a concrete time frame (not six months distant) marks you as a much more serious prospect. If you contacted me with that scenario, I would definitely see you as a standup guy.
Posted By: justwandering69
Wow, that is kind of sad. I use p411 a lot and because I travel so often, I use either prescreening request or more likely just a simple pm to introduce myself, share when I will be in town and what I am looking for which is generally always a multihour engagement or hour engagements on 2 or 3 successive evenings. I usually send this to my 2 or 3 top picks. they generally all check my profile and respond if they would be available or not. Usually one of them will carry this onto a short chit chat of messages and that is virtually always who I select. But I don't send out "I would maybe like to see you someday" messages. It is "I will be in your city in 2 weeks and seeking company" so that may have a lot to do with. From the initial message, it is clear I have intent and a nearby timeframe. I don't know what kind of messages you receive or what the OP is sending but direct, near timeframe messages nearly always get followed up on in my experience. I wouldn't think sites which charge for membership would be the stomping grounds of guys looking for jerkoff material when so much is available for free! I am sorry you gals have to put up with that bs.
Ladies that are members of P411. Do you ever check the guy's profile when you get an appointment or pre-screen request? I spent a modest amount of time writing something about myself and so far none of the ladies I have made requests to have even looked at it. Do you consider it fiction, a waste of time or nice to know information that means little to your session with the guy? Yes, I am using an alias, the reason is obvious isn't it?
Same goes when I get an inquiry, here, I read reviews. I like the insight into my client, and find it helps a lot with making sure the chemistry is there when we do meet. I wish more screening sites allowed the guys to talk a bit about themselves and their personalities. A little goes a long way.
I have noticed that most of them would read the profile when requested to so, but some of them really don't take time to do so. I have also noticed that, some of them do not even have a courtsey to either say "yes " or "No" when you submit your pre-screening on P411 ! Most of them are very prompt in their response. so in general, I would say life is good....
that's the first thing I check personally. It is nice if there is a writeup and even better a photo. The 'more' we know, the more comfortable we become, the better the communication and overall session in my opinion. P411 is my #1 go to site. Don't trust any others out there whatsoever. Guys who book with me thru the site get first dibs first and always. Good move for you, now get your okay's and you'll be golden in this world.
-you like long date appointments and like to repeat often with the same provider -you give big tips and shower providers with gifts for no reason -you have great referrals from established high rate providers -you have more money than you know what to do with -you are cuckolded at home and are easy for women to manipulate -you have no STDs -you always leave on time -you are completely odorless or smell unoffensively like popular store-bought cologne -you are not the CL killer -you look like George Clooney or Tatum Channing, whichever is closer to reality -after a short getting-to-know each other period, you plan on finding a SugarBaby who you will completely spoil in a completely exclusive arrangement to her liking.
If you do most or all of these things, the ADJ personally guarantees that their interest level will go up. Or your p411 money back. lol
That they have already applied for immediate VIP membership on the TER mangina board
And of course they don't PM/email to the point of stalking
As well as they have a serious eye issue and can't differentiate bills of different denominations...which causes a constant outflow in excess of expectations
How bout this for a guarantee ADJ? Are you a gamblin' man? If you 'can' answer these few simple lil questions from 'our' apparent meeting that took place, then I 'guarantee' you won't have to pay me during a future dinner date like you originally wanted, strictly OTC. 'But', you have to answer them all and of course, correctly, or I'm sorry your lil portion of the guarantee is off....but mine will still be in play You'll still have to cough up the cash minus the dinner....deal? Ok, great...let's play...
-'who' approached who -'where' did we meet and 'where' did the kiss on the cheek take place -'how' did we meet -'what' was I wearing -'why'- I won't ask this question for the obvious reason
I'd like all large bills please, let me know where the drop off can take place...perhaps someone could be our middle man in this venture since I don't trust you. Oh btw, that's my 4 hr rate just for you
throw in an OTC lunch with your bud CPA when I head out to Chicago this spring. Now, those are some pretty good deals there and you know how I feel about OTC time with CPA lol...what do you say ADJ?
If he was just using P411 in addition to what I already knew about him, no. If that was his major form of verification (he had no reviews), then of course. Most of my former clients contacted me on TER first, then gave their other info. Most of the time I actually knew several women they had seen, so I really did not need to go much further, unless they were locals. In that case, I required a stool sample, blood work, and his first born to make an appt. lol.
At my last physical, my Doc asked me for a stool sample, urine sample, sperm sample and blood sample. I said, "Gee, Doc, if you'd told me that before I came in I could've just brought a pair of my used underwear." *rimshot*
Posted By: HooktardGold
If he was just using P411 in addition to what I already knew about him, no. If that was his major form of verification (he had no reviews), then of course. Most of my former clients contacted me on TER first, then gave their other info. Most of the time I actually knew several women they had seen, so I really did not need to go much further, unless they were locals. In that case, I required a stool sample, blood work, and his first born to make an appt. lol.
you send me an appointment request from P411, you go to the top of my list. I check your profile, and respond promptly.
HOWEVER-- if you send a "pre-screening" request, then I consider you a distant maybe... because I have rarely had any pre=screening turn into an actual paid appointment.
In my experience, it's guys jerking off to my attention, wasting my time, and then conveniently disappearing when the time comes to make it happen.
Sad, but true.
Posted By: SlavetoLust
Ladies that are members of P411. Do you ever check the guy's profile when you get an appointment or pre-screen request? I spent a modest amount of time writing something about myself and so far none of the ladies I have made requests to have even looked at it. Do you consider it fiction, a waste of time or nice to know information that means little to your session with the guy? Yes, I am using an alias, the reason is obvious isn't it?
Wow, that is kind of sad. I use p411 a lot and because I travel so often, I use either prescreening request or more likely just a simple pm to introduce myself, share when I will be in town and what I am looking for which is generally always a multihour engagement or hour engagements on 2 or 3 successive evenings. I usually send this to my 2 or 3 top picks. they generally all check my profile and respond if they would be available or not. Usually one of them will carry this onto a short chit chat of messages and that is virtually always who I select. But I don't send out "I would maybe like to see you someday" messages. It is "I will be in your city in 2 weeks and seeking company" so that may have a lot to do with. From the initial message, it is clear I have intent and a nearby timeframe. I don't know what kind of messages you receive or what the OP is sending but direct, near timeframe messages nearly always get followed up on in my experience. I wouldn't think sites which charge for membership would be the stomping grounds of guys looking for jerkoff material when so much is available for free! I am sorry you gals have to put up with that bs.
a concrete time frame (not six months distant) marks you as a much more serious prospect. If you contacted me with that scenario, I would definitely see you as a standup guy.
Posted By: justwandering69
Wow, that is kind of sad. I use p411 a lot and because I travel so often, I use either prescreening request or more likely just a simple pm to introduce myself, share when I will be in town and what I am looking for which is generally always a multihour engagement or hour engagements on 2 or 3 successive evenings. I usually send this to my 2 or 3 top picks. they generally all check my profile and respond if they would be available or not. Usually one of them will carry this onto a short chit chat of messages and that is virtually always who I select. But I don't send out "I would maybe like to see you someday" messages. It is "I will be in your city in 2 weeks and seeking company" so that may have a lot to do with. From the initial message, it is clear I have intent and a nearby timeframe. I don't know what kind of messages you receive or what the OP is sending but direct, near timeframe messages nearly always get followed up on in my experience. I wouldn't think sites which charge for membership would be the stomping grounds of guys looking for jerkoff material when so much is available for free! I am sorry you gals have to put up with that bs.
everything on a gentleman's P411 profile. If he has a TER account I read all of his reviews. I research all of my dates thoroughly. It makes both of us more comfortable in my opinion.
I do because I like to know about sexual enhancers and if a guy is circumcised. It also tells me how much they like Greek and/or daty. Another thing is what refreshments they like. Can't be to prepared imo Hugs and kisses TL
I always do. It helps me to find out what he likes so I can wear it or have it available. I also want to avoid doing something that he doesn't like. I really enjoy P411 because of this feature. It has made some of my dates even better. My clients enjoy that I took the time to read and find out their preferences.
No one has ever said directly to me but some may think I am nosey. I am highly curious and like to chat and get to know people a little. BUT if a client prefers silence for their session I can zip it!! For me getting to know someone at least a little builds chemistry! Chemistry is a turn ON for me!! I had two repeats today. Made them smile and I smiled too. It was a great Monday!
I like that it would let me know whether or not they want Greek and things like that without us ever having to discuss it so I could be more prepared for them. I definitely utilized that feature. so basically you are saying you wrote on it that you like Greek and pink lipstick and nobody is giving you grief and pink lipstick paying attention to what you like. again my advice to you would be to simply remind the ladies that you would like them to just browse over your likes and dislikes prior to the appointment so you can fully enjoy and be satisfied. or someplace way of suggesting you'd like them to just have a glance at your request on your profile. I am surprised you're saying none of them looked at it that was one of the main features of p 411 I really enjoyed. things sure go a lot smoother when you know exactly what is expected of you and what to do to make the customer happy. I always check in and say okay do you want to move on to this no? and I did get some feedback from one customer who said he did not like that and I shouldn't do it because it takes away of the feeling of GFE seems unnatural for me to be in the middle of a b****** and then say so would you like to f*** now? never the less I have not taking his advice and I still ask if they want to move on to the next' I know some guys want a longer b****** then others but of course I try to suggest moving on to the sex part' I would much rather be having sex in giving a b******* so I obviously will suggest moving on to the sex but I am NOT a mind reader and I don't want the guys to feel like I'm rushing them so I do kind of mentioned hey are you ready' I certainly don't want to be getting reviews saying that they felt rushed or didn't get to enjoy certain activities that they like to enjoy
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You'll still have to cough up the cash minus the dinner....deal? Ok, great...let's play... 
