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DollyHaze 4705 reads
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To the clients on here who complain about providers being fat, wrinkly, old, saggy, ugly, smelly, stupid, rude, unprofessional, etc. and say things like "why are they all so fat, wrinkly, old, saggy, ugly, smelly, stupid, rude and/or unprofessional?" why bother with this? Seriously, why continue to "hobby" if you don't like the way providers look, smell or act? Are you all just gamblers who like the thrill of throwing down money, knowing that you'll probably lose in the end? Or are you all secret masochists who have a fetish for playing the victim? Or is it that this is the only way you can get any, and you refuse to go out of your comfort zone when it comes to price (while price doesn't have everything to do with it...Jenna Jameson ain't advertising on BP and she ain't showing up at your door for $250/hr)? If none of these apply to you and you find yourself saying or feeling these things on a regular basis...why not just stop? Obviously it's not what you wanted and not what you expected. So why not just save your money and find a new hobby...like whittling or model trains?

SinCitySinner 65 Reviews 1937 reads
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2 / 67

But there are some really good ones dude.!! In last 13 yrs in the hobby 10 on TER and 3 before TER, I have met some really good looking chics that I would never have the chance to bang it if were not for this profession..

No its not like walking in the Casino where 9/10 times you are going to lose (Although GaGambler would object to my statistics). Its more like walking into a Pussy Heaven. You just have to get good at doing the research, and stop trolling BP

-- Modified on 5/12/2014 3:27:12 PM

hbyist+truth=;( 1865 reads
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3 / 67

Posted By: DollyHaze
To the clients on here who complain about providers being fat, wrinkly, old, saggy, ugly, smelly, stupid, rude, unprofessional, etc. and say things like "why are they all so fat, wrinkly, old, saggy, ugly, smelly, stupid, rude and/or unprofessional?" why bother with this? Seriously, why continue to "hobby" if you don't like the way providers look, smell or act? Are you all just gamblers who like the thrill of throwing down money, knowing that you'll probably lose in the end? Or are you all secret masochists who have a fetish for playing the victim? Or is it that this is the only way you can get any, and you refuse to go out of your comfort zone when it comes to price (while price doesn't have everything to do with it...Jenna Jameson ain't advertising on BP and she ain't showing up at your door for $250/hr)? If none of these apply to you and you find yourself saying or feeling these things on a regular basis...why not just stop? Obviously it's not what you wanted and not what you expected. So why not just save your money and find a new hobby...like whittling or model trains?
The ones that do complain, while not 100% privy to the real reason and only can comment on what I surmise is that they resent paying, so to offset that resentment, why not criticize the object of what make one resentful?  

Geez the hookers see more fat, dirty, ugly, stupid than most mongers. At least the mongers get a chance to choose the fat, smelly stupid hookers. Hookers have to deal with whats on the other side of the door. And before some bright spark mentions the mongers are buying, I get that BUT the money we do get does not automatically turn you into Hotty McHotterson, it just gives you access to pussy.

2labman 26 Reviews 1345 reads
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4 / 67

they can.  Providers won't call them out on it because they don't want to start a flame war here and the woman haters on here know it.  I say woman haters and mean it.  I don't think it's a joke or just kidding, I think it is a massive lack of respect bordering on hate.  They'd rather sit at their computers all day and post derogatory comments about providers than do something productive.  They think that by putting someone else down that they elevate themselves.  They probably have been like that since they were children and never learned any better way to behave with other people.

Dr Who revived 1660 reads
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hbyist+truth=;( 1690 reads
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MHB emblazoned on the front. Friends ask what it means and I just grin.

You do realize my post was meant jokingly. Well at least the second paragraph.

GaGambler 1563 reads
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8 / 67

All I ever strive to be is "Not repulsive" which puts me in at least the top 10% of whore mongers.

and probably the top 5% of "hobbyists" lol

Dr Who revived 1361 reads
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9 / 67

And you think I was serious about giving away those t-shirts?

Actually I am serious...but only to those johns that are paying $ 1k+

The others aren't worthy of them..and will eat into the overall profits.

Can't have that happen...can we?  ;)
Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
MHB emblazoned on the front. Friends ask what it means and I just grin.  
   
 You do realize my post was meant jokingly. Well at least the second paragraph.

mongo19621954 23 Reviews 1749 reads
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10 / 67

It bothers me as well - gratuitous insults depress the general tone of the board.  I offer the following characterizations of why some guys post this stuff:

1. The drunk - The poster is drunk/under the influence.

2. The rug merchant - The poster believes that if he insults the product, it will be cheaper.  This is an age old tactic in bargaining - people have been buying rugs for millennia this way.  "I wouldn't let my dog cr*p on this POS - I'll give you $50".  Unfortunately, that model assumes that the rug has to be sold and that the seller is independent of the transaction.  Politeness aside, think about what would happen to steak prices if the butcher threw out the hamburger because no one ate it.....  Some of these trolls may be doing you a favor though I doubt that's what they have in mind...

3.  The troll - Good to get a rise out of the manginas/white knights on the board.  Sometimes they do squeal so entertainingly....  

PS - Nice rant...

MasterZen 33 Reviews 1567 reads
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11 / 67

There are hurt and damaged men. Maybe from failed relationships, perhaps from the lack of ever finding a relationship; maybe a job lost to a woman, who knows? Central to this hurt or damage are feelings of anger or resentment towards women, or even simple misogyny. Perhaps they see this world as the only means to fulfill their need for sex or longing for intimacy. The fact that they are here fills them with resentment and self-loathing. This is projected onto providers.  

I believe the comments you see are brought out into the open rather than kept bottled up inside these men because on the forum there is some anonymity, and the perception that they are among others who will understand, accept and identify with them.

On the other hand, I believe there are far, far more men (yes, even here!) who do not behave as you mention and who do not fall into the dysfunctional mold I describe.

Also, to be fair, I see some very similar behavior in some female posters - and presume some similar motivational forces are in play. Again, I would see these as being in the minority of women who post, or with whom I've met.

This is of course just my opinion, and I've got damn-all to prove it. So I won't even try.

USGrantlover 221 Reviews 1936 reads
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12 / 67

EC and I found the perfect tshirt for you last summer. I don't think I ever passed it along? Damn now I need to fish it out if you're still interested?

Posted By: ChgoCPA
And you think I was serious about giving away those t-shirts?  
   
 Actually I am serious...but only to those johns that are paying $ 1k+  
   
 The others aren't worthy of them..and will eat into the overall profits.  
   
 Can't have that happen...can we?  ;)  
   
Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
MHB emblazoned on the front. Friends ask what it means and I just grin.  
     
  You do realize my post was meant jokingly. Well at least the second paragraph.

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 1896 reads
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13 / 67

Hmmm, what name can we come up with for you?

:-)

Steph

DollyHaze 1733 reads
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DollyHaze 2027 reads
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15 / 67

I think that's a good point and it makes a lot of sense. Our culture sees men as pathetic if they can't get any, and even more pathetic if they pay for it. We also live in a culture where men are encouraged to direct their frustrations outwardly and to never turn it in on themselves (unlike women, who are taught to turn everything in on themselves and to never direct their feelings onto others).  

To be honest, I can understand if a guy saw a few ladies that lacked in the looks/attitude department and he then took it upon himself to do more research and/or pay more money, or just quit the hobbying game entirely if it wasn't what he expected. What I can't understand is repeatedly putting your hand on the stove and then getting mad at the stove because you got burned over and over again. What's the term for that? Oh yeah, insanity.

DollyHaze 1592 reads
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16 / 67

And I think that some of these jokers honestly want to have a bad experience so they can bemoan about how all providers disappoint them. They'd rather be right than to shell out the extra money or do the extra research.

And while there's been so much talk here and there about reviews being inflated, there's just as many where the guys get so nit picky and complain about every last thing that it's laughable. "Her boobs had stretch marks. Ew." No shit. She wears a 32F and they're fake. Of course they're going to have stretch marks. "For some reason, she didn't seem to like it when I called her a bitch and spanked her ass." Well, maybe you should have gone with the PSE/kink provider instead of the ultra sensual GFE. "She had tattoos, and I hate tattoos." Well, it says on her profile AND on her site that she has tattoos and has blurred them out. So who's fault is it that you're disappointed?

Honestly, when I see things like this it's not even maddening. It's just funny. At a certain point, it almost seems like the whole point for guys like this IS to find shit to complain about.

SinCitySinner 65 Reviews 1711 reads
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17 / 67

bitching about running into unattractive and hideous broads..

C'mon now....You are a dude.. C'mon...You have a small penis don't you.. Granted its small, but you do have a penis. LOL :D

pleaseme 23 Reviews 2008 reads
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18 / 67

When I find myself with a (whore) provider who is fat, wrinkly, old, saggy, ugly, smelly, stupid, rude unprofessional, I've often wondered how can I make this situation better. I can't bring my train set to the meet but you gave me a great idea, while I'm fucking you in the asshole why don't I do some of my whittling. Thank you.

discreta 1551 reads
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19 / 67

if we review the hobbiest in here.... hahaha!
and providers would have also the "juicy details" area to "review" our prospects!

something like...."and there he was ....even after shower....his balls smell like rotten cheese"

inicky46 61 Reviews 2065 reads
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20 / 67

He answers to:
1) Semi Sino-Sicilian.
2) Drunken pig.
3) Mr. Wu.
4) Fu Manchu.
5) Charlie Chan.
6) Fucking Fucker.
7) Chinito.
There are more.

Flguytampa21 11 Reviews 1536 reads
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fat, wrinkly, old, saggy, ugly, .  Ok these 5, hobbyists  should not complain about.  Didn't see you their picture on bp or somewhere else?

smelly, stupid, rude and/or unprofessional.  These 4 we can only check reviews for.  I mean if they smell, we do not know until we get there.  Rude/unprofessional maybe we can tell by a phone call.    

But this is the place to rant.

GaGambler 1863 reads
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22 / 67

I plead guilty to all the others and several more than I am sure you are aware of. lol

Blowing Chunks 1673 reads
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23 / 67

I don't think I've ever said that "most providers are fat old ugly", in fact vast majority of the ones I see are fit,  young,  and hot. I haven't ever complained that "majority"  are ugly or fat,  so that is just flat out bs from the OP.  

In fact the guys who enjoy the hobby hardly complain about that here and the guys who whine are I feel in the minority or new and don't know what they are doing, so I'm not really understanding why the OP would gripe and offend her clients like that.

westcoastjohny 1746 reads
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24 / 67

The one's that weren't were from providers omitting 25 pounds from their pictures and 10 to 15 years from their age. Without exception. So what if I like firm hot bodies. I'm trying to get what I paid for. And if you point that out in a review more times than not you get flashback.

Saw a lady today where things went so wrong it was almost comical. But she was who she said she was and offered a makeup. No problem. But when the door opens and the lady isn't close to whatt was advertised then i have a problem. Yet I see these these ladies get 8/9/10's all the time.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1800 reads
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"How did she do?" He replied, "eh, ok."

Er what? Who gave the massage? Wtf?

Lol. We could review, but I guess I don't see McDonalds reviewing their customers lol.

Dr Who revived 1409 reads
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27 / 67

And that stinky, fat, bald and smelly hobbyist took the money from the hooker (DollyHaze)...called his broker to e-transfer it to his investment account and then went on to DATY the OTHFB (DollyHaze) as she commanded him to.

He was thoroughly disgusted at the sight of her sagging labia...and the smell from her butt cheeks was overwhelming.  But since he got the notification that the funds transfer was complete he soldiered on.

He told DollyHaze that he was thrilled to see her fat ass again...but that her new rates would be doubled if she wanted to see his old wrinkly ass once again.  But since DollyHaze couldn't get anyone else to see her anymore due to her constant whining about life...she had to pay the assholes old wrinkly ass the upcharge.

The smelly old fart licked her for a bit...threw up some in his mouth and gently kissed DollyHaze goodbye.

Fortunately he's now well heeled to move on in life and gave DollyHaze his new number...which is simply to the weather service.

The old smelly johns handle is smellslikerottencheese....and he charges $ 2k/hour.

And laughs at DollyHaze...what a tool  ;)
Posted By: discreta
if we review the hobbiest in here.... hahaha!  
 and providers would have also the "juicy details" area to "review" our prospects!  
   
 something like...."and there he was ....even after shower....his balls smell like rotten cheese"

Dr Who revived 1664 reads
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28 / 67

Explains your attitude.

Nice reference to Jenna Jameson...seems like you hate all men equally, and aren't terribly thrilled with other sex workers either.

Are you done with your preaching here...or are you going to continue your berating of free will in HookerLand?

You are the epitome of a hypocrite.
Posted By: DollyHaze
To the clients on here who complain about providers being fat, wrinkly, old, saggy, ugly, smelly, stupid, rude, unprofessional, etc. and say things like "why are they all so fat, wrinkly, old, saggy, ugly, smelly, stupid, rude and/or unprofessional?" why bother with this? Seriously, why continue to "hobby" if you don't like the way providers look, smell or act? Are you all just gamblers who like the thrill of throwing down money, knowing that you'll probably lose in the end? Or are you all secret masochists who have a fetish for playing the victim? Or is it that this is the only way you can get any, and you refuse to go out of your comfort zone when it comes to price (while price doesn't have everything to do with it...Jenna Jameson ain't advertising on BP and she ain't showing up at your door for $250/hr)? If none of these apply to you and you find yourself saying or feeling these things on a regular basis...why not just stop? Obviously it's not what you wanted and not what you expected. So why not just save your money and find a new hobby...like whittling or model trains?

DollyHaze 1632 reads
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29 / 67

And I don't see how this is preaching or hypocritical. Just curious why someone would burn their hand on hot stoves repeatedly, then get mad at the stoves because they have third degree burns.

If the women these clients are seeing aren't what they expected, and it happens on a regular basis, and they're overall disillusioned and dissatisfied with the experience, why keep doing it?  

And I never said that this was every client. But we've all seen the posts where clients are complaining about all providers shaving off 25 pounds in their pictures, to the ones saying all providers are older than they say they are, to the one recently saying all providers have bad skin. And let's not forget the parade of posts about how 9s and 10s aren't really 9s and 10s.  

If all of that is true, why would they want to keep hobbying? Why would they keep doing this only to be let down in the end? Why not either adjust their expectations or budget, or just forget it and do something else with their time and money?

It's a legitimate question

StinaValentine See my TER Reviews 1278 reads
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I don't see it that much here. Maybe scattered about here and there. I'd say those men are in the minority.  

It doesn't bother me much because when I see posts like those, I'm laughing my fat ass all the way to the bank. :)

GaGambler 1662 reads
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There are only a couple of dozen, but they show a pattern of her taking "troll" posts seriously.

Look at one of her first posts from a couple of years ago where she actually bites on one of DC's highly humorous, but completely invented OP's. She actually buys his post, hook, line and sinker.

Someone here needs to buy a sense of humor, and we both know that you and I already have one.

Dr Who revived 1426 reads
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Wasn't all that hard to find either.

I'd also post the link to your drivel but it looks like there are names on there....and we can't out people on the boards now...can we?

As for the parade of posts about the 9/10 not being 9/10...from what I've seen of you, you have nothing to fear from those lofty scores.

Shit...maybe a TER 6?  Which IRL is a plain jane...and that's on the optimistic side of the ledger.

Your actual OP is a good one...no criticism there.  However knowing who you are in reality changes the deliver of your post.

Good luck with your quest.
Posted By: DollyHaze
And I don't see how this is preaching or hypocritical. Just curious why someone would burn their hand on hot stoves repeatedly, then get mad at the stoves because they have third degree burns.  
   
 If the women these clients are seeing aren't what they expected, and it happens on a regular basis, and they're overall disillusioned and dissatisfied with the experience, why keep doing it?  
   
 And I never said that this was every client. But we've all seen the posts where clients are complaining about all providers shaving off 25 pounds in their pictures, to the ones saying all providers are older than they say they are, to the one recently saying all providers have bad skin. And let's not forget the parade of posts about how 9s and 10s aren't really 9s and 10s.  
   
 If all of that is true, why would they want to keep hobbying? Why would they keep doing this only to be let down in the end? Why not either adjust their expectations or budget, or just forget it and do something else with their time and money?  
   
 It's a legitimate question.  
   
     
 

DollyHaze 1747 reads
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END OF MESSAGE

Dr Who revived 1352 reads
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You'll find her babbling on another feminist site with similar bullshit as she's posted here.

Not to mention a lovely pic of herself.

Perhaps she is a friend of Corrine's?
Posted By: GaGambler
There are only a couple of dozen, but they show a pattern of her taking "troll" posts seriously.  

Look at one of her first posts from a couple of years ago where she actually bites on one of DC's highly humorous, but completely invented OP's. She actually buys his post, hook, line and sinker.

Someone here needs to buy a sense of humor, and we both know that you and I already have one.

Blowing Chunks 1271 reads
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Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1321 reads
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END OF MESSAGE

hbyist+truth=;( 1358 reads
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And it matters not if the tricks whine like a baby. Those women they whine about, well if those bitches are still getting paid, flip the fucking bird.  

Most of the shit posted here is for fun, even my drivel is for shits and giggles. I bet you the guys on here that seem the worst are actually the better guys to meet. Shit, I can be a prize cunt on here but a total sweetheart IRL

Blowing Chunks 1338 reads
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impposter 49 Reviews 1365 reads
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Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
MHB emblazoned on the front. Friends ask what it means and I just grin.
Help!  "Miss Hotty McHotterson" is MHM (Miss H McH)  or maybe HMH (H Mc H) but what the heck does "MHB" stand for???  And, please, don't just sit there grinning at me.

russbbj 89 Reviews 1472 reads
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Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
 
   
Posted By: DollyHaze
To the clients on here who complain about providers being fat, wrinkly, old, saggy, ugly, smelly, stupid, rude, unprofessional, etc. and say things like "why are they all so fat, wrinkly, old, saggy, ugly, smelly, stupid, rude and/or unprofessional?" why bother with this? Seriously, why continue to "hobby" if you don't like the way providers look, smell or act? Are you all just gamblers who like the thrill of throwing down money, knowing that you'll probably lose in the end? Or are you all secret masochists who have a fetish for playing the victim? Or is it that this is the only way you can get any, and you refuse to go out of your comfort zone when it comes to price (while price doesn't have everything to do with it...Jenna Jameson ain't advertising on BP and she ain't showing up at your door for $250/hr)? If none of these apply to you and you find yourself saying or feeling these things on a regular basis...why not just stop? Obviously it's not what you wanted and not what you expected. So why not just save your money and find a new hobby...like whittling or model trains?
   
 The ones that do complain, while not 100% privy to the real reason and only can comment on what I surmise is that they resent paying, so to offset that resentment, why not criticize the object of what make one resentful?  
   
 Geez the hookers see more fat, dirty, ugly, stupid than most mongers. At least the mongers get a chance to choose the fat, smelly stupid hookers. Hookers have to deal with whats on the other side of the door. And before some bright spark mentions the mongers are buying, I get that BUT the money we do get does not automatically turn you into Hotty McHotterson, it just gives you access to pussy.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 1298 reads
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Check some reviews and the adjoined profiles. Then note the scores and the right-hand side of the menu. Correlation? Pattern implies intent.

Posted By: DollyHaze
And I think that some of these jokers honestly want to have a bad experience so they can bemoan about how all providers disappoint them. They'd rather be right than to shell out the extra money or do the extra research.  
   
 And while there's been so much talk here and there about reviews being inflated, there's just as many where the guys get so nit picky and complain about every last thing that it's laughable. "Her boobs had stretch marks. Ew." No shit. She wears a 32F and they're fake. Of course they're going to have stretch marks. "For some reason, she didn't seem to like it when I called her a bitch and spanked her ass." Well, maybe you should have gone with the PSE/kink provider instead of the ultra sensual GFE. "She had tattoos, and I hate tattoos." Well, it says on her profile AND on her site that she has tattoos and has blurred them out. So who's fault is it that you're disappointed?  
   
 Honestly, when I see things like this it's not even maddening. It's just funny. At a certain point, it almost seems like the whole point for guys like this IS to find shit to complain about.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 1327 reads
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Resenting financial strife and possibly poverty, some folk spend their entire lives accumulating more and more wealth, much more than they'll ever need. They simply can't stop. But it's less any passion for financial success, and more embitterment over how they were treated when impoverished. Same pattern.

And at least in one culture I'm familiar with, alcoholism is a hated plague, but when loved ones fall prey to it, and there seems to be no chance of them sobering up, some totally abstaining women suddenly turn to drink in order to cope. Very sad. Very senseless.

wrps07 1617 reads
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Found out the provider was bipolar and put her in a straight jacket. She enjoyed every bit of it. I have been with another who is bipolar and schizophrenic, she enjoys being tied do the bed also lol.

Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 1358 reads
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AnotherDonJohn 1425 reads
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Lost track of her shenanigans lately...

Posted By: ChgoCPA
You'll find her babbling on another feminist site with similar bullshit as she's posted here.  
   
 Not to mention a lovely pic of herself.  
   
 Perhaps she is a friend of Corrine's?  
   
Posted By: GaGambler
There are only a couple of dozen, but they show a pattern of her taking "troll" posts seriously.  
   
 Look at one of her first posts from a couple of years ago where she actually bites on one of DC's highly humorous, but completely invented OP's. She actually buys his post, hook, line and sinker.  
   
 Someone here needs to buy a sense of humor, and we both know that you and I already have one.

mrfisher 111 Reviews 1451 reads
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and real people have those traits to one extent or another, as do we clients.

It's really not such a big deal as long as I feel an attraction and the person's attitude is such that sparks will fly.

anonymousfun 6 Reviews 2041 reads
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from few repeat offenders. They are not in touch with reality and does not speak for the vast majority including Curly

hbyist+truth=;( 1125 reads
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It's a running joke between me and GaG. And I now own this title proudly!

hbyist+truth=;( 1760 reads
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And completely ruin any semblance of the fantasy they work up in their minds

Blowing Chunks 1665 reads
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how about Taylor Swift? I'd book a week vacation with her if she provided...

Blowing Chunks 1473 reads
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GaGambler 1339 reads
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Or was that an ask "Galloping Gourmet" board?

Whatever name she was using at the time, she ended up looking very, very foolish. Big surprise, right?

Dr Who revived 1597 reads
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But it seems even he has disappeared.

I wonder why?
Posted By: GaGambler
Or was that an ask "Galloping Gourmet" board?

Whatever name she was using at the time, she ended up looking very, very foolish. Big surprise, right?

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 1729 reads
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The professional headshrinkers call those people "ASSHOLES"

GaGambler 1671 reads
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BTW I define "winning" as in "who is having the most fun" and those of us on the "dark side" are definitely winning that battle.

GaGambler 1645 reads
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Did anyone else notice the "tree trimmers" were out in force yesterday?

As for TurdBoy, I guess he can do his "swinging" somewhere else for a while. DA asked why I didn't have any money on the Turdster for SPOTY and this is the exact reason why, you can't win any awards on TER, not even the SPOTY if you get yourself kicked off the board before the votes are cast.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 1259 reads
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I provide money to beautiful young women! :

hbyist+truth=;( 1317 reads
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89Springer 1379 reads
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TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 1485 reads
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I don't know..
If I were a 250-300$ hr hooker (which I am)
I might be offended by that.
I'm new though..
Once I devolop a client base I'll raise my rates.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 1424 reads
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the OP cause she hid behind an alias.  She does have a piss-poor attitude though.

wrps07 1795 reads
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