The most important thing for me is not what she does or does not do; rather, it is whether she keeps herself clean and healthy.

Sure, if I find the idea of having intimate encounters with someone who's being shared by other guys repulsive, I don't think I would have been doing this to begin with. I realize there're risks but for now I'm willing to accept the fact that I'm taking calculated risks.

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Your headline makes it sound like you don't like DATY at all.

Then you imply that your reason for not doing it is the woman's total overall experience.

THEN you imply that your reservation about DATY may just be if you are last in line after a long day.

You say you see exclusive ladies, but exclusive ladies don't see 8 guys a day.

For such a short post, your lack of clarity creates a lot of confusion.

You Can Have Your Cake And....

Sorry, I'm getting a touchy feeling about why you are partial about DATY. You can dick around all you want without giving oral sex. Not that is anything wrong with it. Just different strokes for different folks. But seeing women getting orgasmic from DATY is another enjoyment too. More bang for the buck.

Whether she sees 6-8 guys, 68 guys, or 1 guy, it's not like she's saving it all up down there.  Besides, she could probably say the same thing about you.  After all, she doesn't know where you've been playing either.  Or how many times before her also.

no...

just the only one I've seen proclaim it on a message board... so far anyway. If you'd have said it "doesn't smell right" you'd have given away your identity, though.

You won't DATY on a "exclusive lady" but she can give you a BJ? (most likely a BBBJ too)

That doesn't seem fair, now does it?

How many "exclusive ladies" have you plunged and pillaged?? What makes it right for you to turn away but yet you expect it from her?
Thats bogus!

I think 40W, Reb, and Guz pretty much have this thread covered.

At first glance at your subject line, I couldn't believe ANY man would feel that way (although I know some do..poor, limited souls).  However, after looking at your text, I think the others pretty much said it all.

BTW, 40W...nice recovery.  That's the bright light I know!

YUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM.........

Beside's, you feel great all day at work afterwards.

First I will say, if you are seeing ladies you will not go down on then maybe you need to think about your selection process a little.

Second thing I will say, the reason I DATY with the ladies I see is purely selfish on my part. I truly love looking up at her face, with her eyes rolled back in her head, to hear the moans she makes and feel her thrust back at my face and the point when she pushes my head away because she has had an orgasm and she is to sensitive to let me continue. The other selfish part is I know if I have given her some pleasure it will be returned double when it's my turn to get oral.

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-- Modified on 4/1/2005 9:55:18 AM

I'll finish what he couldn't start.

Lex Luethor
Limp as a noodle and easily pleased.
Clean, well-mannered, hairless, and occasionally coherent.

Since you're concerned about the guys who have been there before re: DATY, you certainly won't want to kiss her either--think of those icky germs and where they came from.

So, since you can't kiss her and you can't do DATY, your session is not going to be particularly hot (compared to what it could be).

Why don't you search the reviews for the ladies with lower performance ratings? Those ladies don't like to kiss or do DATY either, and they are almost always bargain-priced.

Why pay for the good stuff if you're not going to do it?

...we pay so that we can do it the way WE (the clients) like it.  If you don't like DATY, don't do it, and don't complain about it.  It's not some double standard if you like a BBJ but not DATY - the money is the compensation.

a lady sees 1 client or 8, they usually shower after each one therefore you're always first down there.