Newbies take it from an "Oldie: Don't EVER stick to one provider and call her your ATF. Keep at least 4 or 5 ATF's and rotate between each of them, so if one or two of your ATF's start misbehaving or taking you for granted, you can replace 'em with new ATF's.

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Play the numbers and keep the list fresh. Having an ATF is a crutch for having a pay GF. While its easy to form attachments, none of them will give you anything tangible. Spread it around and have fun. Why let someone call you TIM (short for ATM)?

Agree having 4 or 5 reliable providers on speed dial but 4 or 5 "ATF"s seems a stretch of the term.  

By the way, the lady right beneath your post is nice to have on that short list.

The stories we see repeatedly on these boards about "I've fallen for a provider and I can't get up" are routinely from those who did not have enough experience under their belt to play the game at the "ATF" level.

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They can't ALL be ATFs or can they...hmmm

Wish I'd taken that advice myself GTM. I've only seen four providers and see one almost exclusively. Now I'm in a bit of a quandry about developing feelings for her. I know, I know, not a good idea. I am starting to spread myself around a bit more now and am seriously debating whether I should ever see her again. I'm leaning towards probably not.

This is good advice for all you other newbies who happen across this thread.

Enjoy! WIT

4+ years is probably too long to hang around anyone, especially a provider, the jadedness  with the business, and it's probably now time to move on.

Here's my beef with her.....

*****She calls and tells me she's available, I call back and leave a message and she calls a week or so later.

*****I recently scheduled a time to meet my ATF, approximately 45 minutes before our scheduled session, she called to ask me if we could meet an hour or so after our original scheduled time. Apparently her friend, a provider, was using her room and was running late(client arrived late). I was ticked off but I grudgingly agreed, she told me she knew I would understand.

******A month or so earlier on another date we both agreed to meet at 12 noon, however unbeknown to me she had scheduled a 2 hr session for 10AM with someone else. Apparently the guy showed up 30-45minutes late and  wanted his full 2 hrs so I was left waiting for 30-45 minutes in the hotel parking lot. I guess she assumed wrongly that the guy would be done in less than 2hrs. I almost decided to leave.

*****I've never understood her haste in getting up after the "main act", some gals lay with you and  cuddle for a short while, as long as you still have money in the clock. She does not even make an attempt to help clean me up after the act.

All your comments are appreciated.....
Thanks

I have gone nearly exclusive & real feelings devoluped...  feeling that might have gone somewhere if we had met under different circumstances.   I'm not free.  Unless (God Forbid) there is some tragidy, there is no where for those feelings to go.   I took quite a long break from seeing her...  I didn't plan on ever going back.   Well, I have seen her again, but only in a rotation of Favorite Ladies.  

Oh YES, if you become a regular...  sometimes a provider
A)  takes you for granted    
B)  takes short cuts  

I'm not iinterested in carving notches on my 6 guns, or bed posts as it were, but I DO add in Potential Favs from time to time...  some have become Favs, others not...    Right now I have 3 Favs on my list & I'm thinking about 2-3 possibles for the near future.   Here on TER, I have 3 pages in my favorites list...  which I use to narrow down the list of interesting options.
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seeing A single provider is fine for a time.  Sooner or later she will retire, move, get busted, quit the business, etc.  and you will be out looking for a new playmate.  
Besides half the fun is seeing a variety of women.  If I was happy to only see one woman, I would only be seeing my wife.  When we were newlyweds I was seeing providers when I could.

[b]As u put it, u r being taken for granted. "I can jus call him back whenevah" SO u shud do the same.[/b][b]u r being taken for granted. "Apparently her friend..." Yeah, right? mb she found an appointment for then and jus rescheduled u for later not wanting to miss the NEW appt. READ get two appts (in total) by delayin urs.[/b][b]u r being taken for granted. U shoulda left. She shoulda at least informed u to show up later. Why should she assume tht a guy tht paid for 2 hrs wud jus leave early??  "Apparently..." mb jus nother excuse to delay u. Possibly UNTRUE? bout 2 hr session and jus said that to delay u in order to take OTHER (mb multiple) appts. "He likes me, he'll wait."[/b][b]If u r unsatisfied wit tht, y is she ur ATF??

k, so those r my reactions.[/b]