Is it because you are intimidated by young beauties? Are you concerned that you would be perceived as a real pervert by your peers?
I guess I don't understand why a guy will see a provider his own age and skip over the young hot  providers.
Maybe when I am 60 I will get it.

Hot young bodies are nice but the younger women are often about the mechanics of sex instead of the sensuality.  Also, a more mature woman is more likely to connect with a mature man whereas a young woman is less likely to connect with a mature man.

There are exceptions, of course.

I like a woman who is 10-15 years younger than me (I'm in my early 50's) and although the young, 20-something bodies are nice, the women who are in their 30-40's have beautiful bodies too.  The mature ladies also have minds that I can relate too much easier and they can relate to me much easier too.

I am 63 and only see women 50 and older.  I find them more attractive and sensual.  Plus, at the end of the day, what am I going to talk about with a 25 yr. old?  I just find it easier to connect to mature women on all levels.

They're afraid of what a beautiful young girl will say about their dunlap gut hanging over their belt. Their concerned about their ears having more hair in them than on top of their heads. They're hesitant because they omit body odors not acceptable by even $2 crack whores. A thick wallet can't purchase self-esteem.

Because many of the young hot providers don't have a clue

are what make the difference between great and mediocre experiences (with a dash of "chemistry" thrown in.

I have met 20 somethings who had the experience and aptitude.

I have met "MILFs" that did not have a clue. Many of them are coming into the biz due to the exigencies of the economy. I have met 30 somethings that did not know how to put on a condom or what "cowgirl" meant lol.

The stereotype that "MILFs" are more "sensual" is bunk. It is a matter of experience and attitude.

Very interesting indeed.

Your mom's prices are so low haha,

Seriously, if I see someone's gran, she better be paying me.

Let's say you achieve your goal and change every man's mind who prefer MILF's.  You'll just see a rise in pricepoint as you achieve your goal.  Pricing yourself right out of play.

As you grow a good set of pubes, you'll probably gain the experience to realize your challenge to change others is self defeating.

The guy LOVES milfs. But some of them are pretty expensive.

He believes that if he gets lots of hobbyists to go for the younger set, the price of the milfs he adores will drop; allowing him to hobby more.

Amen, Brother!!

-- Modified on 6/25/2010 1:29:43 PM

I was also throwing around the theory that some men are intimaded by older women, thus the disdane and futile attempt to demean those with a preference for mature women.  

I can easily see if I was looking for a male escort how I'd question whether I'd feel intimidated by a mature male companion.  

He'd give me a run for my money, I'm sure.  No-one wants to feel intimidated...

I know it isn't the hottness factor.  I've met some very sexy milf's.  I do love the sight of youth as well.  And, I'm not intimidated by youth.  Just feel a bit pervy when with someone younger.

Recently, I realized that I am finally starting to feel like I no longer want to live in a utopia, where everyone is just like me.

It makes you feel reassured about your own identity, when you see people who have the same preferences, choices, lifestyles, tastes, and beliefs that you have.

However, in order for a person to "be themself", there must be different people surrounding that person!  Your identity is meaningless without the existence of different people, who are separate from you.  

Have you heard of this?  This graph is supposed to show the cultural unspoken rule about age disparity in sexual relationships.

As a general rule, a lot of people say that it will be socially unacceptable to most other people, if they see a couple together, and the age difference is larger than "half the age of the older partner" - "plus seven years."

If you are a 20 year old person, your sexual aperture (and "what is acceptable to your peers") is for you to date someone who is between ages 17 to 25.  However, if you are 50, it will be socially acceptable for you to date a person, who is aged 32 or older (no upper limit.)

Even though this is not scientifically proven or anything, I think it's a good rule of thumb to go by.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Half-age-plus-seven-relationship-rule.svg

Here's a link to a list of "top ten beautiful women over age 40":  
http://thatssofetch.com/2009/04/top-10-hottest-women-over-40/

I have met a lot of sex workers in the seven years I've been working as an escort and a dancer...  I've met HUNDREDS AND HUNDREDS of different escorts and strippers, in my tenure here.

I have noticed that the most popular (and successful) MILF type of escorts tend to have classic beauty - beautiful face and curvy, fit figures.  They were STUNNING in their 20's, and their beauty, while fading slowly, is hardly gone.  If you start out STUNNING in your 20's, you will still be VERY BEAUTIFUL in your 40's and 50's, if lifestyle and genetics are on that woman's side.  I have met some MILF providers, who were twenty years older than me and still looked better than I do.  That is what type of MILF escort tends to be most successful on TER, I think.

Also, there are unattractive escorts on TER, who are younger.  Just do a search for women aged 18 to 25.  Limit the appearance scores to 1 to 3.  You will find a list of TER's ugliest young escorts!  In contrast, do a search on TER for women over age 40 with 9 to 10 appearance ratings, and you'll find the opposite end of the age/beauty spectrum.

MILF escorts are highly desired for their experience, intelligence, wisdom (yes), and self assurance.  I have worked with older and younger escorts (doing doubles), and yes, the best MILF escorts do bring an extra level of expertise into the session.  

Plus, a lot of older clients (by the way, older clients are the richest clients, usually) like feeling "reassured about their own identity", when they are with a MILF escort.  They like being with an older escort from their own generation, just like you want a younger escort because you are young, too.  Big age differences can be alienating for a lot of people.  There are a lot of people in this world who prefer having sexual partners that reflect their own values.  (Think about escort ads on TER that are for "classy VIP escorts.  They are trying to appeal to wealthy men, who prefer having sex with women, who are similar to themselves.)

Does this make sense?

One last thing, I have traveled all over the USA repeatedly.  I have noticed that women (of all ages) tend to invest in their beauty regimes more intensely in coastal metropolitan cities, like NYC and LA.  I see the most beautiful women in the world ALL DAY LONG in in NYC.  The OLD WOMEN (older than MILF) in NYC still get dolled up, and a lot of them have had plastic surgery.  There are a lot of BEAUTIFUL, STYLISH, AND COOL OLD WOMEN in NYC.  You really don't see these types of women in middle America as much (because middle America women don't have as much interest in fashion as women in NYC do), but I KNOW that it is possible to be drop dead gorgeous at any age.  I've seen it with my own eyes.

A lot of more mature ladies work very hard to maintain their appearance -- they work out at the gym and all kinds of stuff. In terms of sheer physical fitness, they can put some younger ladies to shame.

Now, if I'm a 40 year old guy and morbidly obese (I'm not, but just pretend), that older lady is more intimidating. That's because it is easy for me to justify the differential in condition with a 21 year old; but a lot harder for me to justify it with a 45 year old.

In addition, that older lady has seen a lot more of the world -- and of men. She knows every trick in the book and has generally seen it all before. She is a LOT harder to impress, and much more likely to have a finely-honed bullshit detector.

Of course, none of that bothers me. I have actually booked women who will tell me I am wrong about something and explained their point of view. I absolutely love dealing with a woman I can consider an equal; and who I know is seeing me by choice.

And guess what? Most often (though not always) such women are Milfs.

I think this whole "escorts in their 20's are the best" mentality must only be about white escorts, anyway, right?

Because Asian and Black women age very slowly.

I am half Asian, and I have looked the same for the last ten years.  By the way, people guess my age as being about seven years less than my real age.  That is how it always goes.  Nobody has ever guessed my age as being more than it really is.  Only one person has ever guessed my actual age and guessed correctly.

When I was in my early 20's, I literally looked like I was in middle school.

I definitely look hotter now than I looked ten years ago.

Though I like seeing the younger gals too.

but I wish the world were such where such things have to be considered.

He's probably just a momma's boy, and this is his only venue to express his hostility toward women, originating from his Oedipus Complex

You have no idea what was going through my head when I made the post.
Some of you social misfits think you know it all, but you are just as clueless as the next mangina.

I'm not intimidated by any of the women that I've seen, read about or followed here on TER. There are enough ages, sizes, shapes and abilities to fit any preferences of the client -- IF he's smart enough and sufficiently motivated to perform his due diligence in research.

My preference for seeing women early- to mid-30's and up are based on the simple fact that I'm more comfortable seeing a woman who is a bit older than my daughter (currently 29). It's just a bit creepy for me to see someone younger than my daughter -- simple personal preference.

Some of us stay in pretty good shape and look young for our age. But then again, the hobby is based purely on what turns an individual on, and I know I prefer men who don't f_ck like bunny rabbits. That's not a turn on in the slightest manner.

Hugs,
Ciara

There's room for everyone, people.  Let's just get along.

that's probably why they don't see providers your age cuz it's takes you so long to figure out things like when your sixty

not sure if you are a guy or a gal but maybe check out some of the reviews for the MILF's and maybe you'll figure it out today and then you'll be so proud of yourself that you don't have to wait so long


There are a ton of younger gents that really love seeing the MILF's, the granny part of your post really shows your immaturity

....IF they take care of themselves!

That is why we are not robots following the same thing. If everyone liked the same thing then only __________ (fill in the blank, blonde, brunette, etc...) would be getting all the business. Don't put anyone down for their choice, because it is THEIR CHOICE! Variety is the spice of life. I find as I get older, my tastes get older with me. With age comes wisdom and many of the women out there are great fun to talk to, I am not saying that younger women are not interesting, they are, but for different reasons. Women near my age share a lot of the same history I do which I find makes conversation more fun for ME. The old joke about Paul Mccartny was with a band before Wings doesn't work ant more, now the Girl says "Who are Wings, and who is Paul?"

Jack you dont know shitt!!

...in this hobby, and to me, sir, that is the beauty of it!

And btw...if "granny" is out there still having fun making men smile, then more power to her!

Years ago, I would joke about doing "this," but at thirty something, I thought the opportunity had already past me by.  Fast forward to last summer, and a friend I only know online starting in the "biz."  I was amazed!  This friend is a BBW, in her mid forties and never wears a speck of make up. But she has some "skills" and a personality that the guys just love. I listened to her stories, started doing my research, and a whole new world was suddenly opened up to me!  

I always say: I used to think if a man, no matter what his age, had enough $$ to hobby he would automatically want 21-year old Barbie.  I was amazed that this was not always the case. Well, I should say pleasantly surprised, because look at me now, lol.

The point is there is someone out there for everyone.  Younger isn't better. Older isn't better.  Even fit and trim isn't better if that is not a particular guy's priority. Some don't like skinny.  Same goes for ethnicity, hair color, and other personal preferences.

I am also sure there are some younger providers who are more mature and experienced, and who offer the GFE. Also, there are some older providers who aren't interested in the GFE and offer and focus on sex only.  Exceptions to every rule? Definitely.  

I prefer to see guys 40+.  I have lowered this guideline for a few, but that is my preference.

And isn't it wonderful that there is such a wide spectrum of wonderful, beautiful, women of ALL ages?  Isn't it a positive aspect of the hobby that there IS someone for everyone?  At least you guys get to choose who you will see and not see. We have that option to some degree, but we cannot afford to be quite as picky as you can.

I mean, what if I only saw guys who are in between the ages of 30 and 35 and who look like Brad Pitt?  I probably wouldn't have much business, lol

This subject has been beat to death, and the consensus is always the same.  Personal preferences and someone for everyone. Would you really want it any other way?

Right on

Nice try.

Thats called maturity

Good Post Kim.I will add..Everyone gets old.I hope I do....modified.. I meant to say I hope I get much older..
Its rude and totally unnecessary to put anyone down because we don't prefer them.

I couldn't agree more. I think it has to do with the beauty of the skin. I know an LA provider that just turned 40 and she easily passes for being in her mid twenties. Ciao!

I realized in my late 20's I was attracted to Milfs. I am now in my late 40's and have yet to experience the mid life crisis of wanting to be with yong women. Young women are indecisive, self centered, and don't know what pleases them, let alone someone else. As far as physical beauty, Something about the lines around a womans eyes when she smiles is a huge turn for me. It's also been my experience that older women have learned to keep themselves clean. They are also more open, and receptive to sexual variety. If I do see younger providers, it's always asian women. Maybe it's just the shallow, vaccuous attitudes of young American women that are such a turn off to me.

Do you mean you no longer want to be different, just like everyone else?

Preference is preference. If they are all adults you can't make someone feel bad for what turns them on.  There are guys who only like dark skin black chicks or only asians or only blondes or only really bony chicks.... w/e turns on them on so what. lol

the experience...enjoying the mutual pleasures that we each bring together. I know for myself I take advantage of every orgasm I can get and I know that's bringing much pleasure to you as well
It's all good or it should be for both no matter what age you are..Everyone has likes and dislikes, fantasies and fetishes..hey all you youngies will there soon enough.

all need love and a good roll in the hay

xoxox
Terri

to come see me and I am sure you hear it all the time too...

"I will never go with a young provider as they don't know what they are doing and older women are more confident without being full of themselves"

Also...agreed immaturity on his or her end...whoever that maybe...

They'll tell you it's about experience and being able to converse intelligently, but I ain't buying it. Not putting down the more mature providers, but I think it's like the reason guys go with a bbw.... they tell you it's their preference, but if a thinner girl gave them the time of day, I doubt they'd be saying no.

Again, nothing wrong with older women. Nothing wrong with bigger girls. Just calling the guys out on their bullshit.