never travel anywhere without telling someone who and where your going. That might be tough for you if you are new. Women get hurt all the time so don't let it happen to you.

I would never drive 3 hours to see someone I have never met before with no info. Most providers ask for references but since I know little to nothing about you I would be afraid to give out info to you.

Remember you will be driving 3 hours each way . That's 6 hours of your time and then the time spent with the gentleman.

Stay safe and don't let a few dollar signs rule your head

Kisses Haley

for someone else?  I could buy it if it was a provider you knew and the guy wanted a FMF duo; assuming you were comfortable with that.

I have a VERY strong opinion against this fucking site!!!

For one, I fucking hate Backpage!!!

Not for something that happened to me, but someone else.

It makes my fucking skin crawl when a legitimate provider has to resort to using that fucking venue!

If it was up to me, I'd make as many dates as possible to make sure she wouldn't have to resort to that fucking site.

So many goddam predators and pieces-of-shit inhabit that fucking site.

No fucking reviews, or legit references.

Leaving a lady to second guess her better judgement and end up in a fucked-up situation.

Oh yeah. I can hear it now. Guys saying they're cool with Backpage. You know what? Fuck you!!!!

Take my post down. I don't give a fuck. As long as one lady saw it, and she thought about posting on Backpage and it changed her mind, that's all that matters.

Fucking peace!

Neona, if this situation motivated you to post the question on the gd board, then you already know the answer. The whole things sounds fishy.

This is the classic B&S tactic and is TGTBT.

Similar to posting the super hottie photos (not real) on CL with a super low rate. Guy shows up, plunks down cash, and she says "I don't do anything illegal, what  do you want to do?"

This is too much money for too little. There are folks that do this but the unknown here is too risky.

I would only proceed if you can establish her as a good and verifiable provider you can trust, and him as a client. Just as you would any client. Then bring backup.

You make your 3 hr drive.  It takes you to a dumpy, rundown neighborhood that LE won't even visit. But hey, $500 for a spanking, why not?  You go in and the door locks behind you and two large bull dikes greet you with ropes, and a blindfold. They take you out, to a different house, blocks away, and leave your car where it is.  Wow, kinky stuff, and you get $500!
They drag you down the stairs and lift the blindfold so you can see the dungeon.  Now they take you to the really nice, comfy accommodations they have arranged for you.  Turns out the spanking wasn't for him.  You are put in those comfy accommodations, and the fun begins...their fun.  The $500 is in front of you right out of reach, byt you'll get it, and it will come in handy.  So the play begins, and goes on, and on, for hours.  As soon as one quits, the next one starts.  This no longer seems like fun.  OOOOPs after a 15 minute rest, here comes the gang to start all over for another few hours.  It's been 3 days now, you get maybe 15 minutes before a new group comes to play.  Oh, and that $500..think of it as a kind of salad as it's the only thing they are going to feed you.  During week two of this you begin to wonder if this was a good idea, and you wonder if you should have listened to that lady who emailed you, or the goofballs on the TER GD board who said "as long as you are careful"
Well, you've been there almost 3 weeks, and just ate the last of the $500.  They are bored now, and decide to leave, but....NOT take you.  You are in your comfy accomodations, in the dark, miles from your car, and hours from home.
How was that $500????
You got any more questions about whether or not this is a good idea????
OH, BTW....check out the comfy accomodations we talked about.  Nice huh?

Re: Legit offer or not? Provider to Provider

The response to your posting has been vocal and unanimous.  But one thing hasn't come up:  "Provider to Provider", "an email from a FEMALE"?  Yeah, sure.