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posted 11 years ago

Which is why the place is useless to me in terms of oks . If you do not respond you get what you saw . Let's say a guy is not a serial killer but he also was not someone you want to truly recommend . Unless he has done something so sideways you MUST ok the guy. Even though if a girl contacted you you might say he had unsafe practices or something that made the girl uncomfortable . Essentially you are forced to ok the guy . Basically that's not ok. No note to say well he was fine but smelled like Fritos or had a rash or smacked me , you get the point . If you saw him and lived you have to ok him. It's truly unfair for the majority of guys who are fabulous , Pollie

Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl

Posted By: impposter

Any idea what that means?
- Forgot to pay her P411 bill?
- Some kind of penalty (customer complaint?)
- ???

-- Modified on 10/29/2015 12:04:54 AM

It's free to be listed on P411; there's only a charge for top placement, visiting ads, etc. So even if she did not pay for one of those ad upgrades, her listing would still be available.

Most likely, her account was suspended for not responding to a P411 Request within the lime limit, which is 4 days.

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impposter11 years ago1434 reads

P411

From a Profile, I clicked on her P411 link. The link in the address bar looked OK but the page loaded with an error message:

The web page for [her name] is Temporarily Unavailable.

The provider must contact us to get her P411 page reinstated. No other information will be given to anyone other than the holder of this account.

Any idea what that means?
- Forgot to pay her P411 bill?
- Some kind of penalty (customer complaint?)
- ???

-- Modified on 10/29/2015 12:04:54 AM

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Debra_Hollander11 years ago599 reads

The likely explanation is pretty boring...

Posted By: impposter

Any idea what that means?
- Forgot to pay her P411 bill?
- Some kind of penalty (customer complaint?)
- ???

-- Modified on 10/29/2015 12:04:54 AM

It's free to be listed on P411; there's only a charge for top placement, visiting ads, etc. So even if she did not pay for one of those ad upgrades, her listing would still be available.

Most likely, her account was suspended for not responding to a P411 Request within the lime limit, which is 4 days.

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PollieAmorous11 years ago460 reads

exactly

Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl

Posted By: impposter

Any idea what that means?
- Forgot to pay her P411 bill?
- Some kind of penalty (customer complaint?)
- ???

-- Modified on 10/29/2015 12:04:54 AM

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6vegas911 years ago666 reads

I do recall a lady telling me that they are also required to login on a regular basis.

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Debra_Hollander11 years ago397 reads

It's definitely not a perfect system.

Posted By: PollieAmorous

If you saw him and lived you have to ok him.

If you saw him, DIDN'T GET ARRESTED, and lived.... then he deserves an OK, according to their system.

There do seem to be some few exceptions to that, though.

I recently had an experience which showed an OK can be removed: I contacted the gentleman's OKs and one of them responded that something negative had transpired with him during repeated visits. She'd forgotten she'd given him an OK after their first session so after my reference request, she rescinded her ok.
Initially, she was locked-out/suspended from P411 but after enlightening them as to what happened, her OK was removed and her account was restored.

Oh, and I personally received an OK request from someone I met more than 6 months ago but in his request he claimed our date was much more recent. So I declined the OK request and stated that I had no record of seeing him when he claimed. He did not get the ok, and I didn't hear anything more about it.

So maybe it's a case by case thing? IDK.

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scoed11 years ago442 reads

I talked to Gina about the OKs,

As a non provider I will state I never see your side of the site nor refused to give an OK. But from what I understand from talking to Gina you can refuse to give an OK but you must make a case as to why. I know for a fact that if a guy gets too many complaints he is gone from the site. On another site such a loser was whining about it.

As to why I was talking to Gina, well there was a lady who was wearing a damn akle monitor as she was serving in home time for prostitution. And I wanted to warn people without outing her to the cops that a review would do. I was curious about things and asked.

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scoed11 years ago376 reads

PS. I wouldn't accept OKS alone.

Like reviews there is far to much abuse.

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russbbj11 years ago327 reads

damn!!!

I really like ankle bracelets, the dainty jewelry kind.

It would be difficult to focus on a date with a lady wearing the court ordered kind though.

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scoed11 years ago284 reads

Especially since her incall was her home.

And legally when under home confinement LE can just stop by any time and search the place. She was putting her clients at risk.

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Heathergfe11 years ago303 reads

Re: It's definitely not a perfect system.

I used to get pretty annoyed when a lady would ask me if a guy I OK'd was OK. I thought of course, otherwise I would not have OK'd him. But then I had an issue with a guy and did not want to OK him. It was a disaster. I won the case and he didn't get the OK but that is because he broke a rule in the process. Otherwise I would have been forced to give him the OK. I asked some of his other OKs and they all hated him but since he paid and they didn't get arrested or hurt they had to give him an OK.

I like the way date-check allows you to give different types of OKs.

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GinaXXX11 years ago218 reads

Re: It's definitely not a perfect system.

Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl

Posted By: PollieAmorous

If you saw him and lived you have to ok him.

If you saw him, DIDN'T GET ARRESTED, and lived.... then he deserves an OK, according to their system.

Actually, our expectation is that if a client arrived on time, paid the agreed upon amount, left when he was supposed to.... and was NO MORE TROUBLE THAN YOUR AVERAGE CLIENT, he deserves an Okay.

That you means you can decline any Okay, for any reason, as long as that reason is not tied to your own financial gain (ie: he needs to see me twice before I'll give an Okay) or personal desires (ie: he promised me a review, but hasn't posted it yet).

Valid reasons include: client stank, client keep asking for services I don't provide, client overstayed time, client bad mouthed other providers, whatever.

So we're really not as mean and difficult as some providers try to make it sound.

Always,
Gin