LOL, I've always wondered the same thing.... if at my incall, I bring them a warm washcloth w/soap on it & always bring my own "feminine wash" for myself, to use w/water & a washcloth, until I get back home to my shower. For outcalls, if requested, I'll bring them a washcloth, but again, I also bring my own wash to clean up until I get home for a full shower.
used a unscented wipes to get the condom off, then I go get a nice warm washcloth with a drop of soap in it, ( not too much, you dont want to make a soapy mess) to clean my gentlemen off with.
I tried tissues to get the condom off, but they tend to shred.
spots of broken skin on her hands. I prefer having the condom removed with a wipe, then I clean myself with a clean towel.
My one complaint is that too few providers think about how to stock their incall for work. Too may are perfectly ok with calling for more towels and leaving towels on the bath floor. Even when I like a provider, I think that habit is insane and will eventually cause problems for her. Ihave seen providers with two large suitcases filled with clothes they won't wear, many shoes, gobs of makeup containers. But there is no towel or soap for wsshing up to be found at their incall.
OK, maybe I'm just from a much smaller city than others, but hotels come with 4 small washrags, 4 hand towels and 4 large towels.... how do providers run out & have to re-use a towel on the next person?? Maybe it's just me, but I never see more than 2 people a day, & on tour, usually 3/day.... again, always have enough clean towels, & the next morning, maid service automatically replaces all your used towels w/clean ones. I can't fathom having back to back appointments... I guess that's why I didn't last long in the bath house where I originally started, lol.
And I agree w/HP, what's wrong w/taking off the condom w/your bare hands? It's the same as getting touched beforehand or getting a HJ.... so what's the difference afterwards? The only thing on the outside of the condom is the ladies juices... his are safely inside, & if you give HJs, you're going to get stuff on your hands anyway......
Posted By: Hob_Man
spots of broken skin on her hands. I prefer having the condom removed with a wipe, then I clean myself with a clean towel.
My one complaint is that too few providers think about how to stock their incall for work. Too may are perfectly ok with calling for more towels and leaving towels on the bath floor. Even when I like a provider, I think that habit is insane and will eventually cause problems for her. Ihave seen providers with two large suitcases filled with clothes they won't wear, many shoes, gobs of makeup containers. But there is no towel or soap for wsshing up to be found at their incall.
To make my posts actually post, I have to curb my potty-mouth and anything that might be construed as an attack on an individual. So let's try this....
Yes, I have heard and read the same. I do not believe that I have been in the situation that such a practice has been put into place, however, I realize that I am not that special as much I would believe that I am.
So, if infact such a practice does occur, I would tend to think that that would mean some ladies do not have the same respect that a gentleman would have when he would walk in an incall and take a shower to appease the lady and her own ideas of him being 'fresh and clean' for their tryst.
Hypocritical? I believe so. Relevant? I doubt it.
It would seem to appear that most gentlemen would be so happy to get their penis taken care of by a professional sex worker that they may be able to look over the fact some of them saw another gentleman not more than 15 minutes before they showed up, meaning, the lady didn't actually have time to take a shower and give their next appointment the same respect that they expect when their next appointment showed up, therefore, the baby-wipes come into play.
I understand some sex workers have a certain idea about 'feast of famine', meaning, some days are better than others. Though personally I don't sell my body to make my mortgage, I feel I sell my soul sometimes.
Anyway, some sex workers might have one appointment one day. Then the next day they have ten or more, per their preference and their willingness to take on such a 'workload'.
In anycase, I can understand when a 'gentleman' would like to make a date with a provider earlier in the day because the idea of being #6 before happy hour would put a damper on my mind considering how much DNA I'd be swimming in on the lady's bed whether it was her personal incall or some hotel room which everybody knows what they'd see if they took a blacklight to it.
Dear Honest Provider: Even though the idea repulses you that some woman use baby wipes after a call, I can tell you that woman who work for agencies who might be extremely peripatetic are relegated to using baby wipes because unlike yourself who happens to be extremely fortunate to work independently, there are still some girls who do anywhere from three to six call a night do not have the luxury to take a full shower. In this case, which is still better than nothing from a hygiene perspective at least they are trying to address those specific needs for the next customer. Also their customers are not always as refined and generous with the facilities as yours. Thus these girls who compared to you would be an echelon below but still have the same concern about their hygiene welcome the opportunity to have a wet wipe.
But how long can it possibly take to get a quick shower? 5 minutes max? Are girls booked so close together that they don't have 5 minutes for a shower? If so, that's not cool. I'm sure if a guy knew that she didn't have a chance to shower, he'd allow her 5 minutes of his time to clean up??!
Plus there are instances where it's not just your crotch that needs to be washed. How about her hair? (use your imagination). Or her boobs? Do those get baby wiped too?
So I guess this is also why girls use wipes on their clients? They run out of washcloths?
I use agencies mostly, so the women that I see have other guests. If the agency does not allow her at least 30 minutes to clean the incall and herself, I drop that agency. If a provider does not clean up well and I notice, I am hyper cautious about what I do with her and don't see her again.
I seek highmid to highend providers and I tip in cash. I expect the provider to have good hygiene and have the room clean when I show up. I understand that I may touch something on the bed that she or a gent left behind, but I expect to be able to clean it away from my body. I don't expect to taste or smell any thing that is offensive. I don't get into the tight fitting clothes, highrise skirt, boobs popping out, streetwalker chic that some hobbyists seem to like. I don't like rollplay, the fact that I have chosen to visit a particular provider is enough to have me set to engage her. The type of provider that I prefer is the type that is indistinguishable from a young lawyer, or young businesswoman, or top level grad student.
I can see hobbyists that visit the $75 for 30 minutes, $150 for an hour or $250 per hour agency women that have to share their take with the agency thinking that ladies don't have time to clean up. Maybe those types of providers don't consider cleaning up well as part of their business model.
When I sense that a provider hasn't bathed properly before my visit, she doesn't get a visit from me again. I am not opposed to paying a provider well for her services, I expect that she utilize all safeguards to protect my health. I stay away from the client flipping providers. Agency women that work for good agencies have time to clean up and set the stage for the next guest, I don't care to visit the rest.
...afterwards to clean me up when the condom is removed. I don't mind - they're disposable and I know they haven't been used before. I don't know where those washcloths have been or whether they've been cleaned properly.
I would be grossed out if I knew they used them on themselves in lieu of taking a shower between clients.
And they pay attention to the details of properly laundering the towels and insuring that gents have clean towels. TER is a mixture of hobbyists that hobby at many price points. Once a provider is above a specific price point, I expect her to pay attention to issues of sexual safety and hygiene.
If a gal has them in the bathroom for her own use it would make me wonder if she is showering between clients or just wiping herself down. That being said, some gals use them for hygiene after going to the bathroom and that's just fine with me but it's a good idea not to leave a huge box them sitting out where clients will see them.
Now, if she starts using them on me? Sorry, there's just no reason for this other than a guarantee that I will never see her again.
If I am going to have a nice, long date with multiple rounds, baby wipes? Sure. Showers between rounds? Yup (helps with staph and some stuff- be sure there's clean towels, BTW).
That they COULD be a sign of bad service! As is evidenced through out this thread there are right reasons and wrong reasons to use baby wipes. I like it when gals freshen up during the course of a longer session. I don't like getting close to a lady upon arrival and smelling baby wipes rather than soap and water. That's the best way I can think of to sum it up...
Which, I certainly hope, were not used on another client before me.
Baby wipes are cold and smell nasty.
By the way, what's with all this talk of this or that being gay?
Is that a good thing or a bad thing in this context?
If bad, do people here have some problem still with some people being gay? I would hope that this community would have evolved enough to be over that kind of thing.
Sorry if I seem out of it but I don't mind asking questions to learn.
Of course no one is talking about anyone's sexual orientation.
"This thread is gay" Or "Baby wipes are gay" are not meant to offend gay people.
Posted By: mrfisher
Which, I certainly hope, were not used on another client before me.
Baby wipes are cold and smell nasty.
By the way, what's with all this talk of this or that being gay?
Is that a good thing or a bad thing in this context?
If bad, do people here have some problem still with some people being gay? I would hope that this community would have evolved enough to be over that kind of thing.
Sorry if I seem out of it but I don't mind asking questions to learn.
that doesnt mind getting poo on the gents for greek? Who cares what another lady uses? Baby wipes, a wash cloth or whatever. It's the ladies business not yours. Do what works for you and stop worrying about what the other ladies do. I prefer my clients to shower before and after. If they dont have time after then a fresh clean washcloth is good for me but I have removed the condom with a baby wipe then offered a clean wascloth. Honestly though what each lady does is her business not mine nor yours. I used to have a wipe warmer with unscented wipes in it soaked in alcohol. Really weird I know. Nothing beats a shower though.
Posted By: HonestProvider
I keep hearing over and over about providers cleaning themselves or their client with baby wipes.
WHY??!!!
I have not used a baby wipe since I was... Well, I have never used a baby wipe. My mom used them on me when I was a baby but thats it.
Why baby wipes? Why not a washcloth? Don't baby wipes smell like baby powder? Do baby wipes creep anyone else out or am I the weird one??
I'm not the one that originally came up here to put down other providers for the way they do things.I didnt knock anyone for how they do things and I only stated what I do. Cant speak for every lady. I just know it's not my business how they handle theirs.
Posted By: superdummy
So funny that you tell her it's none of her business and you then go on to add your 2 cents in answer to her.
Getting poo on clients? I have never gotten poo on anyone nor talked about that. You must be confusing me with someone else.
And where did I put anyone down for using baby wipes??? I asked the question out of curiosity. I simply didn't understand why girls don't use washcloths instead. Calm down!
plain soap and water.If a lady decides to use a baby wipe to clean herself between seeing gents that is her business this is something I would not do.I bring a gent a soapy washcloth and then follow up with a warm wet towel to rinse him off.I am outcall only so I would hope the guys would have clean towels in his room just like a gent would think there would be fresh towels at a lady's incall.I like to bring my own washcloth and soap the hotels soaps seem to be a little harsh.I am not creeped out with baby wipes they do serve multiple purposes but just not to clean yourself in between appointments but if ladies use them and they work for them more power to them.
Good quality hand towels can be purchased from Sears and other retailers. The Walmart variety should be avoided, they are rather cheap in price and quality.
By having and controlling her supply of towels, a provider can avoid being figured out by the nosey and ensure that each client gets a clean towel as needed. Used towels can be collected, rinsed, rung out and placed inside a hole free garbage bag in a suitcase. The towels can be laundered at the end of the day, or end of a visit to a city. Towels that show age or wear can be replaced with new ones as needed.
Body wash should be unscented. Hobbyists that are married can avoid going home with unfamiliar scents on them.
What I see is that providers pack suitcases full of makeup when they only need to pack some clothing, their supply of bath soap and towels, a small container or two of perfume, oral care items, clear lip gloss and skin moisturizer.
The only thing I don't like is they are cold... It's better than a girl (not lady) who tells you where her bathroom is. I've been told, no bathroom... zip it & leave! Not going back, that's for sure! H
in our home, we always keep baby wipes in the water closet to be used in lieu of or in addition to toilet paper. the Hubby and i just dig that extra clean feeling..*shrugs*
however, baby wipes have no place in the boudoir, imo, and certainly should not be used for sexual "cleaning-up." *shivers*
They are a mild cleanser, and convenient. Hell, one time I brought a box to a provider who likes them. She cleaned me off nice before providing a NICE DTBBBJ-TC . Worked fine for me.
I prefer a clean warm washcloth, but I have no objections if a provider prefers using baby wipes or antibacterial wipes. Actually, they're more hygienic than using a washcloth for cleanup after the "pop", since they're disposable. Wipes are also available in different fragrances and unscented versions, if that is an issue. I would think that the "unscented" versions would be more appropriate for use in the hobby ...LOL.
Also, wipes should never be used as a substitute for a good shower.
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