How much sex play for an overnight is appropriate?  How about a weekend?

I've only done a couple overnights, and was generally satisfied with dinner, play time, down time, sleep, wake in the morning, and more play before leaving.  But it seemed like "just not quite enough" action for $2500.  So, the next time we worked in another play session right when she got there.  That seemed workable for us both, gave me time to recover, and time to chat, eat, watch tv, etc.  Figured as long as we had some down time and I wasn't groping on her all night and let the girl get some real sleep, all would be about right.


I considered a weekend visit once, but in the end didn't feel it was worth it.  I'd rather do double the overnights.

Considering the expense for us, and the benefit to the providers (only seeing ONE guy for the weekend versus how many if shorter visits are scheduled?) I'm curious to see how others have handled it.

So it is up to the client mostly.

Many providers will provide a 12 hour daytime session if you like so you don't have to pay for sleep time.

I did this once from noon to midnight, and had a ball, literally and figuratively speaking.

I say as much play as the two of You can handle...lol...and as far as a weekend...the weekend getaways I have done...there is plenty of sex...however we would also go out and play tourists...and flirt and build up that anticipation...that we couldn't wait to get back to the room again...it's Your weekend...I feel it's whatever You want...because I want it to be very memorable..Enjoyable..Pleasurable..and a whole lotta Fun for You

On my overnights we have a relaxing time with lots of fun.... Play, dinner, watch tv, play, talk,  play, sleep, play.  While I would not want to play for 12 hours straight, 3 happy endings during the night seem fair to me.

I don't have the resources at this time to plan for an overnight but I have discussed this with a few ladies. None of them had specific sleep requirments. But I would assume the evening would go something like described above. Meet and great catch up on things, play, late dinner, play some more, sleep a bit and play in the morning with room service breakfast.

Early afternoon to midnight or so. Lot's of time for play, relax, play, eat, music, movie, going out, short nap, whatever and still in bed early enough not to be dragging the next day.

this hobby is about your pleasure, after all. as long as you allow a solid meal each day (maybe with light healthy snacks in the room), plenty of water, and a few hours of uninterrupted sleep, i say "play" as much as you wish.

however i did want to respond to a comment you made, about the "benefit" to providers of overnight or weekend dates. first, not all of us are high volume looking to book the calendar as much as possible. we may have no intentions whatsoever of seeing others if our weekend rendezvous with you does not happen. secondly, many of us have families/loved ones we share a life with, a loving and nourishing environment that an extended date takes us away from...that alone makes no "price" steep enough, imo. and lastly, no matter how close the bond between a particular provider and client may be, for the length of a date she must "on" every moment. this means appearing happy, energetic, relaxed, self-assured, enthusiastic, engaging, stimulating, etc....for the entire length of the date. imagine having to maintain this for 24, 48 hours or longer...yes it is what we are here to do, but it is far from easy. when i'm not in the mood for sex with my Husband, he doesn't care...as long as i perform well, spread 'em high and wide, the enthusiasm doesn't have to be there, lol. when i just want an hour of silence to hear my own thoughts and relax, i can do that. when i feel sad, or irritated, or exhausted...i can express that freely. none of these are options on a date.

so what's my point? well, that i personally feel you are entitled to all the pleasure and attention you desire when seeing a provider for an extended date, but that you also should not assume that you are in any way giving her a break.

First of all T.V. is OUT unless its an adult
film that will relate to the connection.
Upon arrival a light meal depending on what
time I arrive. I hate to sound like a critic
but the activities you do describe sound like
what a married couple does after putting the
kids to bed...

A jacuzzi with a desired beverage candles lit
foreplay, touching communicating and expressing
yourself to each other for about an hour and a half -2 hours followed by ... you know... there's just too much to mention here.

I can promise you that your fee is in the ballpark but the activities are not yet
known to you. If I ever have the oppotunity
to meet you I'll just have to show you...

XOXO
Angela

I kinda shy away from those anymore.  My last one was pretty much a nightmare.  She knew it, said she'd make it up to me.  Ya rite, I should live so long.

I imagine, given the right circumstances, it would be really enjoyable.  I like AS's idea of the weekend, play tourist, play around, build up the anticipation, then when the time's right...go wild LOL (or something like that).  You just need to know that the you of you have some shared interests besides the sex!!

Two in the afternoon/early evening, two in the evening after dinner and before bed and two after 8 hours of sleep and before checkout.  

It works best to make this clear up front.

Just to give you some perspective, I did a few weekend overnighters with three different providers during the early 90's. Arrive at her place in the afternoon, catch up and play a bit, go out and walk around, have dinner, back to play for an extended evening and then to sleep. Next day, usually start out with some morning fun, lounge around, maybe head out around the town for a while, have lunch and then some afternoon recreation before I left. Seemed just about right, as we were going "full tilt" while we were having fun -- oh, and the cost? $2400 in '93/'94 dollars. This usually gave me 3-4 pops but more importantly, gave me great experiences that I fondly remember today.

i'd be concerned more about having a good time while I'm there, rather than figuring out the cost/benefit analysis. If upon further reflection, you decided she wasn't worth as much for the fun provided, then try another provider.

What a spontaneous answer.
Doc

Now that i have everyone's attention;

I've done some overnights with ONE girl. The chemistry was so incredible that SHE usually initiated the FUN. Inside the room and 'outside'. I've flirted with the idea of spending nights or weekends with others but was never(no that's not true)intrigued by the 'amount' of play time that was 'permitted by design'.


One young lady promised me that, even out and about' she would most assuredly TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME. The appt. was not meant to be i guess. An emergency kept her from me. We were friends for awhile and simply drifted apart. What i missed out on i'll probably never know now.

The key(IMO) to a weekend jaunt is asking your 'choice' what she expects would/should happen during the time together.

I've ranbled enough.


OSP. Attempting to play the mangina role

Have run the gamut from quiet dinners and playtimes, to having doubles to spice things up, to outrageous week-ends far from home.  They're all good, if you keep an open mind...