Hi All,
This is a two part post. One is a question. Other is a warning.Let's start with the warning. I recently sent screening info to four different providers, all with reviews. Two had recent reviews. One had a review in October of 2023, (4 total reviews) and the fourth escort had her last review in 2021 (but 5 pages worth). All four of these escorts asked for an ID (blurred address, lic number, etc), work ID, or LinkedIn, and RS2k info. I went ahead and sent them the info, based on the fact that they were all reviewed. Well, it back fired on me with one of the "escorts," as it was a scam and they wrote back to me trying to black mail me. The escort's name was Jessie Harper. She was the one with 4 total reviews, and the last one was in October of 2023. They basically text me a screen shot of my screening form back to me, along with my ID picture, a screen shot of "relatives" they googled of mine, and a link to my LinkedIn. They were asking for a ransom in the thousands, or else they would send everything they text me, to my LinkedIn contacts, my work, and to all my relatives. I simply ignored the text, put my LinkedIn into hibernation, called my HR team, (got a new license) and told them that my wallet and phone was stolen, and the thieves were trying to black mail me with fake screen shots of prostitution solicitation. I went ahead and sent them a copy of my new license. HR was understanding, and offered me free subscription to identity protection software, and told they would ignore any kind of messages received about me. Furthermore, the "relatives" these idiots googled, were all in-correct. My presence on social media is NIL, and there isn't much about me to be googled correctly. I don't have any kids, or wife. The only name on that "relative" list that was correct was my brother. I basically went and told him what's happening. He mongers with me around the world. (German Fkk clubs, to Medellin La mansion, Tijuana, Montreal, Prague) you name it, we have been there mongering together. He thought it was hilarious and told me to be more careful. Either way, I ignored them, and nothing came of it. Those idiots never contacted me again. No one heard from them they were threatening to tell, or that I know of. I sent this info to TER admin's. They immediately removed Jessie Harpers review page off TER. I also sent the info to to Foxy's List where I originally saw her add. They also emailed me back that they had removed her from their site, and all links that lead to her ad. I wanted to advise everyone to be careful out there. I have since hired a service to remove all traces of my identity from the web. That brings me to my question. The other escort that got back to me and gave me an all clear on the screening, is Adora Diamond. She has five pages of excellent reviews. However, the last review that was left on her was in March of 2021. I have an appointment booked already with her. The email she communicated with was the same as on her review page, and website. That's why I sent her my info. Yet, I am a still concerned. I saw her add on Eros. And the fact that an escort with such great reviews in the past all of a sudden has none for the last 2 years is a bit peculiar, and concerning for me. Specially since I just went through that black mail ordeal. Therefore, I am a bit paranoid. Can anyone make me feel a bit more comfortable about this appointment? Has anyone seen her recently? Or can point me in the direction of any current reviews? Any of her friends on here that can vouch for her? Either way I do intend on keeping that appointment. Hoping for the best here. Taking one for the team? Maybe? I guess? lol...not sure. If anyone has any info, please let me know! I really appreciate it everyone! Thanks!
As a rule I would never accept anything that is not recent, so it would have to be within the last 3-6 months. Someone who has not been active, since 2021 your taking a risk & you know that fact. Interested to see your outcome. Thanks for sharing. Your brother sounds, like a really good bro. 😎
have adopted a NO-Review policy, in which case, they are usually removed from TER when TER finds out. OTOH, many mongers (and many of the guys here admit it) don't write reviews of bad sessions. If they can't give her a positive review, they just don't review her at all. At the same time, she could have retired for a while and now she has come back. What I'm getting at is, when there are some red flags, you are taking a chance, but it also may turn out to exceed your expectations. With your hobby experience, I'm sure you have had disappointments before, and know it's just part of the biz. She's the real deal, so there could be an innocuous reason for the lapse in reviews. Take the adventure and see what you get.
When a provider haughtily states they have a "No Review Policy", I immediately conclude they do not want to be held accountable for service that would result in a sub-par review. It's hardly rocket science. Am I alone in this?
I have met one or two established providers with a solid client base who simply see no percentage in reviews. One, in fact, had her profile removed from TER.
99.9% of the time, I'll avoid a provider lacking a series of good, recent reviews and avoid those with "No Review Policies" like the plague.
Some women simply don't need reviews and more power to them. Reviews help my decision making of course but they are not the be all and end all. Many women had excellent reviews that I had read and then they left TER and other review sites before I had a chance to meet them so I would still see those women if the reviews in question were not too old.
The other option is if a guy I trust recommended a girl who had no reviews and I was attracted to her and she fit into my price range.
Good one!
Thanks!
I recent met a lady (that I told you about) who was wonderful. She told me she prefers to keep the details of our time together private (when I asked her about a review) and I respect her wishes. She does have a profile and reviews which is what led me to see her.
Many of the well-established ladies I've seen in the past have delisted. Many women who have an established reputation and have a base of regular clients don't care about reviews and get new clients by word-of-mouth, if they even have a need for new clients.
First of all, I rarely see a provider who has less than ten recent reviews, and that means a handful in the last few months! I also check those reviews to make sure most of the reviewers have multiple reviews, whether I am familiar with any of the reviewers, and if the reviews are good! On occasion I will go below the ten review floor on the advice of a trusted booker.
A few weeks ago a provider asked for a photo ID after I sent her some refs. I pm’ed three or four recent reviewers on her list, and none of them provided ID’s. They did have great things to say about their sessions with her! I told the provider I would not give photo ID, but I could give more refs or other info to identify myself. After some back and forth she approved me. I think she would have approved me sooner if I used P411, but I dropped that awhile ago. I did PM her on TER. I prefer not to do that, but I used my alias so no harm. The back and forth was also good for me to build confidence that she was legitimate. If I had seen red flags, I would have moved on! The good news is that I had a great session with her, and I will repeat!
determination, caution and negotiation can all co-exist in this biz. She was probably happy afterward that she was not as inflexible on screening requirements as some of the ladies here seem to be. She got a new customer.
How would anyone here know?
Hello Sir,
Since you're on this TER forum, querying to the masses, this suggests you're already
having a glimmer of doubt regarding the pursuance of said Provider, Adora Diamond.
Whilst ....
"She has five pages of excellent reviews."
( Generally speaking, this number of reviews should suffice for most persons seeking
her companionship imho )
"However, the last review that was left on her was in March of 2021."
( A great deal can transpire to incur a lapse in the course of a few years due to
many factors )::
Provider illness / Injury / Pregnancy / Transformative weight gain or loss / Divorce /
Marriage / Residency relocation / "Provider Burn-Out" ( Indeed, it's a real issue ) /
A self-imposed haitus / Career redirect
e.g. : Covid 2020 - 2021 even thereafter, throughout 2022, personally caused a significant,
devastating lapse in my business/reviews out of pure mutual fear.
If there's a preponderance of concern, your gut-feeling should be the primary consideration
in making this decision to meet her....
0r, to alay your anxiety, you could communicate your concerns to her and simply "query"? 😘
Whatever you decide, be safe, enjoy and go forth... life is really short!
Angєℓina Jonєs
You've always been a class act. You should post here more often.
@Coeur-de-lion
"Gracias, como eres!"
xo AJ
Well, not TOO old. Lol
First of all, thank you everyone for the replies! What a great a community that steps up to help each other out! I love it! All answers were thoughtful and very informative. Thank you all again! I do want to update everyone on my original post.
The problem solved itself. I replied to one of the emails and asked her why she didn't have reviews for 2 the last two years? I was clear that it's not an issue, and that I was more curious than anything else. She wrote back in an incoherent message, with terrible grammar that she was not happy with my question. I tried to make sense of it, and what i gathered wasn't happy with my question. She said she doesn't believe in reviews, and that we shouldn't trust anyone writing an email with a boner? I mean, I guess? I wrote back to her, trying to let her know I wasn't trying to offend her. I was merely curious. I apologized, and joking wrote back let's start over, and re-introduced myself. Hoping to get back in good graces. She immediately wrote back, that she will no longer be seeing me. LOL...What in the actual f&%$?????? What a crazy person. I did not reply, and left it at that. I won't be seeing her, and taking a risk with the doubt I had. Besides, most replies to my original post lean towards not taking a risk, if my spiddy senses are going off. Best to leave it alone. That's what I'm going to do. Sorry ya'll, I never did get a chance to take one for the team. Maybe next time. Good news is, I got a reply back from another stellar provider who is available for the same date and time I had booked with Adora Diamond. She has current, consistent, stellar reviews! And she's way hotter and younger anyway! I was psyched to get approved by her! Adora who??? lol. Thanks again for the advice everyone!