive, right?)  
Just as bad as a fake review.

And it's just idiotic to not think guys won't notice in one picture a flat stomach, yet in another laying down the "jelly roll" that is hanging there. Not saying YOU or I- but I did some snoopery a bit ago- and could not help  but notice...

It's just TOO obvious, and too obvious when chicks get caught up doing such foul business practice.

Don't take a picture of your pristine car when it was new, to sell when it is old.

Caveat Emptor.
 
Posted By: HeathersLuv4u

 This practice of over photo shopping has jaded many fellas...and rightly so. THIS affects me and I don't appreciate jaded dudes giving me an attitude n hard time. I keep it honest and a "solid provider" ...over time, a ladies character and integrity will either make her or break her. Guys spend a lot of money and Imma bring my best game to every date...that's fair.  
 I'm glad you guys get it cuz I wondered. I'm like "WTF" half her ass is gone..huh"  
 That's why I put up a selfie page on my website last week so guys will feel more comfie.  
 

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