I'm not talking about being burned out. That is, fucking so much that you get tired of fucking. What I'm trying to say is, after all the girls I've fucked, from short to tall, from blondes to brunettes, from big titty girls to small titty girls, from BBW's to spinners, and from mature providers to young providers. After a while, I hate to say it, but, it all seems the same. That is, I've seen so many girls within the past several years, that, even though she looks gorgeous, like a 10, and performs like a 10, well, it isn't exciting as it use to be.

At first, I was fucking for the variety. But now, it feels like I have already satisfied that. Been with her, tried this, and tried that. Its not a hobby burn out. Guess what I am trying to say is, I've fucked so many girls, and now, it all seems the same. Even though she may physically look different, it doesn't bring me much excitement as it use to be.

Perhaps I should narrow it down to possible just once a month or something? I really don't know what's going on. Do you guys know what I am talking about? Been there, done that. What's new? Guess nothings new since I've already did that.

Kinda weird, but, I'll do an analogy. Okay, lets say I tried crack for the first time. The first few times, it feels great. After a while, you kinda build a tolerance to it. After a year or so, well, you already know what cracks feels like, and it doesn't do much for you anymore. So, you want the stronger stuff and possibly try new things. I do not promote or use drugs, this was the only analogy I can come up with as it relates to the hobby.

Can anyone here relate to me? Or is it just me?

Of course, eating the same thing every day will make you bored of it...doesn't matter what it is.

But I don't find being with a girl like trying a drug for the first time.  Sometimes it gets better, and sometimes it's the same.  Depends on the girl.  My ATF I'm with now is not only stimulating for the sex, but because she is really just an amazing girl that I like to hang out with.

Everyone is different.  Maybe you look at girls now as really just a hole and a heartbeat.  And that's fine.  Some guys look at cars as being purely utilitarian vehicles for getting one from point A to point B.  Others will revel in the engineering of a particular car versus another.

While I don't have anywhere near the experience you do, I definitely do sense a decline in how excited I get about an upcoming meeting as the "novelty factor" of the hobby has gone away.  I'm not where you are yet, but could definitely see myself getting there.

know the problem, and have the solution. Just do it man. I don't know how much you hobby, but based on your previous posts, its at least couple of times a week at weird hours.  

Perhaps, cut that in half or hobby just once a month to see if you enjoy it. The key is to enjoy it, and not resent it later on.

I am thinking of doing the same thing.

Just do it when you really want (or need) it.

You'll save money and be happier.

It's a win/win.

Try to find other hobbies or sports in the meantime to fill the void so you are not bored.

I can relate with what you are saying.  Even though I keep seeing people when it's all done I still feel the same like I had this before.  Something I do to switch it up is to see  providers with little or no reviews.  You never know what you are going to get  so you have the element of suprise LOL.  However at the end you still get that same feeling done that.

I don't know if you see the same lady more than once but a real relationship perhaps is what you have not tried. Not the real getting involved but visiting and becoming intimate and emotional.  

If it's just sex acts your looking for then what you have experienced will continue. Do you make any emotional connection with the ladies you see. Have you thought of any of the ladies you met long after your meeting and wanted to see more of them. There are deeper bonds with a provider than just the one and done deal which aren't usually met with a first visit. Not every man finds that appealing which might be your case but seems you have desensitized yourself much like masturbating far to much while watching porn.

Kisses Haley

Hi CS,

I feel the same way about my ATF!!  It still feels like the first time when I see her!!  I think I'll right a song... Oh wait... Foreigner has already wrote that song!! :oP

I still love it.

So yes, It must be you. lmao

If you are not enjoying it, do not find it worth the time or money, you have two choices. Either stop, or do it differently.

Funny that you feel the need to deny it is burnout, btw. Is there something wrong with being burned out and needing to take a break?

So quit, or try different things. Maybe you need to have a relationship with one lady, try new things (perhaps see a domme or explore some fetishes), look for a SB, hit some pro/am site, or who knows what. But you might want to take some time off first and see how horny that makes you. That way you will know it is boredom, and not a declining sex drive.

zig

but through years of fucking all these young, cute chicas to the tune of 20 a week....

Now his "penis" is nearly 5.7" due to swelling  

Good news if he wants to fuck London  BTW

One of the few concepts I remember from my macro class at college.

For me the "burn out" happened after seeing just a dozen providers. Once you been with all the "girls of your dreams", it then all seems the same. As Mr. Fisher said, the solution is to save your $$$ and only do it when you really want it. So far my dry spell is going on 6-weeks... But before I started seeing providers, I had a dry spell for over a decade!

but after decades of wear and tear, it is barely half of it's original length and now it is within LR"s "comfort range", although just barely. lmao